Originally posted by: charanyaaj
I don't want to analyse full saanjh thing but this all started only after mehendi. One more thing even his biological do the same like vandana because a mother is a mother cares only about her child's safety happiness
That is a fact whether you accept it or not. Her problem is not kundli, it is Maya. In the earlier episodes, the pundit said Saajun wedding cannot take place but Vandana was pushing it. You cannot only take one aspect. You have to consider everything.
Vandana goes by what the pundit said then
Pros:
1. He said it's the best Jodi he has ever seen
2. Their lives will be filled with happiness
3. Maya will love Arjun more than her life
4. 36 of their "guns" matched
5. If love can bring you to the ground it can also soar you high in the sky
Cons:
1. Maya's obsessive love can lead to Arjun getting pain in the process...
So clearly there are more pros than cons yet she is stuck on the fact that this wedding shouldn't happen... don't get the logic that she is using! Making me laugh TBH.
Even the cons can be converted into the pros provided you know how to handle it. Give her the same love and have patience.
There is a difference between biological mother and a step mother. A real mother can understand her child better. If she had found any such thing, she would have accepted Maya as her own daughter and give her that love she is craving for. A mother would take all the factors into consideration before deciding anything. I'm telling this from my experience. I have lost my mother. She was an angel. No one else could have loved me as much as she did. She never used to come to the immediate conclusion.
Edited by katrinasalman - 8 years ago