Santo's decision about Khemi-Hiten - Page 4

Agree with Aisha and Mallika......

one more point Mallika....Khemi conveniently forgot to tell Moti Ben that it was Hiten who brought the necklace and not santu and santus only fault was she just put it on her....Khemi so selfishy lied that santu gave it to her.......and saved her true love👎🏼

if they love eachother so much and have the guts....why this hide and seek .....they shoudl go and tell DM instead of badmouthing santu👎🏼

Originally posted by: Aisha_86

I can understand the views of many that this young love story should not be sacrificed for a samjhauta shadi... But the fact Khemi is Santo's sister, who is Hitens Stepmom, is not the only big problem in this whole relationship..

Even if Santo doesn't stop them.. Who will accept their love? Nana won't, Dm won't and Taru definately won't.. They thought about others in the beginning, then they should have kept thinking about others and not suddenly have a outburst of attraction.. Khemi at first didn't realise that hiten loves her or that she even loves him, but Hiten did.. Still he kept pushing her in to marriage with shabmu??

And the biggest reason they showed why khemi was marriying Shambu is because she was a "manglik".. Is she forgetting that now and are all of you k-h fan's also forgetting that?.. I dont now what it exactly means, but the purpose was that mangliks can only marry a manglik or else there spouse dies.. I don't think Khemi would like Hiten to die..another thing for her to think about... In that way also the khemi hiten marriage isn't possible if hiten isn't a manglik!

So in what way is Santo wrong? She shouldn't have slapped Khemi, but she was repenting for that.. But everything else she said was just right in my opinion..

Originally posted by: booosi

Agree with Aisha and Mallika......

one more point Mallika....Khemi conveniently forgot to tell Moti Ben that it was Hiten who brought the necklace and not santu and santus only fault was she just put it on her....Khemi so selfishy lied that santu gave it to her.......and saved her true love👎🏼

if they love eachother so much and have the guts....why this hide and seek .....they shoudl go and tell DM instead of badmouthing santu👎🏼

Khemi already knows that santu did not know anything abt the necklace.......also when Moti ben clearly said that her naanka would never giver her that necklace and it was meant for hitens wife.....and asked her who gave her the neckalce the second time........Khemi could haev told the truth that hiten gave it.....but she takes santu name.......

also, when hiten brought the neckalce's he clearly mentioned the first one was from maalik/maalkin and the other neckalce was from him which his mother left for his would be wife........unless she forgot abt all this in a matter of few hours

add to that.....why wait till DM yells at santu to declare there love....they should rather go and tell abt there love now....before humiliating shambu on the wedding day...good for shambu if he does nto get married to such selfish person who started to think abt his happiness jsut one day before the wedding.......

Originally posted by: Opti

She said that Santu may have put it on without knowing about it but Motiben was not perpared to listen to her fully. She did not go around lying. Nobody is playing hide and seek. I think when DM yells at Santu about the necklace, Hiten would step up and admit that it was he who had given the necklace to Khemi and the truth will come out.

It would be good if he does and not let Santo be the scapegoat once again, atleast that way Hiten-Khemi can redeem themselves, right now they just seem to be spineless cowards just looking out for themselves. I am surprised that Khemi implied that Santo had got the necklace when she very well knew that Hiten had brought her the necklace, I expected better from her - she knows very well that Santo will get in trouble, has she forgotten how Santo was almost thown out of the house by DM when the whole Kaddu-Sandy thing came out and DM found out that Santo knew about it and did not tell him. Santo should just stop protecting these two and look out for herself as well and tell DM about their affair and let him deal with them - atleast that way he won't blame her for hiding this from him and may also be pleased with her that she told him.

Originally posted by: Opti

Coming to the maanglik issue, if only maangliks can marry each other, not many in the country would find a match. Ther aer ways around to getting around the maanglik-non-maanglik. A famous couple who have that problem in the entertainment industry is Aishwarya Rai and Abhishek Bacchan. They had got her to marry a pepal tree (or was it a banana tree) before marrying him. This is supposed to ward off whatever problem that would come in their union. So a similar thing can be done for Khemi too.

Don't understand why this solution should apply only when it comes to Khemi's marriage to Hiten. If this was the solution, then nanaji need not have looked for a manglik match for Khemi -- he could have gotten her married to anyone as long as she married a pipal tree first - so why all this hoopla about how difficult it was to find a suitable match for her. Infact she could have been the one whose match was fixed to Mahesh at the beginning of the serial by getting her married to a pipal tree first and if that happened, Khemi and not Santo would be DM's wife today (not that I would ever want that).

And as for not many in the country finding a match, there a lot fewer mangliks than non-mangliks and even to this day families who follow horoscopes get their manglik kids married to other mangliks. Pandits might find ways around it but not many beleive that there is actually a way around it. And also there are people who do not beleive in horoscopes so even if they are manglik, they do not know or care about it and marry whoever they want to.

Don't know if this whole manglik thing really matters in real life, but if you beleive in these things, you cannot stop beleiving just because suddenly you want to marry a non-manglik guy.

Originally posted by: maybe-just

🤔 why was them falling in love plain wrong? If you mean that because of their bhanja-massi relationship, it was wrong, then maybe your right, maybe your not and I know some people may agree with you but I dont!

I do't think it's wrong since nobody controls who they fall in love so it just cant be plain wrong - it was inevitable between the two to not fall in love, reason being because of their personalities, they both have a strong character and are similar as well as different in many ways, it wasnt the physical attraction between the two, but it was the emotional bonding and the understanding of each other personalities was the reason which led them to acknowledge that they have fallen for the other!

I think Hiten met his match in Khemi, I mean he always stood up to his father because of what he believed in but with Khemi, her influence over him was bigger than he thought, she's just like him, she has a very strong will so that was it, I think that was when they clicked and fit together like a puzzle! 😉

It was wrong because it just was - they knew very well what their relationship was. Just because two people are similar and have strong characters and like each other and get on well, does not mean that they have to fall in love. These traits are what friends share, but not all friends are in love with each other. I also do not believe that people have absolutely no control over their emotions, if that was the case, we would be living in a very chaotic world where everyone acted according to their impulses. There are certain things people do not do because they are not supposed to - I mean I get mad enough at people sometimes that I want to shake them and hit them but I don't because I live in a civilized world where people control their emotions and I know that there could be unwelcome consequences of doing something like that. I don't think Khemi has a strong will at all - if she did she would not be behaving this way two days before her wedding. And did all Hiten need was a woman to stand up to him to fall in love, if thats the case then I am sure he will find many others to fall in love with. Their romance to me feels very superficial, lacking any depth and just because of their young age and the fact that they were thrown in close proximity to each other for such a long time.

Originally posted by: sg08

Don't understand why this solution should apply only when it comes to Khemi's marriage to Hiten. If this was the solution, then nanaji need not have looked for a manglik match for Khemi -- he could have gotten her married to anyone as long as she married a pipal tree first - so why all this hoopla about how difficult it was to find a suitable match for her. Infact she could have been the one whose match was fixed to Mahesh at the beginning of the serial by getting her married to a pipal tree first and if that happened, Khemi and not Santo would be DM's wife today (not that I would ever want that).

And as for not many in the country finding a match, there a lot fewer mangliks than non-mangliks and even to this day families who follow horoscopes get their manglik kids married to other mangliks. Pandits might find ways around it but not many beleive that there is actually a way around it. And also there are people who do not beleive in horoscopes so even if they are manglik, they do not know or care about it and marry whoever they want to.

Don't know if this whole manglik thing really matters in real life, but if you beleive in these things, you cannot stop beleiving just because suddenly you want to marry a non-manglik guy.

Originally posted by: Opti

She just realised that her man has feelings for her too and right after that she gets an unexpected slap from her younger sister who goes on a preaching spree. Later her lover comes and demands that she wears his mother's jewellery even though she tried to tell him she cannot. Right after that the preaching sister comes and puts the necklace around her neck saying she is acting as the Maalkin of the house in doing so. A few minutes later the hard nosed Moti Ben snatches the necklace from her neck ans asks who puts it around her neck. Befpre she can explain in full, the woman marches to complain to her Nanaka. In all this where was the time for Khemi to think of her Maanglik issue.

santu just told khemi directly Hiten is her step son and she is her sister........but the sister is so blind in her so called love that she did not even think abt what santu said even once..........not even in her mind.........on the other hand santu thought abt her sister, went to nanaji and talked to him, apologised to khemi, expained her situation and told her what nanaji suggested .......I dont understand how all this is preaching........

On the other hand khemis sarcastic tone ur not my sister santu...ur my Maalkin and i will do anything u say.....what does she want santu to do...go tell DM that my sister and my step son/ur son are in love...please get them married......how is it that she is not understanding santu and that it will make santus situation from bad to worse because of her......and no love is not that blind that she is forgetting that she is ruining her married sisters life........Khemi convinently forgot that she was the one who preached santu to marry that Mahesh guy for Nanji's sake.....her preaching continues when she asks santu to go back to DM and take his scoldings for Nanji's sake....did she forget abt Nanaji now when she is hugging Hiten 1 day before her wedding........and acting like a martyr.......

moti bens question was pretty clear.........who gave it........and Khemi thinks for a sec and says santu gave it........there was really nothing to explainn........she forgot everything hiten said beore giving that necklace really quick and put the blame on santu

Originally posted by: Opti

As to why Khemi did not think of the maanglik issue, give the girl a break. She just realised that her man has feelings for her too and right after that she gets an unexpected slap from her younger sister who goes on a preaching spree. Later her lover comes and demands that she wears his mother's jewellery even though she tried to tell him she cannot. Right after that the preaching sister comes and puts the necklace around her neck saying she is acting as the Maalkin of the house in doing so. A few minutes later the hard nosed Moti Ben snatches the necklace from her neck ans asks who puts it around her neck. Befpre she can explain in full, the woman marches to complain to her Nanaka. In all this where was the time for Khemi to think of her Maanglik issue.

Sorry, am in no mood to give Khemi any break, she does not deserve it. Knowing what she does about how her sister is treated in that household (including by her beloved Hiten), she had no business implying Santo gave her the necklace. If she has even an iota of decency, today she will try her best and succeed in telling Motiben/DM who gave her the necklace and why and not let her sister get in trouble because of her.