I don't understand all this fuss about Ganga and her self-respect when she herself chose to stay back in Manglore and even berated herself for thinking of returning back to Jaitser.
And even if she did think of returning back she can't be blamed as she was only thinking of going home which was what Jaitser means to her now. She's never had an attachement to a place before Jaitser, and after all the months in a foreign city all she craves for is returning back to familiar surroundings. She is not thinking about Badi Haveli, Sumi or even Dr.Sa there. She just wants to get back to the hospital quarters and work with the people who are eagerly awaiting her return as per what Lal Singh told Jagya. She's filled with hope especially now after topping the college so she has momentarily forgotten the real circumstances back there. It was only when she spoke to Jagya that reality struck (and it struck hard), especially when he talked of bringing her back, not home to Jaitser, but to Jaipur which, as far as she was concerned, was yet another new city. So why again go through another relocation when she could stay back in M'lore where she had already been living for 6 months? Plus the main issue was about keeping a distance which was what Manglore offered. Just like Dr.Sa she thought she could forget her feelings for him in these 6 months but the truth was she couldn't. So she chose the best option for both of them and decided to cut the ties by herself.
As for Jagya not telling her about this decision earlier, the main reason he decided to do MS was to forget about her and push his feelings to the backburner. So when he was trying to push out all thoughts about her and immersing himself in his studies how could he have thought of a change of plans about shifting her to Jaipur instead? Even the phone conversations with her were very stilted and short. He was deliberately trying to push her from his mind so where would it give him the chance to think of what he'll do with her when she's done with her course? It was only when he got back he realized that she would be planning on returning soon plus coupled with what Lal Singh told him made him make hasty arrangements for her. I agree it was wrong of him to forget his responsibility towards her by giving precedence to his feelings, but still he didn't ignore her outright and still tried to do something for her as much as he was able to.
And as for his taking offence at her decision, I guess somewhere he expected her to still need him and still depend on him. He knows there was no hope as far as his love for her was concerned so it might have given him some comfort that she still needed his help in her life, at least that way he could his little bit for her. So the fact that now she had already gotten a job so faraway in M'lore and refused his offer was a blow to him. He saw it as her rejecting him and how suddenly he felt all alone and isolated. I'm sure once he thinks about it with a cool mind he'll realize that it was all for the best.
Arjun
