I suppot Vandana and her POV - Page 2

Originally posted by: sellysona

I frankly dont want to comment on vandana care bcoz i may havr diff views..
But still, her ways of breaking shadi is not right.. A good caring elder will not act sneaky as she is doing..

And also i would like to add, ppl telling that few ppl want thier jodi to happen so commenting against vandana. I would like to say ppl supporting vandana are those ppl who support saanjh arjun..
Actualy thy are not supporting vandana bcoz thy think she is right. Thy think vandana is right bcoz she is on saanjh side. .
Infact ppl will support ashwin also if he does something which is good for saanjh .

@bold Can you please explain me what do you mean by sneaky things? I am not able to understand.

See guys i am neutral I'm not shipping anyone. My post is about vandana, maya and arjun. It's about a POV of mom. So please don't include saanjh. I didn't mention her.

People I need your comments on my recent post in the forum. Because I totally support the post maker. And I would like to give him or her and the rest who have supported him or her a great dose of laughter which you would surely get from the comments on my thread. Such obsession with merhotra maaan you just need to see. 🤣

Originally posted by: sellysona

I frankly dont want to comment on vandana care bcoz i may havr diff views..
But still, her ways of breaking shadi is not right.. A good caring elder will not act sneaky as she is doing..

And also i would like to add, ppl telling that few ppl want thier jodi to happen so commenting against vandana. I would like to say ppl supporting vandana are those ppl who support saanjh arjun..
Actualy thy are not supporting vandana bcoz thy think she is right. Thy think vandana is right bcoz she is on saanjh side. .
Infact ppl will support ashwin also if he does something which is good for saanjh .

I think certain things are easier said than done...it's easy for us to say Maya should tell all her truth to Arjun and rightly so, but have you guys looked from Maya's POV? The girl who has been physically and mentally tortured by her own father, the girl who never saw love and her care in her life, the girl who always had a lonely life, and the girl who might have some kind of mental disorder, isn't it normal that she would want to hide certain things? In real life also, you hear so many stories where they hide the mental conditions of the bride or the groom so that the marriage takes place and beyhadh is toh a fiction in itself...I really wouldn't blame Maya for not telling everything yet because I understand her POV...she is trying to move on in her life and wants to forget her past altogether...it would be ideal if she could tell Arjun everything but her fear, her insecurity that he would also leave her is the basis of the show...may be, if I was in her place, even I would have hidden my dark past...having said that, she was ready to tell him the truth in yesterday's episode, but Arjun stopped her! We all watch the show from different POVs, so I don't know why anyone has to ever be questioned about their POV and this happens way too often in this forum!

About Vandana, I do not entirely blame her either...she is right in her own position, but again it's also true that she was always prejudiced against Maya...even before meeting her, ever since Arjun joined Maya's company, she used to act like Maya was coming between her son and her dream DIL, so this fact will always be there...but on the other side, she is concerned about the safety of her son and any mother would be at her place...it's just that her preconceived notion against Maya is definitely escalating her fear although she knows Maya really loves Arjun!

Originally posted by: sellysona

Okay, to ans your this question i would like to ask u a question. In earlier episodes, pandit had said that about arjun ending up alone with all wealth and fame and sanjh to have bad times and have to fight etc etc..
Pandit clearly indicated that sanjh arjun are not going to get together. But still, she pushed sanjh to go for arjun. If she believes so much in predictions she must hve stop her pushing sanjh and would rather concentrate on teaching arjun not to get lost in riches. But she didnt evn cared for pandit words that tme.
And again, this new pandit told her all good points about maya arjun shadi and only one bad point that maya has obessive love.
A good elder would talk to both her son and maya and settle the matter. She knws arjun loves maya.. So she must thn try to guide maya towards right path.. Frankly you knw, i know, we know about maya manipulations. Vandana doesnt know. But still she is acting wierd..
I can consider her worry for her son, but which good elder tries to stop shadi chupke chupke. She is a woman herself. She herself have been scorned by society but still she is not once thinking about what would happen to a girl left in mandap
.. If she wants to stop wedding she must tell directly to arjun and request him pr blackmail or whatevr she cn do to stop shadi.. But leading a girl to mandap and thn taking away her groom is cruelity..
If she had a daughter of bad nature, will she try to guide her no matter what she does or would isolate her. Would she expect that a man leaves her daughter on marriage mandap if her daughter was rude or dominating etc.

Vandana problm is not pandit predictions. Her problm is maya. The day arjun officaly introduced her as his love aftr mauritius trip, that tym too she was behaving like maya is witch.
Seeing a girl break glass bcoz she waa jealous of seeing her love interst and his frnd together is not that terrifying to justify vandana behaviour. Evn in real life few ppl gets madly jealous and breaks things. Those ppl are not evil or witch..

Now I don't want to comment how the marraige is gonna stop because the episode is not aired yet. I don't want to comment based on spoiler.

I agree she is not happy with maya arjun. She also advised arjun but she didn't force arjun to stop loving her once she realised arjun wants to marry she agreed to this marraige. Vandana problem started only in mehendi ceremony after hearing how he bribed. About leaving a girl in mandap when will this incident happen? Think practically if suppose a girl or girl family hide things without telling to boy or his family. What is the necessity to hide the truth? Marriage is lifelong relation that we can start based on lie. Leaving a girl in mandap halfway through marraige is wrong at the same time hiding truth regarding maya is also wrong. In this way maya is also cheating arjun na.
You can say maya wants to tell the truth but arjun stopped her from saying. But if she wants she mgt said long back even yesterday listen it is imp it is about our future but no.

Originally posted by: sumz_d

You have said it all! Bang on reply!

I can't believe how people are supporting Ashwin? And Saanjh fans call Maya fans mad and blind but just look at the irony. They can support evil and believe that evil guy Ashwin so that their Favourite Saanjh's rasta gets cleared. Lol

Some people are really funny tbh...they won't miss a single sarcastic or indirect comment against Maya/ArYa supporters, but even someone from their own group confessed that they love Ashwin because only he brings the fear in Maya, they like that she is tortured by him, but things like these are ignored because that's wasn't said by Maya's fans, but in every post made against Maya or in favor of other characters, you would always see the sneaky comment on how brave of them to post such posts...I mean common, everyone has their own POV and if some Maya's fans support certain things that they do not, that doesn't mean Maya's fans have to be questioned again and again...if some fans want to give their POV, shouldn't be a problem to anyone as long as it's following the forum decorum

Originally posted by: ---Kaushi---

People I need your comments on my recent post in the forum. Because I totally support the post maker. And I would like to give him or her and the rest who have supported him or her a great dose of laughter which you would surely get from the comments on my thread. Such obsession with merhotra maaan you just need to see. 🤣

Mein har jagah hoon , Arjun
aur kahin bhi nahi
jaagti ankhon mein khwab banke aaungi
bheed mein tumhari banke lipat jaungi
tumhari dhadkano mein sirf meri pairon ki aahat hogi
tumhari khushi mein sirf meri chaahat hogi
Mein pagal hawa hoon
tumhari sasoon mein apni ghar banaungi
tumhari zehen ki har kone mein chaa jaungi

This soliloquy by Maya Meherotra explains the obsession we have with her . Woh pagal hain aur shayad hum bhi pagal hai cuz we r loving this pagalpan of Maya Mehrotra . This soliloquy just stole the show . The expressions that run across her face from love to a hard stare ''mujhsekabhi jhoot nahi bolna '' r one of a kind. Beyhadh mein agar Maya ki beyhadhpan ko support nahi karungi toh kisko karungi ... selfless Saanjh .. ah not my cup of tea😆

Originally posted by: .annihilation.

Take an applause first because it takes courage to come out in support of Vandana in this forum because the moment you talk about Saanjh or Vandana's pro attributes or talk about how realistic their fears, insecurities and reactions are majority of the times, your topic has great chances to turn into a war zone.👏You made good points and I agree with them.

Thank you buddy 😊

Originally posted by: TheUnique

Mein har jagah hoon , Arjun
aur kahin bhi nahi
jaagti ankhon mein khwab banke aaungi
bheed mein tumhari banke lipat jaungi
tumhari dhadkano mein sirf meri pairon ki aahat hogi
tumhari khushi mein sirf meri chaahat hogi
Mein pagal hawa hoon
tumhari sasoon mein apni ghar banaungi
tumhari zehen ki har kone mein chaa jaungi

This soliloquy by Maya Meherotra explains the obsession we have with her . Woh pagal hain aur shayad hum bhi pagal hai cuz we r loving this pagalpan of Maya Mehrotra . This soliloquy just stole the show . The expressions that run across her face from love to a hard stare ''mujhsekabhi jhoot nahi bolna '' r one of a kind. Beyhadh mein agar Maya ki beyhadhpan ko support nahi karungi toh kisko karungi ... selfless Saanjh .. ah not my cup of tea😆

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Originally posted by: charanyaaj

Now I don't want to comment how the marraige is gonna stop because the episode is not aired yet. I don't want to comment based on spoiler.

I agree she is not happy with maya arjun. She also advised arjun but she didn't force arjun to stop loving her once she realised arjun wants to marry she agreed to this marraige. Vandana problem started only in mehendi ceremony after hearing how he bribed. About leaving a girl in mandap when will this incident happen? Think practically if suppose a girl or girl family hide things without telling to boy or his family. What is the necessity to hide the truth? Marriage is lifelong relation that we can start based on lie. Leaving a girl in mandap halfway through marraige is wrong at the same time hiding truth regarding maya is also wrong. In this way maya is also cheating arjun na.
You can say maya wants to tell the truth but arjun stopped her from saying. But if she wants she mgt said long back even yesterday listen it is imp it is about our future but no.