Anandi .. what? reason behind Failure of Whom?? - Page 4

f9 jagya doing thngs fir F*Ly... n we blaming him... bt a true a person is one who does thngs from his heart... if jagya instead of getting in F*Ly pressure said no den thngs wouldnt hvr get messed up... in order to keep happy he messing thngs... tomorrow wen saachi will dominate him, or blame him still every1 will blame jagya... so it is very imp to take harsh steps to avoid probls in future... wasn't it was jagya who said saachi is childish, n batameez den he sayng yes... y for F*Ly, bt for gvng happiness to F*Ly today will hr nt ruin his future... he said he will ask anandi eat does she thnks bt did he ask her, no coz she came wid d shakers so she is sayng yes for marriage... cumon hw cn nybdy. forget anandi is shekhar's dil she will cum wid dem...

the prob is dat hr did changed bt he alwz tuk decision based on today... yyy marriage is nt the decision to mre for F*Ly, it's for urself,

The most funny point i found is that Jagaya will need Anandi for everything then this show is against child marriage Wow what kind of this show is against child marriage in this case ? Balika vadhu will be BalaK Var's godmother for always 😆

Today when jagya came back and going to his room anandi came right behind him like a wife and questions him. According to the great rules of balvivah, one time wife always a wife even after marrying someone else.

@Picasso9

No. Only DS is responsible. She did not let Bhairon and Sumitra bring up Jagya or discipline him their own way. Sinc he was the only son and lone male heir so she spoilt him like crazy and was too over possessive and over protective about him. I hope you remember some old episodes of BV in which DS would directly stop Bhairon when he questioned Jagya or scolded him or when she feigned heart attacks or fainting just to divert attention from the situation and have elders tend to her and secretly motioned Jagya to go from the scene.

She meddled in their parenting.

Sumitra was too terrorised by her to ever say a thing.

Bhairon was stopped by her directly or indirectly.

Bhairon would then have to bow to his Maasa's diktat out of respect and authority.

At times even Basant would strictly tell Bhairon to not do anything that irks Maasa.

Later when Jagya ran away to Mumbai and his life was in danger, even Bhairon got scared of consequences of his attempts to remind Jagya of his wrongs or punish him.

But yes, Bhairon and Sumitra at least needed to regularly sit with Jagya to instil good values in him. Instead of them it was DS who'd sit with him and give him crazy gyan!

Bhairon and Sumitra were only left taking care of business and housework and obeying Maasa's orders, no focus on parenting - hence both their kids suffered problems.

Bhairon for all his goodness has the biggest flaw of intervening strongly only after things have reached complete meltdown point! He's never intervened at the right time.

Still here also, DS' authority and fear instilled in all played a role in their hesitation to act out of individual free will.

Agree with u!look forward to u r posts! Came back with a bang! Awesome post!👏

Originally posted by: shankythebest

I have to say people always try to give benefit of doubt to each and every character be it gauri,sumi,sanchi,ira,alok,everybody when they are doing wrong with jagya.And we all know the reason.That reason is totally wrong.People even said sanchi's love is pure and honest,sumi is a mother so she can think and behave like that,Jagya is not trustable because of his past deeds,Jagya is two timing,jagya is showing his original self all are ready to understand all other characters even the negative ones who are responsible for jagya's this condition just because of hatred towards jagya.And the words people use to bash jagya is beyond acceptable.Saying in the forum that painting sanchi sumi black to show ganga mahan,painting sanchi black to show ganga is perfect for jagya isn'r it irk worthy!Will those people accept if I say they painted jagya totally black to show shiv perfect match and better option for anandi!Jagya is doing his best and it has been almost 10 months but still people don't leave a single chance to bash him.He went to console ganga and its said that he is once again two timing,why just because the post was made on anandi and the title was yawn.Aren't we watching the serial,if that can be called two timing then everything is fair.These posts against anandi are the result of unnecessary bashing of jagya.The most astonishing part is people sympathize with sanchi and blames jagya which is beyond my understanding.Before sympathizing with sanchi people should remember when two three people used to sympathize with jagya when he was doing wrong to anandi what they used to feel.

Very well said. 👏 👏

Originally posted by: shalinii173

When Anandhi sacrificed and when Anandhi bear the pain they blamed Jagya for messing up her life and she become Mahaan and if Jagya bear the pain for the sake of others especially for Ananshi's hapiness he become two timer, can't take right decision, weak ... And noone should be blamed for pushing him to this situation. This is ridiculous.

Noone pointed gun at him and ask him to sacrifice they just used Anandhi's name . But did anyone put gun on Anandhi's head and asked her to suffer for Jagya and sacrifice for him?

yes, if its anyone In the show other than jaggiyya, everybody finds somekind of understandable reason and won't be upset on them. oh and before I forget, slowly jaggiyya will be blamed for their actions too. How sad?

Anandhi should route everybody. No matter who it is, she is the problem solver. anandhi does not open her mouth when she can, and once things get worsen, she will be shown suffering for viewers to feel sorry for her OR she will start lecturing people.

Jagya and Anandi grew up in the same family and yet ended up different from each other because of their personalities.

Does Anandi really have a clear picture of Sanchi Jagya alliance?

I completely agree with you Suchi...
Jagya has always been a weak one and Anandi the strong one in this relationship...
But now jagya needs to realise what he wants from life and for once he needs to stand up for it...
I have never found fault with the CVs for their characterisation...be it Sanchi-Shiv or Anandi-Jagya...

Even though I have been irritated by Sanchi very often but I believe that in any family there can be two extreme personalities... one a caring, loving, honest-to-goodness person (like shiv) and the other a selfish, self-centered, scheming person (like Sanchi)...

And I agree also that they are not making Anandi mahaan... they are simply portraying her as caring, loving, sensible and above all a girl who has her values and priorities corect...

Anandi is always has been the central character of BV...and she will always be needed both by the Singhs and by the Shekhars...should Jagya refuse to marry Sanchi, then the Shekhars reaction to it and change in their attitude to Anandi could be mixed...That will definitely be testing times for shiv...hope his character stays consistent and he stands by anandi...