Do we hold the maturity to understand the theme of Bepanah? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Pri89

Why so much negativity towards the storyline? Few people regard Zoya as dumb cause of her views towards the affair but nobody is comparing it with ideology that Aditya holds.

All those who are claiming that the CV's are glorifying EMA and cheating can't they see that the other lead is holding the exact opposite thinking as opposed to Zoya's.

Aditya from the beginning hated cheaters and in todays episode itself he cleared it out that poosh were wrong cause they cheated irrespective of the reasons. Zoya on he other hand isn't blaming herself nor putting her dignity at stake, she has merely accepted that her husband fell for someone else.

If we analyze things without biasedness, the CV's have beautifully captured the reaction of two very different individuals towards a particular situation.

People react differently towards the same situation. Here Aditya is angry, which is not wrong and Zoya has accepted the fact to make peace with herself but she has not forgiven yash.

We are used to watch fast moving senseless things on tv.. if something sensible comes we won't give it time to atleast unfold.. they are many series on such themes which have gained appreciation ( and, yes the parallel lead were not shown as gold diggers.. they were shown as respectable peoples who had faults )

We are not ready or such themes.. better to move on with the saas bahu sagas.

I had no problem with the epi till I saw the precap n till Zoya declared PooSh affair as paak. Is it really mature in any way? Is it progressive? It would be if Zoya made peace with the fact that she erred as a wife but her husband toed the line of dignity. So did Pooja. Their relationship is still pure? Would love to see how CVs redefine the meaning of this word. Adi needs to realise that he was responsible for his marriage failing but I don't want to see him singing Zoya's tune which is what CVs will do coz at the end of the day as female lead is right no matter what. And as for the maturity of this show can u deny that CVs have brought in way too many loopholes already? I love this show for the way it was initially portrayed but I know better than to expect anything from the current lot of shows. U want to see mature n progressive shows? Check out the ones that came in early 90's way before the kekta era kicked in. The maturity with which extra marital affair n other subjects were handled were so beautiful that it makes me feel I am going backwards in time with the regressive plotlines of these so called mature shows that start on a promising note but falter badly in a bid to gain TRPs. I am just a disappointed viewer expressing my views n I don't intend to offend anyone or spoil their mood. Just put forth my views. Having said that if the CVs manage to bring in a sensible twist amidst this craziness I will happily change my opinion.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

It's a mature content. You need patience on how the opposite views are going to affect the leads. In the beginning also when zoya was doing yash jaap people were angry. But that delusion broke. But that incident made adi too grow. Again now zoya has accepted but hers is extreme view and adi's another extreme. Views doesn't mean justification. Justification happens only when the track ends in favour of zoya adi also telling it is paakh. We need to see how it goes before drawing conclusions.

Originally posted by: ramisaaAli

And what if it does go in Zoya's favor? The reason why everyone is angry is because big words such as IZZAT and PAAK is being associated with something very mediocre like EMA. EMA breaks thousand dreams so using these words for EMA is clearly wrong. I would be the happiest of all if Zoya's view is proven wrong but the way they are showing Zoya to be so confident and strong I highly doubt she will budge from her view.the show might face severe backlash if at the end Zoya is proven right.

I see some people saying that the CVs are justifying affairs, and I'm sorry but how did you all even reach that conclusion? One character is trying to understand the circumstances that led to an affair, she is trying to understand what went wrong in her marriage that pushed her husband away. Nothing in today's episode was a justification of EMA. And then overall the CVs are showing multiple viewpoints. If all characters thought like Zoya and they all called Poosh's relationship paakh, then yes I would say this show is justifying EMA. But that's not what we see here! Aditya is the voice of the majority- most of us can agree that Poosh's relationship was far from paakh. Our sentiments are being translated onscreen in the form of Aditya, so please do not go as far as saying this show is promoting/justifying EMA.

Your take made me read through your entire post and all responses recorded here...

I think we need to relax .remember we shpuldnt be knowing about poojas preg yet..so considering that we dnt knw abt poosh preg..and we just saw yest poosh start of a relation..well..i dnt think i would have been this angry with zoya for still.routing for.poosh..poosh and adiya..everybody had no idea how to handle an institution called marrg...they just showed that yest..and no..i dnt feel poosh were justified..pooja herself said in precap humara rishta duniya keliye najaais tha..(.yes hell it was..if they were having affair for 2 years and still couldnt muster the courage to tell the truth to spouses..it was cruelty to them.)..so somehow...cvs are explaining it was both wrong and yet sad truth of the duos life ...but yea..it was the truth..and zoya is routing for the truth..

Initially I definitely had a negative reaction to Zoya's attitude towards Adi. However I do think they are going about it the right way now and I liked in the past two episodes how she explains her point of view to him and somewhat do agree with her.