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Through all these arguments, you must have realized the difference in opinion.. You are absolutely not wrong neither is the other TM. Now put the same situation in Aditya & Zoya's case. They are not wrong in their place. Zoya is not dumb neither emotional, she is just respecting of what remains. It shows strength of character. There's nothing left in her hands to hold on it. And, yes she will give priority to yash over aditya right now.. but with gradual progression of life she will understand Aditya's POV and Aditya will understand Zoya's. That's how we evolve. We all are aditya cause we all are practical that's why we are having a hard time relating to Zoya. But, think like Zoya for a moment. It's more hard for a women to accept these facts and I guess Zoya wants to get done with it. Accept the reality & move on. One can't carry the hurt forever.
Zoya is not dumb neither emotional, she is just respecting of what remains. It shows strength of character.: I don't think this is strength---it is blind stubborn-ness and refusal to face facts. There's noneed to glorify her husband's EMA with someone and call it 'sacred'-- she could have just said, he was a philanderer, but not a murderer--and I want to just bring the truth out, and get it over with. So, definitely dumb and emotional. Why not call the EMA and EMA, why Paak pyaar?
And, yes she will give priority to yash over aditya right now.: I don't care about this, she can give Aditya as low a priority as she wants, (he's a friend, whereas she'd loved Yash for a long while) but she can't keep praising her husband and his EMA.
It's more hard for a women to accept these facts and I guess Zoya wants to get done with it. Accept the reality & move on. One can't carry the hurt forever.: It is precisely this portrayal of women that I have a problem with. Why can't women be shown as they are: practical and normal? Why must the lead always be OTT? How is it 'accepting reality and moving on' if she calls her husband's fling with a married woman a paak pyar??
So no, there's no difference in opinion here. A lot of women on this thread are simply ignoring the fact that a protag's dialogues have an importance in a story--if she calls an EMA 'sacred love' it is different from a supporting actor doing the same. Aditya is wrong on many counts about his thoughts on what a good husband he was (he has never gone chasing another woman, tho), but Zoya is ABSOLUTELY wrong to glorify an EMA by using terms like PAAK PYAAR to what is a selfish, cheap and cowardly affair.
Zoya is not Aditya. She is the exact opposite of Aditya, a women who thinks from heart. Aditya and Zoya are equal leads here. Ofcourse, in such times we find zoya annoying because we are practical. But the CV's have balanced it out. Aditya is practical & Zoya is emotional. They contradict each other but eventually end up learning something from each other. Let the characters evolve.
When she gets unrealistically emotional, Aditya with his practicality saves her and when Aditya can't face his demons, Zoya's emotions gives him peace.
There are different ways of accepting and perceiving a situation. You points are absolutely justified and valid. But, that's the point. Difference in opinion. But we, in near future we will agree in certain points because now we have a better understanding of each others views even though in difference! That's exactly the case with Zoya & Aditya.
@red: How I wish this were true.
Aditya's practicality has earlier led to Zoya into trouble (the entire jungle track, the CVs wanted to show them as a couple, so she ran away with him when he asked her) And now, Zoya's OTT dumbness and delusions--sorry but it is worse than naivete--will lead him into trouble.
Of course they will be a couple, because they're leads, but that will be forced, the way most of this series is becoming. I watch this series for jenshad, both are good actors, but if Zoya goes on like this, she'll just annoy me into not wishing her for Aditya: after all, it is better to have a smart enemy than a stupid friend.
The only Zoya I liked was the one in the jungle--she was strong then, but right now, she looks like a writers' pawn, who the writer is using to take their plot forward.
Plot is character in action, a plot-pawn is a puppet, not interesting to watch, and very difficult to root for.
Someone as blindly stubborn as her deserves all the pain she gets. As a character, Zoya had potential--but Indian CVs in their quest for TRPs have ruined her, I'm afraid. A character so white is one-dimensional, just a plot device.
Sorry, but this is going in a direction which is making me lose interest in a series that I thought could have done WAY better.
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