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I am really surprised that people are fighting and strongly suggesting that Sanchi is not be blamed but are at the same time blaming her family,her elders,Anandi for whatever happened with her.
Did Sanchi deserved to be raped? NO..nobody deserves to be raped and Saurabh should be severely punished for raping her by getting maximum sentence possible probably spending the rest of his life in jail.
But is Sanchi at fault? Ofcourse she is..not for being raped but for ruining her life..and rape is just the final blow she got due to her own acts and judgements. She kept going in the wrong direction,doing wrong things,taking wrong decisions..she became a terrible person and we all are aware of how low she had stooped in her acts..It is her fault that she took to wrong people, to wrong habits and trusted them with her life. She is so smart otherwise that she can make cunning plots to get what she wants. She very well knew what kind of people Ankita and her group were and voluntarily she joined them probably because she found it cool. She also had the wind of what kind of a person Saurabh was and it is plain hypocrisy of BV makers to show her innocent of not knowing Saurabh's intentions and thinking he will marry her. Saurabh pretty much made his intentions clear and who knows she might have well gone ahead and given up to Saurabh's pressure to do the deed if not for that gardener that day because clearly she just played him that day and not even once got angry or upset that he was trying to get close to her without her permission.
BV makers just had to show this nonsense rape to prove her character which had crossed all lines except this one..They could have well easily shown Sanchi giving in to Saurabh's wishes due to peer pressure or love pressure and than realizing her mistakes and could have given a message to youngsters many of which face such situations where they are physically used at the name of love but no they had to make it all Saurabh's mistake and create a rape message for the viewers so chose to have It this way..
Now many of you are just jumping on people with opinion that Sanchi brought it on herself..now I can never say that anybody deserves to be raped and that anybody voluntarily asks for it or that anybody brings it on themselves but if a person is so walking on the wrong side of the road, he or she is bound to be hit by consequences of there acts..Tell me frankly that if Sanchi would have willingly- even out of peer pressure- made love with Saurabh would you not think that it was Sanchi's fault?..Obviously CVs have cunningly changed the dynamics by bringing rape twist in here but that does not change dynamics of what Sanchi did and all the wrong-doings she is responsible for and even the consequences of her wrong choices..She is not responsible for getting raped but she is responsible for such a situation to arise in her life.
And now lets come to parenting blame-game!
Blaming the parents-trust me it is the easiest thing to do..anything a child does-blame the parent..Are these not the same parents who brought up Shiv? Is this not the same family which brought up Shiv? There is only a limit of what parents can do. I really dislike when everything is conveniently shifted to parents. They did all they could do to stop her and change her but if a child is hell bent on spoiling his/her life there is nothing anyone can do. They shouted at her, tried to teach her the mild way, got her medical counsel but if the child keeps betraying them, keeps lying to them, keeps pretending to them that everything is good now,that they are walking on the right way WHAT can they do? Beat them,chain them or what..because frankly they tried a lot of things but Sanchi was just adamant to do what she wanted to do.
While I have my full sympathy to her parents and her family, I can only partially sympathize with Sanchi. It does not make me an anti-feminist or one of the people who blame it on the victim. I make my judgement by seeing the entire situation and not just by seeing the tip of the iceberg.
Jhanak
Udne Ki Aasha
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