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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 9 years ago

#21

No body has ever called Anandi's help as interference but people have always called her interference as her interference

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 9 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Jagya's kids also have to know about Jagya Gauri marriage and how it happened how it broke up then what all Jagya did after his marriage with Gauri broke up till he met Ganga.

Gauri is not connected to them , they dont need to know about Gauri What is connected to them they should know about that .They should about know their parents how they met and how they married

Jagya's kids have no connection with Anandi but they know her because she is forced in their lives by Dadisaa and she herself stays with them too in their house

Edited by BeatifulSoul_ - 9 years ago

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 9 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: BeatifulSoul_
No body has ever called Anandi's help as interference but people have always called her interference as her interference

agree wid u sidra.

wenever anandi helped no1 called it interference but wen she unnecessarily poked her nose in oders matters then its called interference.

but ppl hav difft rules 4 their fav ckt & difft 4 oder ckts.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 9 years ago

#24

Why jeweller is getting so much credit? Is it to discredit Anant's efforts?

Nowadays anant is no more struck by anandi after her lashing. His interest is Nimboli. Even if Nimboli is not anandi's daughter, he would have helped that girl in reuniting with her mother. He tried his best because he thought anandi was laidback. He did it as a nishkama karma yogi. He developed a bond with Nimboli independent of anandi.

Dadisa went out of her way fighting for anandi because anandi was not fighting. After knowing the truth from dadisa, Shivam regained his composure.

We are all living in a society dependent on others whether we like it or not. When anandi developed affinity to dadisa, automatically she should have been prepared for advice and interference. One cannot draw a lakshmanrekha.
If one wants complete non interference, one should become a loner living in some forest.

If Jagya followed this non interference clause, he would not have phoned anandi excitedly about Nandini being found. He would have kept quiet.

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 9 years ago

#25

It seems like one can go on and on about who is wrong and right! Anandi's fans will never hold her responsible but give her immense credit for solving problems she, herself, created for others!
Anandi can never be wrong!
Anandi is poor and helpless lady
Anandi has suffered so much (but learnt nothing)
Anandi is kind to forgive those who hurt her
Anandi is great and selfless
Anandi can make mistakes (but not acknowledge them)
Anandi is just a human (but yet considered greater than one)
Anandi has helped everyone
People interfere in her matters in name of help but what she does for them is help

Anandi is not some 20 year old child bride who hasn't experienced anything about worldly life! She 40+ widow with 2 kids and lots of experience in social work, manipulative relatives and kitchen politics! On what basis can she be called strong-headed if Dadisa can make decisions for her, spoils her son in name of love and cannot let her leave BH even when she wants to? Either Anandi is empowered enough to make her own decisions or she is usual run-in-the-mill 'abla naari' with strong support system and strong financial status! One can easily reject all the help and support Anandi has received from various people around and in her life but it's hard to overlook that these so-called interference and love-for-controlling-her is what kept her alive till now! She has proved her capabilities as single parent or sole decision-maker of her children's lives through various incidents in these 11 years! Heck , she proved it during Amol's time! She would rather prove herself as a dutiful bahu than good and strong-headed mother! Amol turned out to be good because Anandi wasn't the sole parent figure in his life! He had a father like Shiv in his life! Unfortunately, Shivam and Nandini cannot enjoy such luxury and have to suffer because of their mother's selfless nature!

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CosmoCoCo

@CosmoCoCo

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Posted: 9 years ago

#26

Someone is still there Jagya identified Nimboli is Nandini He was doing his duty as an elective representative Anandi got benefitted by it Its not like Jagya was doing anything thinking for Anandi

what about when Mangala ran away with Nimboli He personally searched for Nimboli day and night sacrificing his personal priorities and postponing his many professional work too ?it was because of his efforts Nimboli was found . Anandi got phone from him sitting at home Nimboli is found

Now i know it will said Anandi did not ask help from him😆 Well the serial is proof enough Anandi did look up to Jagya's help She was dependent on his help She was doing Jagya Jagya all the time

When Nimboli ran away from BH Anandi knocked at his door in the middle of night and he searched for her daughter in the middle of night because a helpless woman in need of help knocked at his door, seeking help from him How he could refuse her ? He is not that kind of person so he helped her

I find it amazing Anandi gets credited by same people even if she does nothing but others efforts especially Jagya's ,which do good of Anandi are always said its nothing ?

The jeweller will get credits but not Jagya why so much biasism ?

Edited by _Hannah_ - 9 years ago

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 9 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

If Jagya followed this non interference clause, he would not have phoned anandi excitedly about Nandini being found. He would have kept quiet.

Jagya should not have asked some stuff of kid Nimboli from Mangala when from Mangala's story he connected the dots and understood Nimboli is Nandini Why he should bother ? if even if suspected Nimboli is Nandini then Nandini is Anandi's daughter Why Jagya needed to interfere in Anandi's life ? Anandi could search for her daughter on her own

He should not have called Anandi when he found out Nandini

even if told Anandi then he should not have searched for Mangala and Nimboli but gone home and give time to his family and do his work Nimboli is not his daughter why he should search for her and interfere in Anandi's life Anandi should do it on her own

Then we would have seen Anandi be able to find Nandini in this birth without Jagya's help

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1013962

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Posted: 9 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Well kids will ask questions. But it's not just Anandi's kids who are unaware of the truth.Even Jagya's kids don't know.
Anandi's kids know that their father is no more and all they know is that Dsa is their badinanisa.
Shivam knows that his daddu got those chains with pendents made for him and his sister.So he knows that who his family is. Although we don't know how many times Shivam met them.
Shivam knows enough about his father because he hero worships him.
Of course Jagya s Kid abhi will know the truth.

As for Shivam's grandparents from both sides they have colourful history too.Khazan Singh went to jail for commiting fraud so did Anop.Alok snatched his brother's son/or rather EBed his SIL to give her son to him and brought him up as his own and revealed the truth when it became too difficult to conceal.
Shivam and Nandini's Buaji what can be said about her bratty ways?

There are enough and more things Shivam and Nandini need to know about their families from their mother's side as well as from father's side.
Shivam and Nandini also needs to know about their Badi nanisa how she used to torture their mom.how she killed her daughter in law how she used to buy brides for son n pota. How their Jagya Kakisa insulted their mom. How did Jagya Kakusa framed their father. Track record of Kalyani Devi n vidhayak sa is also not written on golden plate.
But I understand because of criminal history of sekhars anandi is keen on establishing her kids as Singh parivar kids or maybe there is some more twist on the story that actually her kids are biological kids of a member of Singh family.

Jagya's kids also have to know about Jagya Gauri marriage and how it happened how it broke up then what all Jagya did after his marriage with Gauri broke up till he met Ganga.

Considering so much the kids need to know the reasons why Jagya Anandi marriage broke up and why they are good friends is much easier to tell the kids😛

Kids may know about Gouri but Gouri is no way connected to the family unless the unborn child still exist but that also will not effect them. Because gouri must be raising the child on her own.
I wonder which person will like her mom staying with her ex s family or his fathers ex staying with them.
If I would have been the kid I would have hated it and disrespected such parent as well as the ex.
Anyway this is expected from some one who is a Biased aji fan and every one knows it.

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ButterflyOnRose

@ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 9 years ago

#29

Mannu knows about Gauri now but not abhi

i dont think Jagya kids even need to know Gauri because thats not connected to them

They have no connection with Anandi and neither need to know about her if she would be staying somewhere else but unfortunately their father will never rid of his balika vadhu and still has to bear the ill effects of his child marriage His balika vadhu still a burden on him so they came into connection with Anandi who is living in BH acting as their maasi

Only Mannu knows she is not Ganga's sister in real .Abhi , Shivam and now Nandini even now think this

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1013962

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Posted: 9 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Hina-

Totally agreed anandi did nothing in mission Nandini other than being dumb. But credit has to go to her bcz her photo is in the montage. But trp s prove that anandi is no longer for business bcz full fledged jhalra trp was 3.7 now 1.9.

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