Blame-game and hypocrisy! - Page 3

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Majority of the members including me who felt sympathetic towards her for the situation she is in now.Most of the members who sympathasing with her now found her and her actions unbearable.

Yes Sanchi was ruining her life by insisting on having her own way and trusting people who she shouldn't trust and not trusting people whom she should trust - simply put she was making bad decisions all along.Till now all her actions were dictated by her stupidity combined with arrogance.

She was trying to attract Jagya's attentions what was wrong in it?It is not like she is throwing herself at every man she came across.She started this friendship with Saurabh and was not yet ready to go to the next level in that relationship probably she wanted to get to know him better so what was wrong in that?

But saying that she is asking for trouble like this is being unfair to her.

No where is there a rule that attending a party with a man means willing to get into bed with him.

Parties do happen women do drink but men don't assume that the woman is ready to jump into bed with him.

Instead of Sanchi if some other girl who is hard working serious about life has caught Saurabh's fancy and she also kind of liked Saurabh just like Sanchi did and was not prepared to go all the way just like Sanchi was wouldn't he have done the same thing to that girl ?

What ever happened to Sanchi could have happened to anygirl who came across him because HE IS THE KIND OF GUY WHO LIKES TO DO THESE KIND OF THINGS AND GETS A KICK OUT OF IT.

The kind of person Sanchi and the thing that happened to her are two different things.

Her behaviour and mentality is not the reason for this.It is Saurabh's mentality and nature that is responsible for this.

I am not taking away the fact that Saurabh is totally and fully responsible for the rape. But at the same time Sanchi is at fault of getting in such a situation..she is not responsible for getting raped but she is responsible for getting herself in such a situation..Do you think if she was just saved in the nick of time by Anandi you would not blame Sanchi for getting in such a situation where she could have even got raped!!BUT now since rape actually took place we are forced to look at it in a way where Sanchi is wrong for nothing..We all have seen Sanchi's character from the start and are fully aware of what kind of a person she is ..Don't you agree that BV makers just brought in the rape scenario for giving a message and bailing Sanchi's character which had gone to the lowest levels possible..frankly as how I saw Sanchi's character she would have succumbed to Saurabh's pressure but just because CVs did not had the guts to show it that way, they chose this rape situation..They have conveniently got away with such things before and I really feel they use viewers at the name of social message where they always play with social issues as they are some trp gaining games..It would be much better if they chose to show how girls cross the boundaries in the name of love when they are just being used and that could have been well Sanchi's redemption's start..but that would be showing what really happens in today's world..And CVs just cannot have it the right way because they had to show it in a way which just makes people believe that girls who go to parties and who drink end up being raped.. They just wanted to blame the culture of partying and girls giving freedom misusing it..its like khap panchayat where girl is at fault of anything bad happening to her..More that Sanchi's character I am against BV makers for using wrong means to justify a message which is in heads of many people..I am open-minded enough to understand that what you are saying is right and nobody but the rapist is responsible for rape but here what the message is given to the masses is that victim is responsible also..BV should not have shown it that way..

Originally posted by: SPuja

@ bold - that is the main issue. What happened to Sanchi should not be related to what kind of a person she is. She is the victim and deserves sympathy and support. @blue above - it is unfair to relate her behaviour with J and justify what Saurabh did to her.

However, I understand why some people are not feeling very sympathetic towards Sanchi - her character was very bad right from the beginning and nobody likes her. Creatives could have highlight the issue if such thing happened to some "good" girl. By using the track on Sanchi - they seem to giving the message that such things happen only with "bad" girls.

this is my main problem!!

Originally posted by: aparnauma

@Puja All the viewers feeling sorry for her now don't/ didn't approve of her actions.

Feeling sorry for Sanchi doesn't mean that the opinion we have of her has changed. She has to change her behaviour and ways irrespective of what happened to her now.

But what is not right is linking her behaviour to her current state.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

bul 3 for rest of reply of course they r blindly believing sanchi .two three times sanchi proove to shekhars she has become good but in each time shekhars come to know sanchi is just pretending but even after this shekhars cannot keep on eye sanchi and beliving her blindly then it is very strange . i am not saying they should keep eye on sanchi everytime at least they can keep on eye on sanchi for sometime but they dont bother to keep on sanchi even for 1 minute .after court incident when anandi asking her to eat food sanchi come down and ask apology from family and ira become happy that my daughter realizing her mistake but after when shekhars went to singh jagya ganga reception in that reception sanchi insulted singh family . after this incident ira should have become more cautious about sanchi behaviour and should think if next time if sanchi ask forgivness then v will not blindly give her chance . misusing of freedom is wrong but when shekhars come to know that sanchi misusing their freedom their extreme lovethen why dont shekhars cut down freedom of sanchi

Some please tell me who is relating her behavior with J to justify what Saurabh did with her was right? 😕i say its unfair to members their such simple point is dragged to negative direction just to justify what happened with Sanchi was wrong and i say every single person is saying that what happened with her was wrong but really i failed to understand why it is right for a girl to use these tactics to get attention of a guy if they are not wrong 😕These are right tactics??????? . Wearing short dress is not wrong for me its matter of personal choice but wearing with mentality to expose yourself just to get attention of guy is this right?i didnt know it is fair to try to kiss a guy and being touchy shouchy to him despite Go away from me Don't do this is written on his face which any person having common sense can see ?

ya sanchi is responsible for her mistake but I feel if sanchi parents would have somewhat strict to her then sanchi behaviour would have been in control

Originally posted by: sidra08

Some please tell me who is relating her behavior with J to justify what Saurabh did with her was right? 😕i say its unfair to members their such simple point is dragged to negative direction just to justify what happened with Sanchi was wrong and i say every single person is saying that what happened with her was wrong but really i failed to understand why it is right for a girl to use these tactics to get attention of a guy if they are not wrong 😕These are right tactics??????? . Wearing short dress is not wrong for me its matter of personal choice but wearing with mentality to expose yourself just to get attention of guy is this right?i didnt know it is fair to try to kiss a guy and being touchy shouchy to him despite Go away from her Don't do this is written on his face which any person having common sense can see this

who said she is avaliable to all but didnt she expected this from the guy she loves ?She didnt mind to kiss a guy she loves, even aap ko yeh sharatein bhi ati hain 🤢here she does not like even being touched from another guy she LOVES then won't we say cvs are going OUT OF HER CHARACTER ? if we say this then why we are unfair with poor Sanchi 😲

Originally posted by: tanvismile

She went close to J when J was in full senses,she dint drug him ,she was supose to marry j in a month,i know girls trying to get attention from males by wearing short dressess is not right ,it just shows their desperation ,but then trying to get attention isnt wrong,and j in full senses commited to her while what saurav did was used her ,he drugged her,then he made po*n mms on his cell ,which he will use to blackmail her in future.Why will she expect a guy whom she trusts to do po*n mms on her?

i think we should be able to differentiate between feelings( Llking a guy and being touchy) and such a crime ...

For last time i am saying for God's sake i said about changing dynamics of her love With one of her love she has no problem in touching shoucing and kissing with other she has she was No saurabh I am saying this you are telling about Jagya was conscious She was not Saurabh send this sms to her Here most of us expected seeing her behavior with Jagya she might go get physical with her new love Saurabh and he will kick her out later since he is a fraud but this didn't happen because cvs changed her character over night This we are talking from where consciousness came in here and she didn't drug Jagya