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@Ashvarna, factfictionmyth I dont know how CVs are going to show Bhagavad Gita. But as a person who have read it, I know one thing for sure about it, it teaches you to live. It teaches you to have self belief and own your actions. It teaches you how to burn and become a lamp. And the critical 8 lines are the assurance from God himself and have absolute faith in them, no matter what is happening and if the world around you is dark, if you have dharma by your side, he will lift the chakra and show the sun at the right time. Never walk back, walk forward and forward only. Understand he knows what you want, he will open the oppourtunity for you. Be prepared to grab it when it is opened. It is the best book that will help you understand time as not even God is the owner of time and cannot stop time. But it will teach you, how to understand time and use it the right way.
@anshvi Arjun a man bought up with some love creates a golden cage, Maya a girl who has lost her innocence as a child, a girl who has been pushed again and again in the darkness, who is afraid of a man pushing her in darkness creates a cage. Yes they cannot be compared. But the mother Jhanvi knows right why the daughter is like that. Why she has a controlling nature, what she has undergone. Did she made any effort from her side to give assurance to the girl that in the next available oppourtunity she wont run to Ashwin. She could have directed the girl. A child need direction which at first comes from parents. With a baggage this girl grew up and Jhanvi expects her to give freewill to her, when she watched the freewill of the child repeatedly being taken away by her father. Dont tell the child could have defended. She learned life the way her father showed her. Because her father was winning, while her mother was crying and whining when each time she was pushed to darkness. If she had to come out of her father's ways, Jhanvi should have taken solid step. Now Jhanvi has got children who has been given upbringing by a different set of parents.
In making Maya the monster Jhanvi had a big role to play. But everyone thinks as if she has done nothing. Maya was born the way she was from air. All problem to Maya.
When Maya created the cage of Arjun it was again her insecurities which he never understood because he didnt wanted to hear her past which she was going to tell. He told the past doesnt matter. Past matters, because unless you understand past you dont understand why a person behaves a certain way and then provide them the right kind of support. Look at Arjun today. This man is waiting with a gun that has a bullet in Maya's name. How much ever Saanjh tells, the bullet is between them. Because the past is not closed . Ayan is feeling his life is over, again he is unable to move from past and he is given support to move from past and still neither Arjun nor Ayan can move. How could a girl who didnt had any emotional support come out of her past. Come out of that dark room. hadhsejyada you know psychology better than me. Tell me is it possible for a girl like Maya who had suffered severe mental abuse in childhood to come out of that without continuous adequate emotional support, love and acceptance of what happened to her was wrong.
In a way I was happy they showed Bhagavad Gita in Maya's hand. That book should have been in her hand long back. Because that book offers direction to those who are direction less. That book gives hope to people who believe this world has only matlabi people. That book offers solace to those who are feeling lonely. That book tells you, you own your actions and no one is responsible for what you have done, never blame any external person, situation or place for your problem. The problem is you and your incorrect thoughts. It applies to everyone in the world. Dont expect the world to change, change the way you look at the world. Let whatever be your background if at any point you have to fight a war to see the light, and even if no one is there for you, that book will be there for you. Always. The word of the Supreme Power will at any time form your direction. Trust it with all might. You will lose the battle and win the war.
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