Advice needed... - Page 2

Originally posted by: kal-el

well guys have this unwritten rule that you dont date another guys sister or cousin or ex or ex wife its an unwriten rule but guys know and understand this so am sure girls have the same kind of code.

also irrelevant of who your friend is with you or whoever dating her ex husband would put a strain on the friendship

I agree. We call it the golden rule. No matter wat, once u break it, it always make someone the bad guy.

And like Vinu said, u have to find out y they split in the first place. If it was me, I would hope that the is honest enough to tell me the truth, even though it might have some thing to do with me.

Originally posted by: Gracella

Hey friends,

i need to ask something...

IF a guy who has been married to ur Friend suddenly starts loving you..and you also kind feel attracted...is it wrong to be with him??

Please Note: the guy had been married... but is already divorced😉 and has told yah that he has forgotten his past and wants to be with you only.....oh and he;s really hot!!😳😳

what would u do...?😛

i think this will be decided thrOugh mind but nOt heart...... lifetime relatiOnship's decisiOns have been taken mOstly thrOugh hearts...

firstly try tO understand the reasOn Of his divOrce.......

Originally posted by: Lovers Ka Love

i think this will be decided thrOugh mind but nOt heart...... lifetime relatiOnship's decisiOns have been taken mOstly thrOugh hearts...

firstly try tO understand the reasOn Of his divOrce.......

yep, think so too

I agree with everyone...
Gracy...stay away from ur friends ex-hubby... not a good thing... it will just ruin ur friendship... 😳

Originally posted by: sweethoney06

I think if the girl has moved on then there is no harm in the guy wanting to be with u and u not trying to be with him.. I mean what's the harm if she is with some1 and the girl the guy likes is u?..So therfore i feel that u can be with him... and if she feels that u were doing this behind her back then u know her thinking is wrong..so try talking to her slowly..because she might feel that u already liked him from b4 so..i feel there shudn't be anything wrong..

ah sehrish! thankoo ji.. that was a wonderful reply...and no she doesn't feel i am doing this behind her back..she is aware of the fact that the guy loves me now..i've talked to her..and as sweet as i am i've asked her if she would mind it...but i think she needs some time to think...

i only wanted to know if i would be wrong if i would say yes to him....😕
and not tha ti need her razza mandi.. but she is my friend...and i want her to be khush nah with this decision....

Originally posted by: *~Sapna~*

I agree with everyone...
Gracy...stay away from ur friends ex-hubby... not a good thing... it will just ruin ur friendship... 😳

sapna ji i was waiting for u yaar😳
hmm u agree wit heveryone.. almost all of them said i should be with him!!😳
And if my friend loves me..she will know the ex-hubby's khushi is with me😉

wow guys so many cool replies! thank you all yaar!! 👏

Originally posted by: Gracella

sapna ji i was waiting for u yaar😳
hmm u agree wit heveryone.. almost all of them said i should be with him!!😳
And if my friend loves me..she will know the ex-hubby's khushi is with me😉

really? 😕

we need some logical members here... if they all said yes...😭

listen...I think it will be wrong...so don't do it jee😉😳

Originally posted by: *~Sapna~*

really? 😕

we need some logical members here... if they all said yes...😭

listen...I think it will be wrong...so don't do it jee😉😳

lolz no, i think basically everyone said no except few. well ya i agree with sapu..it is kinda wrong and u don't wanna end up hurting urself. i look at it this way.. if the guy couldn't be committed to his WIFE..why would he be committed to me?i know i m being judgmental here..maybe it wasn't guy's fault at all..but well u have to look at the bigger picture. n i agree with nuggy's golden rules of friendship.. 😳

Originally posted by: Gracella

oh Israa thankoo..that is just what i thought too..btw how are you..so sorry i forgot to say bye to you yaar😭

hey there, gracy am alright n u?? Thats ok am not that active on chit chat nowaday!!

Nyway think welll before making any kind of decision!!!