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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: RebeccaSweety
I agree wid u @sellysona..
infact d pandit said tes wrds which vandana happily ignored

"isse achi jodi meine aaj tak nahi dekhi. yeh ladki apna poora pyaar iss ladke ko degi. khushiyon se jeevan bhar jayega inka"

isnt dis prediction jus awsm? esp d khushi part. bt stl shez unhpy..

That woman will forever be unhappy bcoz it's maya. She wants saanjh in her place & whatever if saanjh is even pagal she will be happily giving her son Even by forcing him for shadi. She's such a hypocrite.

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

@angelk1

Everytime from start it was maya who was respectfully behaved with vandana but vandana insulted her from first even when she came as guest to her home showing saanjh as some mahaan & looking down upon maya by saying some nonsense to her.

When she came home from Mauritius with arjun, he asked her to call vandana mom & she felt so happy & tears in her eyes but vandana gave a reaction like she has seen some bhooth & behaved like a lunatic.

Not even blessed her .

Her behavior is so irritating & cringeworthy.

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Yanci

@angelk1

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: Nithunavi
@angelk1

Everytime from start it was maya who was respectfully behaved with vandana but vandana insulted her from first even when she came as guest to her home showing saanjh as some mahaan & looking down upon maya by saying some nonsense to her.
When she came home from Mauritius with arjun, he asked her to call vandana mom & she felt so happy & tears in her eyes but vandana gave a reaction like she has seen some bhooth & behaved like a lunatic.
Not even blessed her .
Her behavior is so irritating & cringeworthy.

From first? OK, first impression is important am I wrong?

Maya didn't leave a first impression on her, breaking the glass out of anger while staring so heatedly At Arjun and saanj. Who wouldn't be concern seeing that. Second, Arjun never once mention being in love with Maya to Vandana before Maya arrived at her door step. The whole time she assume it was saanj, so her reaction to seeing Maya was more of a shock mix with confusion. Some people take it differently.

Ayan was shock as well. When Maya tried taking her blessing. She didn't know how to react so she didn't let her. That moment she was surprise to know that Arjun loves Maya, and their planning on getting married. It was like a bomb was thrown at her. Lets also not forget she knew nothing about Maya , So she was basically a stranger to her at that time.

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#34

@angelk1

We shud just agree to disagree on this. Bcoz I have completely diff opinion on vandana & saanjh.

Vandana isn't genuine towards maya like ever.. & her only problem is saanjh isn't her bahu.

Vandana wud insult anyone who will come in place of her reservation seat of bahu which she has given in her mind to saanjh.

She never really seen positive things in maya even though she made her relationship with her son normal & 2nd son got out only bcoz of maya.

She was never thankful or thanked her atleast for Courtesy sake.

And in all things priest said abt maya she can only remember a one neg thing ! Lol what abt some 5 to 6 positive things he said abt maya !

Hypocrisy.

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rayjain

@rayjain

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Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: .annihilation.
Take an applause first because it takes courage to come out in support of Vandana in this forum because the moment you talk about Saanjh or Vandana's pro attributes or talk about how realistic their fears, insecurities and reactions are majority of the times, your topic has great chances to turn into a war zone. 👏 You made good points and I agree with them.

seriously... have faced that 😊 ... some people think that freedom of expression is for them alone... i can actually name 2 idiots on this forum who are so pro Maya that i began to doubt their sanity 😉

pro Maya people have completely ignored the fact that the whole torture story was narrated by Maya... not saying that it may be completely wrong and/or Ashwin could be innocent... but like i have stated in my post that there is more to it... more to Ashwin's hatred (apart from money) and something big... my assumption was killing of a sibling coz she is insanely possessive and some kids have issue with divided attention of their parents (actually reminds me of Macaulay Culkin's "The Good Son" ... absolutely loved that movie and is in my collection)... or could be her Nanu.

most irritating thing is when people start fighting over fictional characters... forgetting that every viewer/reader is entitled to interpret characterization as they perceive... that while they can share their perception, they have no right to question/mock another's

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sumz_d

@sumz_d

Voyager

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: Nithunavi
@angelk1
We shud just agree to disagree on this. Bcoz I have completely diff opinion on vandana & saanjh.
Vandana isn't genuine towards maya like ever.. & her only problem is saanjh isn't her bahu.
Vandana wud insult anyone who will come in place of her reservation seat of bahu which she has given in her mind to saanjh.
She never really seen positive things in maya even though she made her relationship with her son normal & 2nd son got out only bcoz of maya.
She was never thankful or thanked her atleast for Courtesy sake.
And in all things priest said abt maya she can only remember a one neg thing ! Lol what abt some 5 to 6 positive things he said abt maya !
Hypocrisy.

Lol it's not only Vandana who is blind but her supporters as well... or shall I say "Saanjh" fans :p

Actually jo haal Vandana ka hai wohi haal Saanjh fans ka bhi hai. Vandana has got this ray of hope to get Saanjh as her DIL through this one negative point said by the pandit. So i think it's futile to discuss and put forth Logic points with them. :p

Never the less lemme try ;)

Let's rewind ourselves and remember what the Panditji had actually said... he said "Arjun uski kamzoori banjayga aur usse apne se dur naa jaane ke liye uske jeewan ka aant bhi karsakti hai".

After this prediction Vandana was shocked and told the pandit that she should stop the marriage. But interestingly the Panditji found it awkward and looked shocked/amazed after listening to Vandana. He immediately asked why would she want to stop their marriage. Lol now just look at the stupidity.

If this marriage was so wrong as Vandana is making out to be then why the Pandit not favour Vandana's words about wanting to stop the marriage?

Who is that "Uski" that the Panditji referred to? Could he mean Maya? Maya giving up her life for Arjun?

The Panditji clearly did not ever say that ArYa marriage should not happen. He had said that ArYa are destined couple and made for each other. Their 36 guns match that means they are very compatible. He had also said that Maya will give her everything to Arjun. That means her heart, soul, body, mind and her property wealth everything. Infact he had said that ArYa will be happy couple but will face problems. And those problems do have a "SOLUTION"

On one hand Vandana claims that she believes in Panditji's predictions and on the other hand she is just opposing it! Ek kahawat hai "kissi ke kandhe ke upare bandook rakh ke gooli chalana" Vandana mata Panditji ka naam/sahara leke apne sapna purra karna chahti hai. Her obsession and Zidd is Saanjh and that's why she is opposing the Panditji's predictions too.

Her latest Kandha is her "Ashwin Bhai Sahab" :D

Lol as soon as she remembered Ashwin's words were against Maya then immediately that devil guy who had kidnapped her became her Bhai Sahab. The guy whom she knows had tortured Maya and Janvi in the past. She very well knows he wants Maya's property considering she was at the press conference while Maya had narrated the story. She wants to believe that guy whom a while ago she had pushed and hurt him to save herself. Now if she can attack Ashwin Bhai Sahab then why couldn't Maya who was facing torture from him? Come on It's not Rocket Science to think. Its Common Sense! But Vandana mata is very desperate to prove Maya wrong and stop ArYa marriage that she is even ready to believe that evil guy Ashwin Bhai Sahab.

Hypocrisy much?

Edited by sumz_d - 8 years ago

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kavita

@kavitha_r

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: sellysona
I frankly dont want to comment on vandana care bcoz i may havr diff views..
But still, her ways of breaking shadi is not right.. A good caring elder will not act sneaky as she is doing..

And also i would like to add, ppl telling that few ppl want thier jodi to happen so commenting against vandana. I would like to say ppl supporting vandana are those ppl who support saanjh arjun..
Actualy thy are not supporting vandana bcoz thy think she is right. Thy think vandana is right bcoz she is on saanjh side. .
Infact ppl will support ashwin also if he does something which is good for saanjh .

Even if Ashwin has tortured Maya in her childhood, people will overlook at that point for their convenience. They will ignore his cheapness and his greed for money and property. First of all, I have never considered him as a man as he was living in his wives money and now Maya's money. He cannot stand on his feet, yet he is shameless. He deserves to die.

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kavita

@kavitha_r

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: charanyaaj

Now I don't want to comment how the marraige is gonna stop because the episode is not aired yet. I don't want to comment based on spoiler.

I agree she is not happy with maya arjun. She also advised arjun but she didn't force arjun to stop loving her once she realised arjun wants to marry she agreed to this marraige. Vandana problem started only in mehendi ceremony after hearing how he bribed. About leaving a girl in mandap when will this incident happen? Think practically if suppose a girl or girl family hide things without telling to boy or his family. What is the necessity to hide the truth? Marriage is lifelong relation that we can start based on lie. Leaving a girl in mandap halfway through marraige is wrong at the same time hiding truth regarding maya is also wrong. In this way maya is also cheating arjun na.
You can say maya wants to tell the truth but arjun stopped her from saying. But if she wants she mgt said long back even yesterday listen it is imp it is about our future but no.

@Sanju said it is all said than done for Maya.It is not easy for her to trust people fully. She trusts people to the extent they can be trusted. Practically, no one tells abut their dark past to their fiance and put their relationship at stake. It is not that Maya has not told the truth to him earlier. She told him how she was tortured by Ashwin when she was with Arjun on the terrace. But when he heard the truth Arjun thought about Vandana and had gone to apologize her. And now he told Maya that he is not interested in her past. He is only concerned about her present and future. On both the occasions, it means that he was not interested in her past. Also, Arjun did see her abnormal behavior but he has chosen to ignore it. So you cannot completely blame Maya.

Vandana's concern is right at its place but her problem is not kundli. Her problem is she wants to give that place to Saanjh. As per the pundit's predictions, he has indicated more positives than negatives. That is what we are talking about though we know you people won't agree. There are 2 ways of looking at the things. You can either say that the glass is half-full or half empty in which the former is the sign of an optimist and the latter is the sign of pessimist. In Vandana's case, the glass is 95 % full and 5% is empty. But she chose the latter.

When the same pundit told that Saanjh Arjun marriage cannot happen, she continued to push it. So I will say it is 70% of that and 30% concern about Arjun's well-being. She never bothered to know what he wants.

Edited by katrinasalman - 8 years ago

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kavita

@kavitha_r

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: charanyaaj

@bold Can you please explain me what do you mean by sneaky things? I am not able to understand.

See guys i am neutral I'm not shipping anyone. My post is about vandana, maya and arjun. It's about a POV of mom. So please don't include saanjh. I didn't mention her.

@bold: Saanjh comes in that picture because she has always been Vandana's choice.

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annihilation

@annihilation

Stunner

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Posted: 8 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: rayjain

seriously... have faced that 😊 ... some people think that freedom of expression is for them alone... i can actually name 2 idiots on this forum who are so pro Maya that i began to doubt their sanity 😉

pro Maya people have completely ignored the fact that the whole torture story was narrated by Maya... not saying that it may be completely wrong and/or Ashwin could be innocent... but like i have stated in my post that there is more to it... more to Ashwin's hatred (apart from money) and something big... my assumption was killing of a sibling coz she is insanely possessive and some kids have issue with divided attention of their parents (actually reminds me of Macaulay Culkin's "The Good Son" ... absolutely loved that movie and is in my collection)... or could be her Nanu.

most irritating thing is when people start fighting over fictional characters... forgetting that every viewer/reader is entitled to interpret characterization as they perceive... that while they can share their perception, they have no right to question/mock another's

Yes, I'm aware how this forum functions. 😆 I have personally faced that too but not to a great degree since I abide by a strict code in my own topics which barely leaves any scope for anyone to turn my threads into a war zone or spew filth against members or anyone in general. The TM of this topic has my sympathies though, you got be tough to respond to the kind of response such topic receives.

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