Do we hold the maturity to understand the theme of Bepanah?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Why so much negativity towards the storyline? Few people regard Zoya as dumb cause of her views towards the affair but nobody is comparing it with ideology that Aditya holds.
All those who are claiming that the CV's are glorifying EMA and cheating can't they see that the other lead is holding the exact opposite thinking as opposed to Zoya's.

Aditya from the beginning hated cheaters and in todays episode itself he cleared it out that poosh were wrong cause they cheated irrespective of the reasons. Zoya on he other hand isn't blaming herself nor putting her dignity at stake, she has merely accepted that her husband fell for someone else.

If we analyze things without biasedness, the CV's have beautifully captured the reaction of two very different individuals towards a particular situation.

People react differently towards the same situation. Here Aditya is angry, which is not wrong and Zoya has accepted the fact to make peace with herself but she has not forgiven yash.

We are used to watch fast moving senseless things on tv.. if something sensible comes we won't give it time to atleast unfold.. they are many series on such themes which have gained appreciation ( and, yes the parallel lead were not shown as gold diggers.. they were shown as respectable peoples who had faults )

We are not ready for such themes.. better to move on with the saas bahu sagas.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Wow this is I think one of the best things I have read today.
You are right. We are so busy concentraiting on Zoya that we forgot that Adi has his opinion too, an opinion which is similar to ours. However, in Zoya's case I am sorry right now the only emotion I have towards her is anger, that paak dialogue was disgusting. And I hope in the future adi can put some sense into her.
The reason why everyone is so angry because it's Zoya who said that line, the female lead. Her saying such a pathetic line in a way shows that she is or the CVs are trying to show her as a "Mahan" person. And it's more like that man crushed her dignity but she is still supporting him. Calling the EMA paak was something the CVS shouldn't have done.
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excellent words..👏..ofcourse we need maturity first n patience next...!! after all the content is mature n every individual reacts in their own way for a situation ..evn i dont see cvs justifying the EMA or giving zoya the importance ...from day that has been compenated , negotiated with both adi and zoya's pain , their feelings, their decisions..today its the tym to put some light on the past...!!see wat happened ..aise ek episode se hi pure jawab milenge tho series banane ki kya zaroorat hai😆..well i'm seeing it with patience from day 1 ..n still hold the same...i 'm jus enjoying the track without asking myself or sumbdy ki y is this happening in this way ..kyunki real life se bahut zyada relate karti hai stry line ..then obviously we get to see those situations wer ppl cnt choose wats ryt n wats wrng ..wer ppl tend to wrng side at tyms...wer ppl try to justify their mistakes ..n Bepannaah is speaking about that "every" possibility in the particular aspect 😳...for me its going in a brilliant way...i'm curious to know wats gonna happen in future😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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loved your post
very well said
em actually very excited for the upcoming episodes
both have their own opinions.. it will be amazing to see both of them contraindicating... really excited
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Posted: 7 years ago
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yes true
thats the main reason I started watching this show, it looks more realistic n relatable
unlike other tv shows
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I actually liked the episode. All throughout the episode, I didn't feel like the cvs are glorifying EMA. In fact, they showed the problems in AdiJa and ZoSh marriages. The only problem was Zoya's dialogue in the precap but then that's how the show is always about. This show's main concept has always been Reality vs Delusions. One person is practical and the other person is delusional and this time both of them, Adi and Zoya are delusional in some way. Adi is delusional by putting the whole blame on Pooja and not realizing his faults. Zoya is delusional by putting the whole blame on herself and still not understanding the problem in her marriage.
So in this case, both are not able to accept the reality of their respective marriages and therefore both are delusional. Who will remove AdiYa from delusions and accept the reality? AdiYa themselves and that's what I am looking forward to watch.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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well wat i fear is that the makers will endup justifying poosh affair n make zoya win this battle between adi n zoya.. thats wat is not acceptable to me.. cheating should not b glorified thru the hands of female lead.. ppl r already mass hating the female lead n dont want adi to end up with her.. so u can understand wats going wrong..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yeahhh, you are absolutely right. People are busy in fighting to decide who is right and wrong.
The story has just began.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Like I mentioned in another forum...
This 'True Love' concept is not only individualistically different but also it doesn't seem to have a universal definition, so I don't agree with any justification of cheating as true love, which I can see no-one else does or would either.
But you are 100% correct that this show was claimed to be focusing on the reality of human nature and how people views and opinions regarding certain things differ.
Zoya & Adi are 2 sides of the same coin. That is very much clear.

I'm very happy that you made this post because I couldn't seem to come up with the words that you have placed beautifully. Are we all mature enough?
Lol! That's a concept in & of itself.
We are so accepting of the superficial nonsense that is Saas-Bahu drama and supernatural themes that are so unrealistic but when it comes to these things, I guess as humans we really do not want to focus on the negative (or more like: selfish) aspects of human nature.
Haha! I just realised that we all seem to feel like Zoya is in the wrong because we all think in "community minded" way - i.e. what is defined as right & wrong, but there are people like Zoya who; I agree that she most definitely HAS NOT forgiven or accepted Poosh cheating as a justified thing but instead is looking at the feelings or basis for such feelings between Pooja and Yash.
Adi's POV is the role reversal. No one person is right or wrong. It's feelings that define your perspective.
Emotions play a huge role in your decisions and I guess that is what is the underlying concept of Bepannaah. I do not believe they are trying to justify Pooja & Yash's affair - and they shouldn't (I still can't accept cheating/affair as having any justification - it's simply wrong on any level).
However, I believe they are exploring the ramifications of people's actions, decisions and also how we look at things differ from each person's perspective, culture & upbringing (perhaps even due to more reasons).

Thus, I agree... we should all just sit back, relax and watch the story unfold.
Aaanndd... of course rant when human nature is exposed in its true forms: stupid decision-makings, anger, revenge, hatred, unconditional love, respect, loyalty etc
Wow... that was slightly deep.
Might need to go sleep it off 😆

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dawnedge

Like I mentioned in another forum...

This 'True Love' concept is not only individualistically different but also it doesn't seem to have a universal definition, so I don't agree with any justification of cheating as true love, which I can see no-one else does or would either.
But you are 100% correct that this show was claimed to be focusing on the reality of human nature and how people views and opinions regarding certain things differ.
Zoya & Adi are 2 sides of the same coin. That is very much clear.

I'm very happy that you made this post because I couldn't seem to come up with the words that you have placed beautifully. Are we all mature enough?
Lol! That's a concept in & of itself.
We are so accepting of the superficial nonsense that is Saas-Bahu drama and supernatural themes that are so unrealistic but when it comes to these things, I guess as humans we really do not want to focus on the negative (or more like: selfish) aspects of human nature.
Haha! I just realised that we all seem to feel like Zoya is in the wrong because we all think in "community minded" way - i.e. what is defined as right & wrong, but there are people like Zoya who; I agree that she most definitely HAS NOT forgiven or accepted Poosh cheating as a justified thing but instead is looking at the feelings or basis for such feelings between Pooja and Yash.
Adi's POV is the role reversal. No one person is right or wrong. It's feelings that define your perspective.
Emotions play a huge role in your decisions and I guess that is what is the underlying concept of Bepannaah. I do not believe they are trying to justify Pooja & Yash's affair - and they shouldn't (I still can't accept cheating/affair as having any justification - it's simply wrong on any level).
However, I believe they are exploring the ramifications of people's actions, decisions and also how we look at things differ from each person's perspective, culture & upbringing (perhaps even due to more reasons).

Thus, I agree... we should all just sit back, relax and watch the story unfold.
Aaanndd... of course rant when human nature is exposed in its true forms: stupid decision-makings, anger, revenge, hatred, unconditional love, respect, loyalty etc
Wow... that was slightly deep.
Might need to go sleep it off 😆



I so agree with you
Very well put

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