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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: RebeccaSweety

I agree wid u @sellysona..

infact d pandit said tes wrds which vandana happily ignored

<font size="3">"isse achi jodi meine aaj tak nahi dekhi. yeh ladki apna poora pyaar iss ladke ko degi. khushiyon se jeevan bhar jayega inka"</font>

<font size="2">isnt dis prediction jus awsm? esp d khushi part. bt stl shez unhpy..</font>

I want to say in one line beyhadh pyaar is not a boon it's a bane.
My POV...
BTW maya is looking very pretty in her wedding dress
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumz_d



You have said it all! Bang on reply!

I can't believe how people are supporting Ashwin? And Saanjh fans call Maya fans mad and blind but just look at the irony. They can support evil and believe that evil guy Ashwin so that their Favourite Saanjh's rasta gets cleared. Lol


This post is not about shipping any couple. So please refrain from commenting such things. Sorry if I offend you
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Posted: 8 years ago
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To the TM.
I m very glad to see yaar that you are peacefully trying to point ur opinion and not leading to fights..
I think for sure we can peacefully discuss contrast pov in your thread without creating a war zone.
You know my reason for disagreeing wth vandana is bcoz i strongly hate superstitions and pandit predictions.
And anyone acting blindly on it just piss me off..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumz_d


You have said it all! Bang on reply!

I can't believe how people are supporting Ashwin? And Saanjh fans call Maya fans mad and blind but just look at the irony. They can support evil and believe that evil guy Ashwin so that their Favourite Saanjh's rasta gets cleared. Lol



Yes, I don't think Maya is insane. On the contrary, I think the actual paagal is Ashwin. The society needs to change the attitude towards people who are having mental issues. Ashwin is the cause for Maya's mental state and Vandana despite knowing what he has done to Maya is believing him. She has stooped to such a low level.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: charanyaaj

I want to say in one line beyhadh pyaar is not a boon it's a bane.
My POV...
BTW maya is looking very pretty in her wedding dress


Hadd se zyada kuch bhi accha nahin hain. Pyaar bhi nahin. If I have to say it in English, it is ,"Too Much is too bad."

Anything more than required is not good. If unlimited love is not good, then even unlimited suffering is worse than that. Unlimited torture is even worse. That is what Ashwin has done to Maya. If the pundit had told the same thing for Saanjh, she would have ignored it. If Saanjh was having mental issues like Maya, then also she would give her that love and heal her so she would become eligible for Arjun. So her problem is not what the pundit said. That is all the lame excuse. The fact is that she wants Saanjh as her DIL, whether good or bad. Even Arjun says that she supports Saanjh more than him. If Arjun's biological mother was alive, she would never do that.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sellysona

To the TM.
I m very glad to see yaar that you are peacefully trying to point ur opinion and not leading to fights..
I think for sure we can peacefully discuss contrast pov in your thread without creating a war zone.
You know my reason for disagreeing wth vandana is bcoz i strongly hate superstitions and pandit predictions.
And anyone acting blindly on it just piss me off..

Thank you 😊
I agree with you everyone has different POV. I see many ppl speaking against vandana. When it comes to her child literally mom stops using her brain. She stops thinking rationally when it comes to her child that's what I'm trying to say.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: katrinasalman


Hadd se zyada kuch bhi accha nahin hain. Pyaar bhi nahin. If I have to say it in English, it is ,"Too Much is too bad."

Anything more than required is not good. If unlimited love is not good, then even unlimited suffering is worse than that. Unlimited torture is even worse. That is what Ashwin has done to Maya. If the pundit had told the same thing for Saanjh, she would have ignored it. If Saanjh was having mental issues like Maya, then also she would give her that love and heal her so she would become eligible for Arjun. So her problem is not what the pundit said. That is all the lame excuse. The fact is that she wants Saanjh as her DIL, whether good or bad. Even Arjun says that she supports Saanjh more than him. If Arjun's biological mother was alive, she would never do that.

I don't want to analyse full saanjh thing but this all started only after mehendi. One more thing even his biological do the same like vandana because a mother is a mother cares only about her child's safety happiness
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: charanyaaj

I don't want to analyse full saanjh thing but this all started only after mehendi. One more thing even his biological do the same like vandana because a mother is a mother cares only about her child's safety happiness



That is a fact whether you accept it or not. Her problem is not kundli, it is Maya. In the earlier episodes, the pundit said Saajun wedding cannot take place but Vandana was pushing it. You cannot only take one aspect. You have to consider everything.
Vandana goes by what the pundit said then
Pros:
1. He said it's the best Jodi he has ever seen
2. Their lives will be filled with happiness
3. Maya will love Arjun more than her life
4. 36 of their "guns" matched
5. If love can bring you to the ground it can also soar you high in the sky
Cons:
1. Maya's obsessive love can lead to Arjun getting pain in the process...

So clearly there are more pros than cons yet she is stuck on the fact that this wedding shouldn't happen... don't get the logic that she is using! Making me laugh TBH.

Even the cons can be converted into the pros provided you know how to handle it. Give her the same love and have patience.

There is a difference between biological mother and a step mother. A real mother can understand her child better. If she had found any such thing, she would have accepted Maya as her own daughter and give her that love she is craving for. A mother would take all the factors into consideration before deciding anything. I'm telling this from my experience. I have lost my mother. She was an angel. No one else could have loved me as much as she did. She never used to come to the immediate conclusion.
Edited by katrinasalman - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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have read so many post and i always see the same thing. That would be the comparison between both girls. If its not saanj grew up in a happy family and maya didnt, its if it was saanj would she had react this way. Come on, both girls are different for a reason, its neither of their fault that there life ended up this way. Hypothetically speaking, if vandana love saanj more then Maya its only because she had known that girl for so long. If she doesnt like maya than shouldnt maya try to find a way for her to like her? Show vandana shes not what she seem?
Yes, but maya isnt that type of person. When did she ever care if someone other then arjun didnt like her. An when she does care its for her benefit. Vandana is a good mom, we dont really know her background story of how her an arjun dad fell in love. Honestly its not important to me, what i do know is that , shes thinking about his well being, thats not selfish.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: charanyaaj

I just come across such post like Maya deserves happiness and she suffered a lot and all...
I support vandana in this case. Which mom accept a dil like maya? Practically speaking it is not possible. I feel maya feels arjun is her possession I realised in the way she proposed him in parachute if he said no then????
So for maya she wants everything should be in her favour. I feel it's not true love she wants to possess arjun. She is doing all these things for that.
I agree maya deserves to be happy, she faced a lot of problem likewise arjun also deserves to live peaceful life. Do you guys think is it possible if he marry maya? That is vandana's pov. For a mother her child's happiness is important. Like how jhanvi hiding and supporting maya's truth from arjun and whole world.
I don't know whether arjun loves maya truly or not but he deserve to know the truth. If he accept maya then he is truly in love with her. What if he is not ready to accept the truth?? Then also she will face same kind of problem like ashwin did. It will increase her problem more. She deserves to be happy only it is possible if arjun knows the whole truth and ready to accept her. Then only all her problem will reduce.
Hiding truth is not solution for anything...


First of all I'm proud of you for having stated your opinion on this forum, despite it being different from majority of the people. One should never decide against sharing their thoughts just because not everyone will agree to them.
Coming to Vandana, I initially tried to justify her behaviour and make sense of it. I tried to put myself in her position and understand but now it's just out of hand. I'm not here to start a fan war, but personally speaking, her character is a looney to me. I can't deal with her anymore

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