Reality checks - Page 4

Originally posted by: BeatifulSoul_

Jagya should not have asked some stuff of kid Nimboli from Mangala when from Mangala's story he connected the dots and understood Nimboli is Nandini Why he should bother ? if even if suspected Nimboli is Nandini then Nandini is Anandi's daughter Why Jagya needed to interfere in Anandi's life ? Anandi could search for her daughter on her own

He should not have called Anandi when he found out Nandini

even if told Anandi then he should not have searched for Mangala and Nimboli but gone home and give time to his family and do his work Nimboli is not his daughter why he should search for her and interfere in Anandi's life Anandi should do it on her own

Then we would have seen Anandi be able to find Nandini in this birth without Jagya's help

Most of the time Jagya accompanied and actively helped anandi and sometimes Anant. Jagya even made Shivam happy during those BH days. Anandi's kids were cared for and Ganga ws the silent supporter. How can we discount their support and contribution?

Anandi made a mistake by promising Ratan she would help him meet his son. She accepted that mistake and did say that she should have consulted them before making the promise.She even went back on her word and told Bimla that she can't fulfill her promise.

Jagya bought enimity with Akheraj because of his own actions and beliefs. Anandi had nothing to do with it yet when Akheraj kidnapped Ganga and asked for Anandi and her daughter in return for release of Ganga Anandi need not have offered to go with Jagya to help him get his wife released from Akheraj's captivity.

People keep talking about how Jagya helped Anandi find her daughter but then why failure to acknowledge the fact that Anandi risked her life and her daughter's life to help Jagya get his wife released from Akheraj?

@Aparna. Who is discounting that Anandi, M or N didn't support J in finding G? Infact Nandini's contribution in that was far more appreciated because of what she did being a child.

All the things that Anandi did and or doing to help others were brought in because of the way people keep on saying that Anandi is enjoying the fruits of other people's hard work.

There is saying what one sows is what one reaps.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

There is saying what one sows is what one reaps.

If Anandi is indeed enjoying the fruits of other people's work she also contributed to their happiness.

Why try to ignore that?

She could have wallowed in self pity,ignored her duty towards her son towards the family who was her source of emotional support and ignored her duties towards the society but she never did.

While searching for her daughter she still found it in her to reach out to others be it Nidhi Pooja Anant or Singh family. Why her efforts to help others are discredited?

When she was reaching out to these people she was criticised saying she is too busy with these people and doesn't care for her daughter.

When she found her daughter and realised that her daughter is not ready to accept her mother she was so scared of losing her daughter that she was willing to be called CC for the rest of her life if necessary. She was ridiculed for her fear of losing her daughter.

If she respected the lady who took care of her daughter and was soft in her approach she was called coward

If she wants to help the lady against Dsa's wishes she is again criticised.

How is that every act of Anandi is criticised?

@bold: Nobody is criticising Anandi for helping Mangala. Many are quite happy that she is helping Mangala, and others are just wondering why she felt the need to help Mangala after being betrayed by her.

If Dsa and J had enough of Mangala they have every right to refuse to help or support Anandi in this.

It is wrong to say anandi did not cry. Many times she cried leaning on dadisa's shoulders and in front of others, she clearly expressed her sadness and disappointment.