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Posted: 9 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi let go of Dsa and J who offended against her she could have filed criminal cases against them with the help of teacherji.
Both Dsa and J got a second lease in life all thanks to Anandi's generosity.
They should look back at their own past.

did Jagya and Dadisaa beg to Anandi ? Did they ask her help ? You are glorifying Anandi's generosity but discrediting Jagya and Dadisaa's generosity by saying Anandi never asked help from them , you are even blaming Jagya and Dadisaa to be interfering Anandi's life then why are you over glorifying Anandi Jagya and Dadisaa got a second lease of life because of the great Anandi's generosity and they are indebted to her for life time ?
why these double standards ?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@misseah
Your post is nice.
Though I do not support mangala s unethical ways but if I raised a kid I will never give her to anyone.
Being a mother of an adopted son I can understand when you have to let him go. Educated people will not keep a kidnapped child they will file FIR and then if no claimant is found they can legally adopt her.
But mangla is a village woman it is not expected to behave in a decent way. Her track needs to be closed.
Anandi by no means represent women empowerment n independence. If today my husband dies I will not even go and stay with my brother or sister s family. I will do a job rent a house and raise my kids. Every one needs their own space. So anandi s stay at bh is just not done be in whatever capacity ex wife current friend.from Jagya s expression I also felt now Jagya will also support Ganga in saying no more mangla in our house and may be nod yes for anandi moving to SN. That scene of Ganga saying Jagya dadisa is wrong is just not for the sake of it.For ds nothing matters other than ladeswar. And if Jagya apologises and anandi stays back at bh I will say anandi s self respect has gone down the drain but possible there is nothing left in the charecter.
People who says whether dadisa n Jagya asked anandi to help them better get the memories back. It is dadisa who used to call anandi to come and get involve in Jagya s life. Ganga used to take her advice.
And Jagya also admits my life is so good because of anandi. But of course aji could have said no but she did not.
Anant finding out about fake mother would have gone waste if jeweller would have not come. It is his luck that jeweller fell on his lap. But I did not like dadisa telling truth to kids.
Anandi moving out to f bh is not possible after her death she will roam in bh as ghost. But in these mess up may be Jagya will move to delhi with kids for his political career.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dsa did not have any business in revealing the truth to Anandi's children.How a mother brings up her children what decisions she takes is the mother's business not anyone else's.
Dsa interfered in Jagya's upbringing and we have seen enough and more of what it has done to Jagya😛.

Anant is doing what ever he has been doing because he wants to do and want to make a point through it. Ultimately what ever he did never amounted to much just to create an illusion that he has helped Anandi.

Dsa loves to control Anandi's life and it was evident from the time she forced Anandi to marry Shiv.

Finally when Anandi married Shiv she did it for her mother.This old lady when it suited her she wanted Anandi to marry Shiv and when it didn't suit her she wanted Anandi to break her engagement with Shiv and marry Jagya. It was like a slap on her face when Anandi told her off and chose Shiv over Jagya.In spite of all this she never let her holdover Anandi weaken.Even after Anandi's marriage with Shiv she never let go of Anandi.Instead she would constantly call her to tell her about all SIngh family problems and involved Anandi in Singh family affairs.Jagya was no less when he asked Anandi to select a bride for him.
After Shiv's death and Nandini's kidnap the lady was only too happy to have Anandi back.All thanks to Dsa Shivam ended up being a spoilt brat.

If Dsa doesn't want to help Mangala it's fine it is her wish.She may be right in her place to think that way But who was she to tell Anandi what Anandi should do?

Ultimately it was circumstances that told Anandi where her child is.It is not like Jagya and Mangala were all set to help Anandi find her child.
Anandi's child came to her because the truth about the self proclaimed mother got revelaed on it's own through the jeweller.

Anandi is not really enjoying fruits of somebody's hard work,People may have come forward to help her but ultimately it was circumstances that brought mother and daughter together.





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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi was pushed by dadisa to stay at Badi haveli but she took a concise decision to move to SN.
She came back temporarily but now she is not under any pressure. She does not have any intention to go anywhere.
She is establishing her kids as bh kids and bh as mera ghar. She herself once wanted to move out with mangla. Is it just for a build up of another drama where it is more crude of kids questioning Jaan s kachche Umar Ki kachche pyar. Seems like.
But I m sure no leap is on card.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If helping is called interference, is not anandi's help can also be called interference. If circumstances and coincidences yield results, Anandis are not needed. They are incidental. Even law enforcing agencies are enough.

Lord Krishna said something like this in Geeta. "Dont be under the illusion that you are doing these things".
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well kids will ask questions. But it's not just Anandi's kids who are unaware of the truth.Even Jagya's kids don't know.
Anandi's kids know that their father is no more and all they know is that Dsa is their badinanisa.
Shivam knows that his daddu got those chains with pendents made for him and his sister.So he knows that who his family is. Although we don't know how many times Shivam met them.
Shivam knows enough about his father because he hero worships him.

As for Shivam's grandparents from both sides they have colourful history too.Khazan Singh went to jail for commiting fraud so did Anop.Alok snatched his brother's son/or rather EBed his SIL to give her son to him and brought him up as his own and revealed the truth when it became too difficult to conceal.
Shivam and Nandini's Buaji what can be said about her bratty ways?

There are enough and more things Shivam and Nandini need to know about their families from their mother's side as well as from father's side.

Jagya's kids also have to know about Jagya Gauri marriage and how it happened how it broke up then what all Jagya did after his marriage with Gauri broke up till he met Ganga.

Considering so much the kids need to know the reasons why Jagya Anandi marriage broke up and why they are good friends is much easier to tell the kids😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: aparnauma



Anandi is not really enjoying fruits of somebody's hard work,People may have come forward to help her but ultimately it was circumstances that brought mother and daughter together.





That way Anandi's entire life is full of circumstances, so then where is the place for hardwork or women empowerment, if everything has to be credited to circumstances.


Why is that Anandi's hardwork is hardwork and others' efforts are just circumstances?

Yes, one thing is to Anandi's credits. She may be unwise on her own, but she is lucky enough to have sensible and supportive family. She surely has someone to ride her life always. Bhairon to Dsa to Shiv to Dsa/ Jagya.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

If helping is called interference, is not anandi's help can also be called interference. If circumstances and coincidences yield results, Anandis are not needed. They are incidental. Even law enforcing agencies are enough.

Lord Krishna said something like this in Geeta. "Dont be under the illusion that you are doing these things".

Wasn't Anandi's help labelled as interference in this forum?
Anandi never interfered in Singh family affairs until she was asked by Dsa to do so.
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We are only talking about how they found out that the child in Akheraj's house is Anandi's child.
If it is not a coincidence then what is it?Jagya didn't know what the kidnapper looked like and he wasn't even looking for Anandi's child at that juncture.He was only doing his job as an elected representative.Jagya was doing his duty Mangala was trying to get rid of Akheraj in that Anandi was the unintended beneficiary.

Mangala was concealing the fact that Anandi is the mother and the truth came out in the open on it's own and Anandi confronted Mangala because the truth was staring in front of her. She started doubting Mangala because of what Shivam had told her and not because of what Anant or Dsa have been telling her .How did the truth about Mangala hiring fake mother come out? It was because of the jeweller who didn't even know what was happening.

If the jeweller didn't turn up from no where would they have been able to confront Mangala on the strength of what Anant told and what Dsa suspected?Even of they confronted what would have been the outcome?

It is circumstances more than anyone's efforts that brought Anandi and her daughter to gether.




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just because Anandi had absolute no efforts and contribution in finding her own daughter, suddenly everybody's efforts became circumstances?
Mangala chose to reveal the roots of Nimboli to vidhayaksa, which if she wanted, she could have easily concealed.

Jagya, not only identified A's daughter, but he chose to help Anandi by driving her and running around with her in the dark nights to help this "helpless" woman, find her lost daughter. He chose to sacrifce his private life, risk his life and leave other personal professional priorities to help out Anandi.

Anant chose to overlook Anandi's laid back nature, and instead strategically planned to see if he can dig deep out of Nandini to get any furher success. He chose not to remain blind like Anandi, but instead collect clues to unfold Mangala's mindset.

All the above people willingly made some decisions, took time and efforts to create favourable circumstances for Anandi, that can help Anandi in reuniting with her daughter.

Yes, for Anandi it was "all gains without pain"


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Dsa did not have any business in revealing the truth to Anandi's children.How a mother brings up her children what decisions she takes is the mother's business not anyone else's.

lols if thats so Then who was Anandi to decide Mannu should meet with Ratan and at home she was lecturing Jagya and Ganga on it 😛even if she gave promise to Ratan she should have kept it to herself why she was lecturing Jagya and Ganga ?when Ganga refused to her you were fully defending Anandi and bashing Ganga why ? why she giving lectures to Jagya Ganga on Mannu and abhi ? who is she ?

and Dadisaa's revealing the truth to kids helped Anandi otherwise her kids would continue to live under lies Dadisaa could not take that anymore if she would have left it on Anandi then kids would have suffered more


Finally when Anandi married Shiv she did it for her mother.This old lady when it suited her she wanted Anandi to marry Shiv and when it didn't suit her she wanted Anandi to break her engagement with Shiv and marry Jagya. It was like a slap on her face when Anandi told her off and chose Shiv over Jagya.In spite of all this she never let her holdover Anandi weaken.Even after Anandi's marriage with Shiv she never let go of Anandi.Instead she would constantly call her to tell her about all SIngh family problems and involved Anandi in Singh family affairs.
Anandi so called chose shiv over Jagya later was crying buckets for same Jagya ?😆

and may i ask you when Dadisaa was calling Anandi again and again to tell her about singhs problems ? Most of the times it was Anandi who called but coincidentally at that time when Dadisaa would be worried and she would ask Dadisaa what happened why she sounds worried ? then Dadisaa would tell her thats how Anandi came to know about Mannu's cancer , Ganga's complicated pregnancy and some problems in singhs lives

you are just twisting serial facts to suit your Anandi Can you please explain Why Anandi was making an issue of singhs did not tell her Jagya is not at home ?Dadisaa did not tell her Jagya is not at home Anandi cried so much on that and was angry at singhs When singhs dont tell Anandi about their matters Anandi gets angry at them and when Dadisaa tells her, her fans bash her she is interfering in Anandi's life What Dadisaa should do i wonder ?😆



Jagya was no less when he asked Anandi to select a bride for him.

you are saying it like Jagya himself went to beg to Anandi please select a bride for me ? You think you can fool people like this ?why not write the complete scene so that people should know actual truth It was your Anandi who was running after Jagya and bullied him for marriage He marries or not its his life you tell me why she was lecturing him , begging , pleading and bashing him if he did not want to marry ? when she was insisting and pressing him so much to marry then he asked her to get a suitable partner for him too It was Anandi who interfered in his life and forced him to marry then he asked her to get a suitable partner for him too because she was insisting him to marry but that was his biggest mistake to ask her that because she set his life into destruction by trying to bind him with Sanchi He took decision in his own hands in the end and married Ganga saving his life from mess if he would have listened to Anandi then his life would be mess marrying Sanchi

After Shiv's death and Nandini's kidnap the lady was only too happy to have Anandi back.All thanks to Dsa Shivam ended up being a spoilt brat.

so shivam is a spoiled brat ? you accept that Finally😆 but its not alone Dadisaa's fault Its Anandi's fault for not putting him in limits and correcting him when he was wrong Therefore he became spoiled



If Dsa doesn't want to help Mangala it's fine it is her wish.She may be right in her place to think that way But who was she to tell Anandi what Anandi should do?

Ultimately it was circumstances that told Anandi where her child is.It is not like Jagya and Mangala were all set to help Anandi find her child.

Anandi's child came to her because the truth about the self proclaimed mother got revelaed on it's own through the jeweller.

Anandi is not really enjoying fruits of somebody's hard work,People may have come forward to help her but ultimately it was circumstances that brought mother and daughter together.


amazing when it comes to give credits to others because of whose efforts Anandi got benefitted It is being said by you those were the circumstances, Jagya Dadisaa deserve no credits but you will give Anandi credits for whatever good others have their lives even when Anandi has no contribution in that The recent one you gave in this thread Jagya and Dadisaa got lease in new life because Anandi did not throw them in jail ? Did she already knew Jagya and Dadisaa will be leading this life if she did not send them in jail?No so on which basis you give her credits ?

Edited by Hina- - 9 years ago

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