A c-night which was somewhat a let down for me - Page 5

Originally posted by: sg08

I don't think we can compare Santu to Subhi --- Subhi was an educated woman with I think an urban upbringing (Meghna once recited an English poem written by her which leads me to beleive that she had an urban upbringing) so I would think she had an urban mindset as well, she was equal to DM in age, caste, wealth, status whereas Santu is an illiterate, rural girl, with a rural upbringing and a rural mindset, much younger to DM who is not considered DM's equal in wealth, status or caste......furthermore DM-Subhi's was a love match whereas DM has just very recently accepted Santu as his wife......we cannot expect Santu to relate to DM in the same way as Subhi did.

Kanji in

Originally posted by: fuzzyface

Of course Santu see it as he Faarz she is a rural girl who is married to such a man. In her mind it is the most logical thing to do.

Plus she is hung up over him

what else can I say Santu bechari

Originally posted by: Opti

I am not comparing Santu and Subhi. But I wasn't too happy with her quick acceptance of the remorseless DM. For a woman who was grieving so much, she seems to have had a remarkable recovery the minute her maalik called her dufford. I think she enjoys being repeatedly put down by him.

Opti, Santu is working towards earning the title of "Martyr".

lol chalia....I was actually agreeing with you in the sense that I think there is a urban/rural divide as you said in your post about michi being an urban couple as opposed to SanRaj who are rural with a rural mindset, so the two can't be compared.....besides as far as I remember, Milind was absolutely crazy about Prachi and his accusations before the c-night was brought on by jealousy.....whereas here DM hasn't even confessed to Santu yet that he loves her ......so I don't think we can compare the two couples or the two c-nights.....the two couples shared very different relationship dynamics and were emotionally at different stages in their relationship.

I was disagreeing with the comparison between Subhi and Santu and expecting Santu to treat DM as an equal/partner like Subhi did at this stage of their relationship....maybe eventually it will happen but at this stage of their relationship, Santu definitely does not consider DM an equal because of the reasons cited earlier.

Originally posted by: Opti

I am not comparing Santu and Subhi. But I wasn't too happy with her quick acceptance of the remorseless DM. For a woman who was grieving so much, she seems to have had a remarkable recovery the minute her maalik called her dufford. I think she enjoys being repeatedly put down by him.

I don't think DM calls her duffod to put her down, most of the time the way he says it, he uses it as a term of endearment

Originally posted by: Opti

Poor Santu. As long as this attitude goes on all the divides - economic, social and age- will not get bridged. DM I feel should take the lead and set an example but right now he has his hands full with big cry baby Maulik. So I guess we will have to shift focus to Kranti for now for some real entertainment. Wish to have some Kranti scenes everyday. The man with smiling eyes and baritone voice is now the treat.

You know shalu, thats why i actually wondered why there was such a rush for a SR that too in the open air😆

I agree....the SR was a bit unexpected.......maybe there is a reason which will surface in the upcoming track....who knows......or maybe the CVs got concerned with all the DM bashing due to his treatment of Santu and used the SR to appease the folks......or maybe there was a slump in TRPs and this was a shock tactic to bump it up.....who knows

Originally posted by: sg08

lol chalia....I was actually agreeing with you in the sense that I think there is a urban/rural divide as you said in your post about michi being an urban couple as opposed to SanRaj who are rural with a rural mindset, so the two can't be compared.....besides as far as I remember, Milind was absolutely crazy about Prachi and his accusations before the c-night was brought on by jealousy.....whereas here DM hasn't even confessed to Santu yet that he loves her ......so I don't think we can compare the two couples or the two c-nights.....the two couples shared very different relationship dynamics and were emotionally at different stages in their relationship.

I was disagreeing with the comparison between Subhi and Santu and expecting Santu to treat DM as an equal/partner like Subhi did at this stage of their relationship....maybe eventually it will happen but at this stage of their relationship, Santu definitely does not consider DM an equal because of the reasons cited earlier.