Reality checks - Page 7

Originally posted by: Missesha

We cannot bring the destruction caused to Anandi as a child bride, over and over again to justify her poor decisions, foolishness and inability to control her own life from her age of 25 to 40.

When Anandi was getting married to Shiv, she was as self sufficient and as well looked after, as any other normal girl who would be brought up by a loving family in normal circumstances.

She belonged to a wealthy n virtuous family, she was given all the education, freedom and support to build her life the way she wanted by the time she was 25 and rightly aged to marry.

She was forced into a second marriage with all good intentions and she also enjoyed the blessings of that marriage eventually. (And even then if she never wanted to marry, she could have always opted out. She did not have to follow her mother's death wish, just as she has chosen not to follow Shiv's death wish )

So all the mistakes she made in her life from her age of 25 till date are a result of her own thoughts, decisions and perceptions. She was empowered enough to overlook any forced decisions coming her way, but if chose to abide by them because it probably suited her.

No one is to be blamed for anything anymore. Not even her childhood status of BV. Because even if some opportunities were snatched from her as BV, she was presented back with lot more and in better ways

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Jagya bought enimity with Akheraj because of his own actions and beliefs. Anandi had nothing to do with it yet when Akheraj kidnapped Ganga and asked for Anandi and her daughter in return for release of Ganga Anandi need not have offered to go with Jagya to help him get his wife released from Akheraj's captivity.

Why did she have to risk her life and her daughter's life for Ganga?

If Jagya had not taken Anandi and her daughter with him Akheraj would not have come out of his hiding and police would not have been able to catch him either.

Why did she not sit and watch Jagya trying to put Mangala's idea into action instead of risking her life?

Originally posted by: aparnauma

People keep talking about how Jagya helped Anandi find her daughter but then why failure to acknowledge the fact that Anandi risked her life and her daughter's life to help Jagya get his wife released from Akheraj?

If Ganga was safely back from Akheraj and his captivity that little girl had a big role to play.She told Jagya hand over her to Akheraj and get Ganga back.

Jagya had a police back up but anything could have gone wrong.Akheraj could have fired at the child and the child could have died in the process.

It was sheer luck they all escaped unscathed.

So what can be said of Jagya?

Originally posted by: aparnauma

All the things that Anandi did and or doing to help others were brought in because of the way people keep on saying that Anandi is enjoying the fruits of other people's hard work.

Didn't all these people benefit from Anandi's efforts in the past? Did she reach out to them in the hope that they will help her some day or did she do it out of her own helping nature?

Digging about promise to Ratan was brought by someone else.

People keep on harping how Jagya left everything and went along with Anandi in search of Nandini.

But when Anandi left her work and her problems and was busy helping Jagya Ganga find Mannu she was criticised.

All these things come up again and again because Anandi's help to these people is ignored and only these people's help to Anandi is highlighted.They all are with her because she was there for them.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

If Jagya helped her chase Mangala she helped Jagya trace Mannu

God how much you will mislead serial? When Anandi helped Jagya to trace Mannu?Enough of misleading serial aparna People here not fools who have not watched the serial You are misleading serial big time by saying Anandi helped Jagya to trace Mannu Mannu send Jagya an MMS of himself at Jharla thats how his jharla location was traced Anandi was send with Jagya Ganga by Sarita to talk to Pooja , then in laxmiganj village it was Bimla who told Mannu is there so how you are saying Anandi helped Jagya trace Mannu ? Too much 👎🏼

Originally posted by: aparnauma

It is said that Anandi was the root cause of Ganga's problems and Shivam was the reason for Abhi's insecurity then Anandi and her daughter richly compensated by risking their lives to free Ganga from Akheraj's clutches.

Jagya and Ganga risked their lives to protect Anandi and Nimboli Anandi and Nimboli held themselves responsible for Ganga's kidnap they tried to do something bit if they can save Ganga but you are giving too much credit to Anandi and Nimboli and no credit to Jagya and Ganga ?and then you call us biased ???

If Jagya helped her chase Mangala she helped Jagya trace Mannu

bold ?😲how did Anandi helped Jagya trace Mannu ? Heights of misleading serial Aparna

First along with Mannu Anandi's SN student Pooja too eloped from her house Jagya was searching for both Mannu and Pooja and was in touch with Anandi and Sarita and keeping them updated with progress only because of Pooja Mannu's location in Jharla was traced through the MMS that he send to Jagya of his marriage with Pooja and messaging him to stop searching for them they are happy with their lives .Sarita send Anandi in her place with Jagya and Ganga to convince Pooja because Sarita believed Pooja listens to Anandi more than her so Anandi was actually helping Sarita , it was Sarita who asked her help not Jagya and Ganga . Mannu ran away from Jharla seeing Jagya and Ganga there Jagya and Ganga realized Mannu can go to Bimla in laxmiganj and they went to Bimla's house but at that time Mannu had not reached there

Next it was Bimla who called Anandi. Jagya's phone might be busy at that time thats why she called Anandi otherwise she had no reason to call Anandi Bimla told Mannu is in laxmiganj . Yes we criticized Anandi here because she did not tell Jagya , Ganga and Sarita Mannu and Pooja have been found. Bimla told they are with her but Anandi went alone and the reason she gave why she did not tell them at the spot because she was not sure she can convince Mannu and Pooja to come back ? If she was not sure she can convince Mannu and Pooja then why she did not tell the parents and they would convince their children ? Anandi thinks Mannu and Pooja's parents come after her First she will try to convince them if she failed then she will ask the parents to convince them ? What attitude ?👎🏼 This is called trying to take over others space and thats why Anandi was criticized

but anyways she was not the one who opened Mannu's eyes it was Bimla She opened Mannu's eyes , told him the truth about Ratan and herself and asked him to go to back his parents and apologize to them He is blessed to have such parents . Anandi did nothing much other than acting as a driver

so how are you making it Anandi helped Jagya trace Mannu and equating it to Jagya's efforts to trace Nandini ?

Dont take people as fools here who have not watched the serial🥱

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi made a mistake by promising Ratan she would help him meet his son. She accepted that mistake and did say that she should have consulted them before making the promise.She even went back on her word and told Bimla that she can't fulfill her promise.

Did she interfere in Jagya Ganga's life and tell Mannu that Ratan is his father?

She went and brought back Mannu and Pooja because Bimla called her up for reasons best known only to Bimla.

she did not interfere again ? why she was lecturing Jagya Ganga here you were wrong there you were wrong Even Dadisaa had enough of her and shut her up there Stop it its not the time to talk about this

When Mannu ran away from home Anandi was helping Jagya and Ganga as well as Pooja's mother doing her bit.She too went searching for Mannu along with them just like Jagya went along with her to search for Nandini and Mangala.

How she was helping Jagya and Ganga search for Mannu? Jagya was searching for Mannu and Pooja both and keeping Sarita and Anandi updated because of Pooja Mannu Pooja's location in jharla was traced through MMS that Mannu send to Jagya and it was Sarita who asked Anandi to go in her place and convince Pooja because she believes Pooja will listen to her more than her thats why she went after Sarita insisted her to go in her place and even there she was only tagging with Jagya it was Jagya who was searching for both asking from people Ganga scolded the priests and warned them thats how they told about Mannu Pooja's staying at some hotel and you have made it Anandi ji's great help to Jagya and Ganga for searching Mannu? Amazing 🥱

Originally posted by: aparnauma

After losing her childhood and losing her rights as a wife and when she carved a life for herself even that she was forced to give up thanks to Dsa's emotional blackmail and manipulations of her emotions had simply because Dsa had an attack of conscience and wanted to see her married happily.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

People keep talking about how Jagya helped Anandi find her daughter but then why failure to acknowledge the fact that Anandi risked her life and her daughter's life to help Jagya get his wife released from Akheraj?

If Ganga was safely back from Akheraj and his captivity that little girl had a big role to play.She told Jagya hand over her to Akheraj and get Ganga back.

Jagya had a police back up but anything could have gone wrong.Akheraj could have fired at the child and the child could have died in the process.

It was sheer luck they all escaped unscathed.

So what can be said of Jagya?