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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

Every one is responsible for his or her mistakes then the list is llong in .bv first ds for all her past misdeeds then basant for raping gehna jagya for all his extra marital affairs n ganga for rromancing an engaged man fthese people became mahaan for the members biz they r just blind fans n now for sanchi it is not happening b.cz her character became point of focus

I am really sorry there are no fans for Sanchi.😃 May be after this incident there could be.who ever
Commits mistakes they go thru hell before they redeem. Why should it be any different for Sanchi?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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great post! i completely agree with u!
i will be honest that i also have only partial sympathy with sanchi !

she is a well educated modern girl but she has been shown hell bent on ruining her own life.
even for a moment she didnt understand why her parents are taking her to the doctor etc. there is no harm in partying but she trusted the wrong people, even when earlier she was sane and had good friends!

but in this it is the familys fault as well, they never gave sanchi time and made her understand her mistakes, they should have ensured her doctor visits and everything!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Majority of the members including me who felt sympathetic towards her for the situation she is in now.Most of the members who sympathasing with her now found her and her actions unbearable.

Yes Sanchi was ruining her life by insisting on having her own way and trusting people who she shouldn't trust and not trusting people whom she should trust - simply put she was making bad decisions all along.Till now all her actions were dictated by her stupidity combined with arrogance.
She was trying to attract Jagya's attentions what was wrong in it?It is not like she is throwing herself at every man she came across.She started this friendship with Saurabh and was not yet ready to go to the next level in that relationship probably she wanted to get to know him better so what was wrong in that?
But saying that she is asking for trouble like this is being unfair to her.
No where is there a rule that attending a party with a man means willing to get into bed with him.
Parties do happen women do drink but men don't assume that the woman is ready to jump into bed with him.
Instead of Sanchi if some other girl who is hard working serious about life has caught Saurabh's fancy and she also kind of liked Saurabh just like Sanchi did and was not prepared to go all the way just like Sanchi was wouldn't he have done the same thing to that girl ?
What ever happened to Sanchi could have happened to anygirl who came across him because HE IS THE KIND OF GUY WHO LIKES TO DO THESE KIND OF THINGS AND GETS A KICK OUT OF IT.
The kind of person Sanchi and the thing that happened to her are two different things.
Her behaviour and mentality is not the reason for this.It is Saurabh's mentality and nature that is responsible for this.
Edited by aparnauma - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Majority of the members including me who felt sympathetic towards her for the situation she is in now.Most of the members who sympathasing with her now found her and her actions unbearable.

Yes Sanchi was ruining her life by insisting on having her own way and trusting people who she shouldn't trust and not trusting people whom she should trust - simply put she was making bad decisions all along.Till now all her actions were dictated by her stupidity combined with arrogance.
She was trying to attract Jagya's attentions what was wrong in it?It is not like she is throwing herself at every man she came across.She started this friendship with Saurabh and was not yet ready to go to the next level in that relationship probably she wanted to get to know him better so what was wrong in that?
But saying that she is asking for trouble like this is being unfair to her.
No where is there a rule that attending a party with a man means willing to get into bed with him.
Parties do happen women do drink but men don't assume that the woman is ready to jump into bed with him.
Instead of Sanchi if some other girl who is hard working serious about life has caught Saurabh's fancy and she also kind of liked Saurabh just like Sanchi did and was not prepared to go all the way just like Sanchi was wouldn't he have done the same thing to that girl ?
What ever happened to Sanchi could have happened to anygirl who came across him because HE IS THE KIND OF GUY WHO LIKES TO DO THESE KIND OF THINGS AND GETS A KICK OUT OF IT.
The kind of person Sanchi and the thing that happened to her are two different things.
Her behaviour and mentality is not the reason for this.It is Saurabh's mentality and nature that is responsible for this.


@ bold - that is the main issue. What happened to Sanchi should not be related to what kind of a person she is. She is the victim and deserves sympathy and support. @blue above - it is unfair to relate her behaviour with J and justify what Saurabh did to her.

However, I understand why some people are not feeling very sympathetic towards Sanchi - her character was very bad right from the beginning and nobody likes her. Creatives could have highlight the issue if such thing happened to some "good" girl. By using the track on Sanchi - they seem to giving the message that such things happen only with "bad" girls.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Puja All the viewers feeling sorry for her now don't/ didn't approve of her actions.
Feeling sorry for Sanchi doesn't mean that the opinion we have of her has changed. She has to change her behaviour and ways irrespective of what happened to her now.
But what is not right is linking her behaviour to her current state.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ Aparna, loved you post (first one on page 2).
Well said.
Edited by Missesha - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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bul 3 for rest of reply of course they r blindly believing sanchi .two three times sanchi proove to shekhars she has become good but in each time shekhars come to know sanchi is just pretending but even after this shekhars cannot keep on eye sanchi and beliving her blindly then it is very strange . i am not saying they should keep eye on sanchi everytime at least they can keep on eye on sanchi for sometime but they dont bother to keep on sanchi even for 1 minute .after court incident when anandi asking her to eat food sanchi come down and ask apology from family and ira become happy that my daughter realizing her mistake but after when shekhars went to singh jagya ganga reception in that reception sanchi insulted singh family . after this incident ira should have become more cautious about sanchi behaviour and should think if next time if sanchi ask forgivness then v will not blindly give her chance . misusing of freedom is wrong but when shekhars come to know that sanchi misusing their freedom their extreme lovethen why dont shekhars cut down freedom of sanchi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

However, I understand why some people are not feeling very sympathetic towards Sanchi - her character was very bad right from the beginning and nobody likes her. Creatives could have highlight the issue if such thing happened to some "good" girl. By using the track on Sanchi - they seem to giving the message that such things happen only with "bad" girls.

I do agree it is difficult to feel very sympathetic towards Sanchi because her behaviour has been deplorable from the very begining and nobody likes her.

If this has been shown happening to a some "good girl"the reaction would have been unequivocal and everybody would have condemned it.By choosing Sanchi for this they have initiated this debate.They want us viewers to question ourselves and our reactions.

When ever anywhere a woman is attacked the first reaction is what did the woman do to provoke this if the woman has "good reputation they will feel sorry for her and if the woman's nature is questionable they find enough reasons in her behavior to justify what has happened to her is what she deserved or " unconsciously asking for it"
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i feel very sorry for her irrespective of what kind of girl she is .But like everyone said its difficult to sympathise with a girl like sanchi,in real life also if a girl who was wearing short dressess ,drink alcohol ,becomes a victim of rape .WHO WOULD SYMPATHISE WITH THAT GIRL,INFACT PEOPLE WOULD BLAME HER ONLY ,INSTEAD OF SYMPATHISING PLUS HERE SANCHI IS A CURRENT VILLIAN OF SHOW.In jaitser and udaipur if people come to know ,people will point fingers to sanchi character due to her past doings,like coming drunk to parties held by kalyani ,insulting them.
Sanchi is going the learn the biggest lesson of life and now realise the imp of anandi and her family ,last what she did was fake suicide attempt,i woudnt be shocked if this time she tries to kill herself in real.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

i feel very sorry for her irrespective of what kind of girl she is .But like everyone said its difficult to sympathise with a girl like sanchi,in real life also if a girl who was wearing short dressess ,drink alcohol ,becomes a victim of rape .WHO WOULD SYMPATHISE WITH THAT GIRL,INFACT PEOPLE WOULD BLAME HER ONLY ,INSTEAD OF SYMPATHISING PLUS HERE SANCHI IS A CURRENT VILLIAN OF SHOW.In jaitser and udaipur if people come to know ,people will point fingers to sanchi character due to her past doings,like coming drunk to parties held by kalyani ,insulting them.

Sanchi is going the learn the biggest lesson of life and now realise the imp of anandi and her family ,last what she did was fake suicide attempt,i woudnt be shocked if this time she tries to kill herself in real.



Very well said.

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