Santo's decision about Khemi-Hiten - Page 6

Originally posted by: booosi

Originally posted by: tvrasika

I agree with those who believe that Khemi and Hiten are acting selfishly.

Like boosi says, Khemi told Santo to agree to marry Mahesh. Santo looked up to her as the elder sister. But Khemi asked Santo to think about family first. So that should apply to Khemi also.

To those who say love is above everything, have we not been given evidence of Santo slowly falling in love with her husband? So what if her husband is much older? He is her husband after all. It is not just young love that is important. Love between people already married should also be given due place.

Khemi is shocked when Santo tells her she told Nanaji about her and Hiten. Khemi is like, 'Oh my god, you told Nanaji'? What does Khemi expect? That no one should know about her and Hiten? Where do they plan to get married, in Hawaii? This was too good 😆

Also look at how Hiten treats his father and Santo. If Santo is wrong to have slapped her elder sister, is it right of Hiten to disrespect his dad and mock him for marrying Santo? He fully knows why that marriage happened. He knows how much Santo has done for his family and what she had to put up with. Yet, he treats Santo with total disdain. Would Khemi really want to marry a man like that? He seems to have selective amnesia. He conveniently forgot all that Santo has done for him - I would have thought that the whole diamond incident would have earned Santo his respect but no - he is so ungrateful. The way he talked to her is sooooo not done. If I was in Khemi's place and saw how he treated Santo after all she has done for him, I would have shown him the door.

Hiten is no more brave than Kaddu. If he had an iota of self-respect, he would have gone to his father a long time ago and told him about his love for Khemi. He does not care about what his father thinks anyway. So what is keeping him? He wants to wait for Shambu to come to Mahiyavanshi house for the muhurat and then break the 'good news'? I think he is just all talk and no action, I don't think he will say anything until he is forced to. A better person would have gone and told DM the moment they confessed their love to each other if not sooner.

Hiten will tell Shambu 'Really sorry dude that I promised you you will marry Khemi. if my dad had opposed the marriage, I would have taken it as my life's sole project to get you married to her. But as you see, my dad did not oppose it. so I have no reason to support it. Moreover the girl loves me, not you. We just decided to make it official now..really sorry. I hope you find someone nice'!!!! You know, I felt the same thing. If DM had opposed this marriage, Hiten would have moved heaven and earth to make sure that Khemi got married to Shambhu but now that DM has given his consent, he is looking for reasons to antagonize DM and create trouble. His sole purpose in life seems to be antagonizing and being contrary to DM. He badly needs a job, something other than DM to focus on.

Khemi lied to Motiben. As simple as that. 👏👏👏

I will be surprised if Hiten does not come forward to rescue Santo. I doubt he will, he is just too selfish. I remember he just stood by and watched Motiben torcher Santo and DM try to throw her out of the house after the Kaddu incident and did not raise a finger to stop the cruelty. All his chivalrous feelings and sympathy for the downtrodden are solely reserved for Khemi, not for anybody else even though he claims to sympathize with the weaker/poorer.

Am wondering if we are being given a hint here; will Hiten and Khemi turn villains, againtst DM and Santo? I too feel the same - Hiten-Khemi are going to turn negative, all the signs are there.

Originally posted by: Opti

So far the inappropriateness of H-K relationship (Maasi-Bhanja relationship) has never been taken up. It is all about how Maalik's son can marry a low caste woman and how a marriage which has already been finalised can be stopped at the eleventh hour because it would lead to disgrace of Maalik. that is all we have been hearing from the chaste mouth of Santu.

Originally posted by: soap-critic

The topic of this thread is about Santu's decision. Somewhere along the way it got derailed to judging Hiten and Khemi's behaviour instead of judging Santu's decision.

I am putting the track back to the original topic by putting in my 2 cents. I do not agree with the way Santu took the decision and justified it to Khemi. When she went to talk to Nanaji why did she not take Khemi along with her and have a joint family discussion? This way both of them could have heard her out. It was after all about Khemi's marraige.

After that Santu did not let Hiten finish whatever it was that he wanted to tell her. If she made the decision in her role as maalkin shouldn't the parties involved be given an opportunity to be heard? And shouldn't the maalik be made aware of what is going the situation? If Santu involved Nanaji as a parent then isn't it DM's right to know as Hiten's father too?

Khemi has already told Santu that she will not be able to forget Hiten and accept Shambhu. A just and fair decision should involve Shambhu too. Why did she not go talk and bring him to the haveli and have a talk with DM present? She is experiencing first hand what it is like to have a spouse whose heart belongs to someone else. Why does she think it would be OK for Shambhu to be in the same situation?

DM has been married twice - the first time to a woman he loved very much and whom he still loves after her death and the second time in a forced marraige to a young girl he is barely beginning to acknowledge in his life but not give her the rights of his wife. He has experienced both types of scenarios. He would have been very angry at first but DM is a just and fair man. He would definitely have heard everyone out before giving his decision.

Santu's unilateral decision was wrong on so many fronts. If Santu had gone about taking the decision in the right way matters would not have come to this stage. The necklace would still be locked in DM's safe.