Shobhaa De: Why attack a 'Makdee'... and spare the snakes?

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Why attack a Makdee'... and spare the snakes?

By Shobhaa De, Mumbai Mirror | Sep 6, 2014, 12.20 AM IST

I was really, really aghast to read the entirely unfair publicity given to a vulnerable young actress driven to prostitution after experiencing abject failure in Bollywood, despite a promising start. And what a start it was! 11-year-old Shweta Basu Prasad won a National Film Award for Best Child Artist in 2002 for her performance in Vishal Bharadwaj's film, Makdee.

Twelve short years later, at 23, the poor girl is splashed across national and regional newspapers after she was "caught in a compromising situation" in a Hyderabad hotel. Arrested by the over-vigilant cops and packed off to a Rehabilitation Home, Shweta faces a minimum of ten days in custody while the cops frame a charge sheet.

Effectively, her life and career are both over. And I fear for her safety. Going by the abysmal track record of how all such state-run shelters function, with rampant sexual abuse, torture, starvation and worse, Shweta is likely to face a whole host of nasty problems while she is being 'rehabilitated' at government expense. Meanwhile, the media will sadistically pounce on the juicy story and torment her further... till the next scandal... and the next.

Shweta's sordid experience in showbiz is not new or unique. There are thousands of Shwetas out there, struggling to survive in a heartless industry, which is more of a meat-packing factory than a provider of legitimate entertainment.

The real tragedy of girls like Shweta kicks in after they taste early success, and then nothing happens. Buoyed by praise and misled by avaricious agents, they start dreaming big and expecting too much. Since image is everything these days, they often end up living way beyond their means, frequently borrowing money to subsidise their jumpedup lifestyles. Movie business world over functions in exactly the same way, when it comes to women. It works on a demand/supply principle. The supply always exceeds the demand.

There alarming number of young girls waiting for a break and willing to go to any lengths to get it. Shweta had it better than most, having worked with established directors like Nagesh Kuknoor and Ram Gopal Varma. Despite such a huge advantage, Shweta, when she was busted in the staged raid, was broke and jobless. In her brave and upfront statement, she stated she had a family to support and was lured into prostitution by an agent who set her up with a Mumbai businessman.

Why pick on a comparative non-entity like Shweta, when there are hundreds of high-profile, prominent, top bracket stars indulging in exactly the same 'dhanda'? It's an open secret in Bollywood as insiders snigger about the 'rate cards' doing the rounds. Some of the featured names would make most people roll over and die of shock!

One wonders where Shweta went wrong. She blames her flop career to picking the wrong roles. A lot of actresses pick wrong roles, but not all of them become prostitutes. The problem is different. Bollywood refuses to acknowledge the levels of poverty and desperation that drive young aspirants (male and female) to seek other avenues to pay their bills and stay alive. Some of these strugglers take to drugs and alcohol (a brave admission by 'Mary Kom' Director Omung Kumar Bhandula, that his FTII-trained father died an alcoholic after failing to get roles), and that path often leads to prostitution or even suicide.

Shweta is a victim of a sting operation conducted by a Telugu television channel. She was easy bait. With no powerful patrons or backers, Shweta turned out to be just the thing a TRP-obsessed media organisation could effortlessly exploit. But why have Shweta's clients been shielded from media glare? Why aren't they being named and shamed? Why pick on Shweta? Her story got the cops what they were looking for - attention. And the channel got its eyeballs. Where does that leave Shweta? At the bottom of a pit... still poor... and now shunned as well.

'Balu', the pimp who booked her for a fee of one lakh a night (keeping 15k as his commission) allegedly assured her she wasn't the only actress indulging in this racket, and several other actresses also freelanced as prostitutes in order to keep body and soul together. This was Shweta's third 'assignment' and possibly her last. At 23, her future is looking scarily dark and grim. If anything happens to this young woman, who will assume responsibility? The State? Bollywood? Society?

We need to take better care of the Shwetas we may know in our own lives. We certainly owe a desperate, hungry, young person that much.

http://www.mumbaimirror.com/columns/columnists/shobhaa-de/Why-attack-a-Makdee-and-spare-the-snakes/articleshow/41815656.cms
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Posted: 11 years ago
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From casting director Mukesh Chhabra's blog:

Why name and shame her alone?

On any given day, I am just another jovial Punjabi who is happy when my team puts in a hard day of work. The past few days I have been sad, bitter, distraught and shocked. The media's insensitive reportage of an actor's plight has caused me severe stress and trauma. I tried to vent out my anger by tweeting about it, but what I have to say can't fit in a mere 140 characters.

Being a casting director, I have to deal with actors of all kinds on a daily basis. I know what an actor goes through - before and after bagging a part. I can sympathize and empathize with all of their situations. Not everybody who wants to be an actor has the privilege of financial independence. It took me a good five years or more to make a mark for myself in the industry.

I have seen the highs and the lows of being in this industry. But this isn't about me - this piece is about an actor who made or was forced to take a path for whatever her reason was. The damage has been done; she has been shamed publically. She is being judged by almost everybody in the industry, barring a few, like Hansal Mehta, who has offered her a part in his film. I hope more people come forward to her rescue.

Though I have read enough and more about the rights of those who have been accused of prostitution, the most basic right is that of protecting the identity. Some unscrupulous people in the media have even put some raunchy picture of the poor girl to spice up' their article. This is the pits... outright appalling. Just how far will the media go to grab attention? Wonder if they would do the same if something scandalous involved their own family member...

What has angered me the most is that though the said media dug out all the details of the actor, they have conveniently hidden the identity of the rich and influential people who paid her for their carnal pleasures. What kind of justice is this? If you want to be fair, name everybody who is involved. Irrespective of how rich or powerful they are.

While we have no right to judge the poor girl for doing what she did, under whatever circumstances, the media could have at least spared her the horror of living with this shame for the rest of her life. She is a National Award winning actor for heaven' sake! I really hope she doesn't let this horrible media tomfoolery scar her career.

I will not hesitate before calling her to audition for a role that I think she will do justice to. I humbly request my friends and peers in the industry to give her a chance to prove her mettle as an actor. I am sure she will deliver when the right part comes her way. One word of advice for all actors who are trying to make it - NOTHING is above your own self-respect. Don't fall prey to any such fatal temptations to make quick money.

If you haven't made it yet, as an actor, and you have circumstances that require you to fetch money to provide for the family, there are other jobs that you can do. Once the financial situation is sorted, you can come back and look for work as an actor. It isn't just about you alone - your family loves you, and as much as they would like to see you on the big screen, they would NOT want you to compromise on your dignity.

Think about all the lives that will be jeopardized because of one wrong choice that you might make in your life. THINK.

Love

Mukesh chhabra


Edited by nikitagmc - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why don't they release the names of so called "high profile businessmen".

Supply comes ONLY when there is Demand


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bang on 👏
Where. Are the big fish?
Edited by addictedlove - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Can of worms. Surprisingly her mentors Vishal and Kukunoor aren't saying anything. The latter got accolades for his last movie on prostitution.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow, finally someone said it. I wish some of the so called stars had said something in her favor. Oh well, she's so right. Everyone is getting a bite of success by running this story while she's being the soft target here. While reading the article, I felt so helpless for the poor little thing with no one to support her. Life is a bitch especially with the helpless beings...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Is she a soft target?'

Sakshi Tanwar, who played Shweta Prasad's mother in the serial Kahaani Ghar Ghar Kii, writes a heartfelt piece about her

My on-screen daughter...

Around 14 years ago I started shooting for a TV show. After the first few episodes the girl, who was playing my daughter in the show was replaced by a very sweet and talented nine-year-old, who took to the role like it was written for her. Our bond grew so strong that since then, for the past 13 years, she has wished me on Mother's Day every single year. Beyond a warm and sweet gesture it is a reflection of the values she has grown up with, I would ask her about her studies and work, and she would always reply with confidence and assurance that all is well.

How I wish it was...

Few days ago that adorable little child of mine on screen hit the headlines for all the wrong reasons. Since then I have been getting a lot of phone calls and messages asking me if I "read about my on-screen daughter". My reply: "Yes! I read about her because the reports are only writing about her. Had they written about her so called high profile "businessmen" clients involved, I would have read about them too". Honestly, I'm quite disappointed that the media reports have so selectively guarded their identity and names. I have no interest in knowing about those degenerate "businessmen", but I would have loved to see their names come to the fore so that their families " mothers, daughters, sisters and wives " and friends would get an insight into their recreational habits.

I'm appalled at the way the issue has been dealt with by the media. We, the people, are so eager to pass judgments and share opinions about her on social media, but none of us have walked the hard yards in her shoes...so, do we actually have a right to judge her yet? I don't know her reasons and problems, and I don't know any solutions either... All I know is that she is kept in a remand home and that she has apparently given a statement accepting it. At least she has been brave enough to accept it (as per the reports). I had been intending to write this piece since I got to know about it, but I wanted to first speak to her. Unable to do that, I did manage to talk to her real-life mother today. How many of us know that her mother has not been allowed to meet her in the remand home yet? How many of us know that the attending judge has told her mother that she is cheering up kids and other women in the remand home by talking about music and life. Her mother is feeling deprived, dejected and even defeated...and understandably so. She has a few very valid questions " "My daughter is not a criminal, why is her name being maligned like this? What if this irresponsible reporting along with her photographs by the media has a long-lasting scarring impact on her? What if tomorrow she finds it impossible to carry the bitter remains of her life and takes a drastic step, God forbid...

Does anyone have an answer?

Her mother and many other women, including me, want to know the answers to some more questions. Why has the large section of media been so selective in highlighting the girl? Why the names and photographs of the businessmen not splashed all over, like the girl's? Why have those men been granted the right to privacy and not the girl? Is she a soft target just because she is an actor and a public figure? Why is our moral police quiet about this? In a country where even rapists and murderers are given the right to privacy, why has her right been violated? Why this irresponsible insensitive stand against her?

Published Date: Sep 08, 2014

Edited by NailClipper - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Think of a headline like this

"Shocking! Ramakrishna Varma and Vijay Hassan caught in a prostitution raid"

How many would be interested in clicking the article, when the names are completely unknown? Media is all about sensationalism. So I hope the "WHY" questions are answered.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Normally Shobha De can be a total bitch clawing out with viciousness. Every now and then though she comes up with something poignant, eloquent and logical. When she does it right, she has the ability to ask tough questions to society and make us think.

Kudos to Shobha De, Sakshi Tanwar and others inside and outside the industry who have spoken up in support. It echoes my sentiments?

Where are the demanders and the exploiters? Why merely blame the hapless supply.
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Originally posted by: rajpreeto

Why don't they release the names of so called "high profile businessmen".

Supply comes ONLY when there is Demand



Exactly...s**t shaming the women and those bas***d assholes who are supposed to be the izzatdaar community go stock free🤢...i say bring out the names of those pimps and customers...before moving on to the ladies🤢🤢

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