Blame-game and hypocrisy! - Page 4

Originally posted by: sidra08

For last time i am saying for God's sake i said about changing dynamics of her love With one of her love she has no problem in touching shoucing and kissing with other she has she was No saurabh I am saying this you are telling about Jagya was conscious She was not Saurabh send this sms to her Here most of us expected seeing her behavior with Jagya she might go get physical with her new love Saurabh and he will kick her out later since he is a fraud but this didn't happen because cvs changed her character over night This we are talking from where consciousness came in here and she didn't drug Jagya

Originally posted by: tanvismile

OKK okk relax ,i got what your saying ,but i dont feel her character is being changed ,she was different with jagya becoz she really liked him ,and most importantly she was about to marry him in month ,it was official while her equation with saurabh ,its not official yet ,she does like him,spending time with him,but its not official ,she is yet on her way in discovering her feelings for saurabh,thats the reason she was uncomfortable .This is my understanding of sanchi s character regarding this.

Originally posted by: blushing

Exactly...physical assault on women shd not be justified accepted...

so whether it is Marital Assault or Even on S*X worker without consent any physical assault is not at all justified

Even in Jail Women who is punished for her crime if this Assault happened with her it is consider as Crime too

That time we can't say That Women is Criminal and punished so she does not deserve Symphony or care

Originally posted by: sidra08

bold and may i know the reason why she was enjoying Sunny rubbing her shoulder thinking Jagya was doing so ? At that time the marriage was not fixed in even viewers dreams ?At that time she knew she will marry him in a month No and she said now such things look good only after marriage so what is point of marrying in a month in this ? when her views are such things ony suit after marriage so why despo to do them pre marriage no matter you are marrying in a month to same guy ??The point is she does not mind the guy she loves touch her , neither she minds kissing all that so her behavior for Saurabh is going out of her character Cvs did change her character

Originally posted by: tanvismile

i feel very sorry for her irrespective of what kind of girl she is .But like everyone said its difficult to sympathise with a girl like sanchi,in real life also if a girl who was wearing short dressess ,drink alcohol ,becomes a victim of rape .WHO WOULD SYMPATHISE WITH THAT GIRL,INFACT PEOPLE WOULD BLAME HER ONLY ,INSTEAD OF SYMPATHISING PLUS HERE SANCHI IS A CURRENT VILLIAN OF SHOW.In jaitser and udaipur if people come to know ,people will point fingers to sanchi character due to her past doings,like coming drunk to parties held by kalyani ,insulting them.

Sanchi is going the learn the biggest lesson of life and now realise the imp of anandi and her family ,last what she did was fake suicide attempt,i woudnt be shocked if this time she tries to kill herself in real.

Originally posted by: Bul3

I am not taking away the fact that Saurabh is totally and fully responsible for the rape. But at the same time Sanchi is at fault of getting in such a situation..she is not responsible for getting raped but she is responsible for getting herself in such a situation..Do you think if she was just saved in the nick of time by Anandi you would not blame Sanchi for getting in such a situation where she could have even got raped!!BUT now since rape actually took place we are forced to look at it in a way where Sanchi is wrong for nothing..We all have seen Sanchi's character from the start and are fully aware of what kind of a person she is ..Don't you agree that BV makers just brought in the rape scenario for giving a message and bailing Sanchi's character which had gone to the lowest levels possible..frankly as how I saw Sanchi's character she would have succumbed to Saurabh's pressure but just because CVs did not had the guts to show it that way, they chose this rape situation..They have conveniently got away with such things before and I really feel they use viewers at the name of social message where they always play with social issues as they are some trp gaining games..It would be much better if they chose to show how girls cross the boundaries in the name of love when they are just being used and that could have been well Sanchi's redemption's start..but that would be showing what really happens in today's world..And CVs just cannot have it the right way because they had to show it in a way which just makes people believe that girls who go to parties and who drink end up being raped.. They just wanted to blame the culture of partying and girls giving freedom misusing it..its like khap panchayat where girl is at fault of anything bad happening to her..More that Sanchi's character I am against BV makers for using wrong means to justify a message which is in heads of many people..I am open-minded enough to understand that what you are saying is right and nobody but the rapist is responsible for rape but here what the message is given to the masses is that victim is responsible also..BV should not have shown it that way..

Originally posted by: Jan50

Yes it is very difficult to feel too much sympathy for Sanchi,not because she was wearing short dress

Or drinking alchohol but she tried to ruin the lives of others deliberately. If given a chance will

Continue to do so. she has absolutely no regard for any one. Feeling no symathy for Sanchi should not be construed as we are appauding the rape and trying to be a defense lawyer for the rapist Saurab. Unfortunately there is too much tirade

And Personal attacks and bashing on members whose heart just does not bleed for Sanchi. This is the first reaction

Of people . But as days pass people will see her in a different light and her victim status will

Take over and they will sympathise with her.