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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anandi and her admirers appreciating all her wrong things. The same thing done by some other character will be called using his position. 😕 Here no one is saying she is wrong in helping the child. The doctor just gave her permission immediately only because she is collectors wife and nothing else.
The hospital has no other work than waste their time searching for the file immediately. 😆 will the doctor give the permission it is a commoner 😲 ? What was the need to ask the nurse immediately when she clearly told come in 2 days. Is it such an urgent work to know about shiv birth history ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Why this angst aginst anandi in favour of others?

anandi is a bad speaker and she makes people drowsy while shiv is a good speaker.

anandi is a hypocrite while ganga is not. Througout ganga proved to be the biggest hypocrite by saying one thing and doing something else.

Leaves - You just don't know how bad Anandi is😡

Angst against Anandi is because how could some one like her a village woman that too a balika vadhu, never went to college, divorcee,who has never stepped out of her village believed in respecting sasural and DS wears Ghunghat can end up as a wife of a collector who is so handsome well educated city bred single man??????
How dare she get a husband like that?
Even if she got a husband like that how dare she goes about her life and concerning herself about matters like taking care of her husband's sister his family,concerned about her own family and bother herself with other people like Chanda when she should be revolving around her husband taking care of him and telling him each and every waking minute how fortunate she is that she has a man like him as her husband and tell him how grateful she is that a man like him has fallen for her.
She is not doing any of those so she obviously is bad.

As for Ganga - I heard people calling her hypocrite but fail to understand why?😕
I think Ganga also gets criticised because she dared to become a bahu of BH.How could some one like her dare to dream to be a mistress of BH?
What is her fault?She was married away at the of 12 and raped everyday till she became a mother of child, she ran away with her a child in search of a better world and she dared to find that world in BH.

It doesn't occur to people that Shiv may have married her because he probably knew that she will not shun his loony family
It doesn't occur to people who criticise Ganga that Jagya also had a bad past but his miseries were mostly results of his own acts and he finds fulfilment in taking care and loving Ganga and accepting her as his own.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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From which family does anandi come from is more looney than her husband's. When her own family married her in childhood shows how looney her parents were 😆 her husband is more than a mere handsome educated IAS officer. Just because he did not suffer or did not have a painful does not mean his achievements in life are nothing. 😕 Nobody is telling her to romance her husband 24 hrs but don't bug him 24/7 with her unnessary tensions of family people. Sometimes too much nosy and poking into family members life is a bad habit. She should learn to give space in shekhars family as they r different from haveli people. Not everyone has to like her or call her Devi 😡
Any grown up person will shun off about a nurse saying his mom gave birth to a still born. Will he trust his parents or a wife who came into his life an year ago about his birth details.
Edited by Sheetsden - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anandi's parents did what ever the other people in their community do.That is part of their customs.They are not educated and Maadran family like Shiv's family is.
BH are villagers who did not have the benefit of education lIke Shekhar family did

Sumi is barely literate and has not seen much of the world like Ira did who is educated woman but the behaviour was the same.
BH people learnt from their mistakes and learnt that child marriage was wrong after bad experiences.They realised that for all the mistakes they did their children paid the price.
DS realised that her laad pyar has spoiled Jagya's life.

Does educated Shekhar family realise that they spoiled their daughter with their upbringng?They still call it bachpana.

As for Shiv brushing away all that what Anandi has said about that nurse - it is natural reaction from him.

As for SRS and his achievements are not all that different from other upper middle class people of this country.Before people say IAS exam is a difficult to crack there are lot of exams which are just as difficult to crack.Be it getting into IITs or some premiere medical colleges because these exams are some of the examples.While his achievements are impressive they are not extarorinary.

Anandi or for that matter Ganga's achievements are impressive and they stand with the best of them despite coming from a deprived background.Achievements should always be evaluated and balanced against the opportunities a person gets.That's how Human resource development people assess a person's potential and capabilities.So admiration for Anandi is not a blind admiration nor criticism for Shiv is not blind criticism.
Anandi and Shiv will get praised or criticised according to their actions and what is expected of them.




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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Leaves - You just don't know how bad Anandi is😡

Angst against Anandi is because how could some one like her a village woman that too a balika vadhu, never went to college, divorcee,who has never stepped out of her village believed in respecting sasural and DS wears Ghunghat can end up as a wife of a collector who is so handsome well educated city bred single man??????
How dare she get a husband like that?
Even if she got a husband like that how dare she goes about her life and concerning herself about matters like taking care of her husband's sister his family,concerned about her own family and bother herself with other people like Chanda when she should be revolving around her husband taking care of him and telling him each and every waking minute how fortunate she is that she has a man like him as her husband and tell him how grateful she is that a man like him has fallen for her.
She is not doing any of those so she obviously is bad.

As for Ganga - I heard people calling her hypocrite but fail to understand why?😕
I think Ganga also gets criticised because she dared to become a bahu of BH.How could some one like her dare to dream to be a mistress of BH?
What is her fault?She was married away at the of 12 and raped everyday till she became a mother of child, she ran away with her a child in search of a better world and she dared to find that world in BH.

It doesn't occur to people that Shiv may have married her because he probably knew that she will not shun his loony family
It doesn't occur to people who criticise Ganga that Jagya also had a bad past but his miseries were mostly results of his own acts and he finds fulfilment in taking care and loving Ganga and accepting her as his own.



I had to bring in ganga because ganga's admirers pop up whenever anandi is criticised though I like ganga too in my own way. Jagya getting one more chance in the form of ganga.


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Posted: 12 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi's parents did what ever the other people in their community do.That is part of their customs.They are not educated and Maadran family like Shiv's family is.

BH are villagers who did not have the benefit of education lIke Shekhar family did

Sumi is barely literate and has not seen much of the world like Ira did who is educated woman but the behaviour was the same.
BH people learnt from their mistakes and learnt that child marriage was wrong after bad experiences.They realised that for all the mistakes they did their children paid the price.
DS realised that her laad pyar has spoiled Jagya's life.

Does educated Shekhar family realise that they spoiled their daughter with their upbringng?They still call it bachpana.

As for Shiv brushing away all that what Anandi has said about that nurse - it is natural reaction from him.

As for SRS and his achievements are not all that different from other upper middle class people of this country.Before people say IAS exam is a difficult to crack there are lot of exams which are just as difficult to crack.Be it getting into IITs or some premiere medical colleges because these exams are some of the examples.While his achievements are impressive they are not extarorinary.

Anandi or for that matter Ganga's achievements are impressive and they stand with the best of them despite coming from a deprived background.Achievements should always be evaluated and balanced against the opportunities a person gets.That's how Human resource development people assess a person's potential and capabilities.So admiration for Anandi is not a blind admiration nor criticism for Shiv is not blind criticism.
Anandi and Shiv will get praised or criticised according to their actions and what is expected of them.



Bold. Very well said.

That is how reservations have come up. Because a person from a depressed community wont have the same environmental advantages of a person from a forward community with educated parents.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#27
Anandi is most definitely a hypocrite, because even if it was the doctor who asked for her name (and not the other way around where she deliberately name dropped)... she had to know when initiating the conversation and starting her lecture that someone on the hospital staff would definitely ask "who the f**k are you lady?"
and so she always had intentions of knowing that her name would have an impact.

I dont believe there is anything wrong in the mission of anandi to help the child and parents.

However, what was really off-putting to me was the way she went directly and began attacking the nurse "aap aise kaise mana kar sakte hain"

I find her approach offensive for two reasons:--

1. Every story has two sides, and she could politely have approached the nurse and asked politely what the hospital's reasons were for not admitting the child.

2. The nurse is a junior person, and if at all she talked to the nurse, she should have only asked the nurse for the name of the hospital superintendent. The nurse was only obeying orders and this should be obvious to anandi with her years of experience in Jagya's hospital and dealing with government in general. Low underlings dont have such decision making authority.

Instead, she directly went and started picking up a fight with the nurse and that too in public... thereby almost trying to instigate a riot in the hospital. Tomorrow after she leaves, the patients can be emboldened to beat up doctors and nurses.

Anandi could have given the doctor a lecture in private and got across whatever point she wanted.

And I too have the same question that Jan50 had. Why could the parents not get a discharge certificate?

And if there was some genuine problem with the old hospital not giving them a discharge certificate then why did they not reveal THAT problem to anandi? and ask anandi to fix THAT problem.

The parents slyly concealed that there was some administrative procedure lacking on their end.
They made it seem as if all their papers were in order but the hospital was STILL refusing to admit their baby. This is not correct at all.

Granted the baby is not at fault, but still the mishandling seems to be on the parents side and not on the hospital's side.






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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nowadays IAS has lost its sheen due to various factors like politicians dominating them, corruption among the IAS fraternity, technical education being preferred by the brightest of students.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have far more respect for technocrats and doctors than IAS officers.Especially doctors who save lives and whose slightest mistake will make them target of irate patients.

And technical education is far more difficult.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Nowadays IAS has lost its sheen due to various factors like politicians dominating them, corruption among the IAS fraternity, technical education being preferred by the brightest of students.

Shiv is not just any regular IAS officer. He is an honest collector and praised by Chief minister and respected by lot of people for his work. There are rare honest IAS officers in our country. This itself is very extraordinary according to me. This makes him a great human being. As far as calling shekhars family looney just for raising a silly girl like saanchi is not right. Shekhare gave anandi the equal freedom and love as a bahu in the family. How many families with easily accept their bahu wanting to adopt a kid when she can easily give birth to their first grandchild ? Ira is hesitant but she left that to ansh. Accepting anandi ex-husband family as her maayka and treating them as her family is not less of a deal. Its not just anandi who doing a favor to shiv living with shekhars but they too are equally supporting her wishes. Shiv did not marry anandi because he thinks his family is a looney. Who thinks their own family as looney 😲 He does not live with his family forever. Its only his time for few years he got transferred to his home town. Otherwise anandi does not need to bear his looney family.😆
Edited by Sheetsden - 12 years ago

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