Majority of the members including me who felt sympathetic towards her for the situation she is in now.Most of the members who sympathasing with her now found her and her actions unbearable.
Yes Sanchi was ruining her life by insisting on having her own way and trusting people who she shouldn't trust and not trusting people whom she should trust - simply put she was making bad decisions all along.Till now all her actions were dictated by her stupidity combined with arrogance.
She was trying to attract Jagya's attentions what was wrong in it?It is not like she is throwing herself at every man she came across.She started this friendship with Saurabh and was not yet ready to go to the next level in that relationship probably she wanted to get to know him better so what was wrong in that?
But saying that she is asking for trouble like this is being unfair to her.
No where is there a rule that attending a party with a man means willing to get into bed with him.
Parties do happen women do drink but men don't assume that the woman is ready to jump into bed with him.
Instead of Sanchi if some other girl who is hard working serious about life has caught Saurabh's fancy and she also kind of liked Saurabh just like Sanchi did and was not prepared to go all the way just like Sanchi was wouldn't he have done the same thing to that girl ?
What ever happened to Sanchi could have happened to anygirl who came across him because HE IS THE KIND OF GUY WHO LIKES TO DO THESE KIND OF THINGS AND GETS A KICK OUT OF IT.
The kind of person Sanchi and the thing that happened to her are two different things.
Her behaviour and mentality is not the reason for this.It is Saurabh's mentality and nature that is responsible for this.
Edited by aparnauma - 11 years ago