A c-night which was somewhat a let down for me - Page 4

Originally posted by: vinuchand

Well written and analysed. But this c-night was almost similar to the one of Michi but did not have the same spark, innocence, romance or love.

DM should have apologised. This scene was more like a channel to bring out the built in frustrations. A father of 5 children with one married and the other one about to be married, this c-night did not justify DM's calibre but was crass.

These days its Kanji who keeps me glued. he is too good, rugged and handsome (like the western cowboys). Although in looks he is like Motben's younger brother, i still like him the most!!!! Motiben also emotes well.

The situation leading up to Michi c-night and Sanraj c-night was a little similar but the outcome of the two is very different.

Originally posted by: Opti

I dont think it is a rural and urban divide here. Subhi treated DM more as her partner than as her lord and master. It is definitely a caste divide and an age divide. Yes, Santu has not been forecful enough for the very same reason - caste and age does not give her the right but DM can act more graciously, can he not? Afterall he is the maalik of the village, a guardian of justice. He has apologised before, even to Santu. So it is not something he is unfamiliar with, but yesterday somehow I felt he was a little condescending when he called Santu dufford for not understanding the purpose of his visit and more or less took it for granted that she will comply as soon as he casts his longing eyes as her. I would have expected some sort of remorse before he took the biggest step in marital life.

i really don't think the two c-nights should be compared.

Originally posted by: sg08

I don't think we can compare Santu to Subhi --- Subhi was an educated woman with I think an urban upbringing (Meghna once recited an English poem written by her which leads me to beleive that she had an urban upbringing) so I would think she had an urban mindset as well, she was equal to DM in age, caste, wealth, status whereas Santu is an illiterate, rural girl, with a rural upbringing and a rural mindset, much younger to DM who is not considered DM's equal in wealth, status or caste......furthermore DM-Subhi's was a love match whereas DM has just very recently accepted Santu as his wife......we cannot expect Santu to relate to DM in the same way as Subhi did.

Originally posted by: gawker

i really don't think the two c-nights should be compared.

that one (the kymt one) built up a lot of emotional tension between milind and prachi. there were very moving words to go with the strongly aroused emotions. there were tears, passion, tenderness - but not one smile.

this one was more in the nature of a couple who has done it many times before doing it once more. talking of missing on birthday celebrations, giving presents, making machhar jokes and also doing it. even santu had a smile on her face. maybe if she had got hysterical and ranted about the way she was treated, had tears streaming down, and dm finally held her close and they both did it with not one word spoken, and she had arrived home dishevelled - noticed by baa who'd have said something like 'ab ye chokri nahi rahi' with a smile - that would have upped the drama to another level.

the two had completely different emotional contexts.