A c-night which was somewhat a let down for me - Page 3

Originally posted by: Opti

I know the forum is buzzing with excitement about Sanraj's c-night but somehow for me it was quite a let down. Here is why.

- DM did not apologise for his appalling behaviour towards Santu before they took the next step.

- Santu seemed to be only too willing to overlook her Mallik's arrogance.

- If the c-night was a culmination of all the pent up emotions from both sides it would have been better. The 'macchar' hitting in between seemed to be unnecessary,silly and broke the flow for me.

- I was not too enthused by the roll in the hay for someone like DM who is the Mallik of the village. What if someone had been walking around at the time? I know BT has a penchant of having the c-nights out in the open but somehow this venue did not appeal to my sensitivities

- The camera work was pretty mediocre in comparison to some of the other c-nights in other BT show.

All in all Sanraj's c-night was quite average to me. Maybe I could have enjoyed it more if they had shown DM more remorseful, Sanraj more emotional and spontaneous and they had the c-night behind close doors.

My dream scene would have been DM first apologising to her and Santu tearfully accepting the apology. They hug and he carries her off to a nearby empty hut and proceed to make her his own. Later they can show him gift the diamond necklace saying that all he can do is get her a necklace but she is his real diamond.

The best c-night for me till date will always be the one picturised on Milind and Prachi in Kayamath. October 15th 2007 will always be etched in my memory for the out-of-the-world, tender and emotional union of my all time favourite jodi after the heart felt apology from the hero. Their beach union seemed a little far fetched but still the superb camera work had made the entire visual experience wonderful.

Wish Sanraj had something close to Michi union.

My favourite scene yesterday was the one between Kanji and Moti. Looks like they are following the "Taming of the Shrew". Kanji was simply adorable.

P.S.: These are only my view points and not necessarily something others will have to agree to.

Originally posted by: chalia

KANJI ROCKS THE SCREEN! Here is a man who can laugh with his eyes and at himself as well.

He is so likeable and gives as good as he gets. Now, thats a gentleman for you. DM takes Santu for granted. Its ok to bully her into submission?

Originally posted by: fuzzyface

Perhaps ur right abt " he is 50+. It was not aesthetically done."

I think the whole thing was done to keep all the gopikas happy n calm their anger after last week.

I am thinking it was treat for the fans so that they dun turn angry again. heheheheeh

The location was off I am not that pleased plus he didn't even apologise.

I did see the Michi one to me it was sweet n tender but the important thing was that he apologised again n again.

well it was Horace who said 'Nothing is beautiful from everyone point of view". so what we find nice or not may be different to others.

Well u know on the hand they cld always have another one n make it even better. 😉

Originally posted by: Opti

Exactly, he does that (laugh with his eyes) so well! Wonder how Moti found the will to stand before him without buckling down. I would have gone all weak on the knees.

Yesterday when Maulik was demanding that DM bring back Moti, all I could think was "Please no, let her remain there for longer, maybe forever. She could do with some lessons from Kanji."

Originally posted by: Opti

Yes, my sweet Milind apologised repeatedly and had to shut up a hysterical Prachi in the way he knows best.

They better show a more subtle and aesthetically done Sanraj scene to make up for this one. Agree that this was more to appease the indignation of many here but it didn't quite work for me. If I have a tiff with my hubby, I do not give in till he apologises. So I found the whole remorseless union a bit out of place for my sensitivities.

Originally posted by: chalia

You know Opti (sorry i dont know what else to call you),

Kanji and Moti need this time together and in that economic situation for them to sort out their differences and misunderstandings. As someone else mentioned before, DM and Kanji have understood this as being the reason for the so called "dhand" that Moti is undergoing.

I would also go on to say that different humanbeings react to a situation in different ways. Moti could have been a very tolerable person prior to the Kanji wedding. She felt cheated and betrayed and so bullies others to ensure her own survival in her brother's house. We have all seen how she stands up for her Naanka when the situation demands it. She and Kanji will bond in order to bring Maulik into the fold.

Originally posted by: chalia

Milind is younger, educated and urban where man and wife give each other space and can communicate frankly while being able to demand things (emotional) from one another. I would like to assume that, that is the kind of relationship that we are all in and so we relate to it.

But for DM and Santu there are a few differences. They are rural and raised to believe in and accept the supremacy of the male dominated society. DM is sorry but is unable to verbalize to his wife. He is remorseful and caring in his own way. Santu has i must add not been very forceful about her needs (emotional) and adopted the door-mat stance which is making her incapable of making demands of DM.