Anandi .. what? reason behind Failure of Whom?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: shalinii173

U have mentioned that he can't take a right decision. But did anyone ask his opinion on Sanchi's proposal, forget about asking him, actually his family forced him to do it especially Sumi used Anandhi's happiness, Anandhi's sasural blah blah ... He agreed just coz of his family and Anandhi's happiness. No one is ready to know what he wants, they did the same in his balya vivah now again repeating the same. And today he told Anandhi that he will try to do everything for his family hapiness no matter if he has to die inside because of that. And still u people blaming him???

Everyone here blaming Jagya here but noone mentioned about the people (including Ansh) who failed to stop Sanchi's decision of marrying her babhi's ex. Is this relation acceptable?

Actually now I don't want Jagya to break his engagement let him die inside (and i know people will blame him even for that) but want Singh's family especially Sumi should call off her son's wedding after knowing Sanchi's true color. I hope CVs dont ruin his character atleAst now.

Well said. He's damned if he does and damned if he doesn't...let him have a nervous breakdown and I think that's what he will do, have some breakdown...just watch, now they are engaged and Sanchi will do all sorts of cheap behavior and make him bow to her likes and go places she likes, and he will do it all but that nagging feeling of missing Ganga-Mannu & needing them combined with the pressure to make sure his family, Anandi, Sanchi etc are all happy will eventually break him down. Let it happen...I want to see it, I want Sumitra & Bhairo and DS too to break this relation and say they were wrong to force it upon their son, then I want them to ask Ganga to marry him.

Arguments have been made in favour of Sumitra and Sannchi on the pretext that they are being painted black to show Ganga white. Nobody is saying that Sumitra was always flaky. Noby is saying that Sumitra deep down has always been selfish worrying about her own family more than the greater good. Why, because she is a mother.

Originally posted by: Picasso9

So, at the risk of going against the grain, I want to say the following;

Wouldn't it be safe to say that as DS mainly (and rest of family spoilt Jagaya and made him what he is today by shielding him and so called ''non parenting' by Sumi and Bhairon, so too Anandi was an ENABLER with her constant 'HELP'.

Maybe if Anandi didn't 'HELP' or 'INTERFERE' so much, then Jagya would have been a better person today.

hi suchi...thanks for this most wanted post...👏

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Arguments have been made in favour of Sumitra and Sannchi on the pretext that they are being painted black to show Ganga white. Nobody is saying that Sumitra was always flaky. Noby is saying that Sumitra deep down has always been selfish worrying about her own family more than the greater good. Why, because she is a mother.

But if Jagya is painted black to show Anandi white than everyone says that he has never been confident in decisions from beginning, that he always took wrong decisions and had to be baled out by Anandi. No one understands that he also had been a victim and has been misunderstood.

Cv's in order to show Anandi, Mahaan, has inserted scenes depicting Anandi's 'interference' sometimes to the point of satire. It is truly laughable, how they show her handing down heirlooms as an ex and giving lectures on motherhood when she is not even a mother yet. Logic goes out the window when it comes to showing Anandi Mahaan.

Even today Anandhi is the one who went behind Jagya (her ex) I don't c anyone mentioning that. If Jagya does the same ( going to Ganga) people will bash him left right and centre.

True. Jagya was spoilt to the point of neglect. They neglected to inculcate in him the right ways of handling situations. With Anandi constantly baling him out of situations and saving his ass he never learnt the skills to cope with sticky situations. Anandi is just as responsible as DS. Anandi's intentions may have been pure just as DS's intentions were pure because she was showing love to her grandson, but sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind and combined, DS and Anandi did a great disservice to Jagya.

I have to say people always try to give benefit of doubt to each and every character be it gauri,sumi,sanchi,ira,alok,everybody when they are doing wrong with jagya.And we all know the reason.That reason is totally wrong.People even said sanchi's love is pure and honest,sumi is a mother so she can think and behave like that,Jagya is not trustable because of his past deeds,Jagya is two timing,jagya is showing his original self all are ready to understand all other characters even the negative ones who are responsible for jagya's this condition just because of hatred towards jagya.And the words people use to bash jagya is beyond acceptable.Saying in the forum that painting sanchi sumi black to show ganga mahan,painting sanchi black to show ganga is perfect for jagya isn'r it irk worthy!Will those people accept if I say they painted jagya totally black to show shiv perfect match and better option for anandi!Jagya is doing his best and it has been almost 10 months but still people don't leave a single chance to bash him.He went to console ganga and its said that he is once again two timing,why just because the post was made on anandi and the title was yawn.Aren't we watching the serial,if that can be called two timing then everything is fair.These posts against anandi are the result of unnecessary bashing of jagya.The most astonishing part is people sympathize with sanchi and blames jagya which is beyond my understanding.Before sympathizing with sanchi people should remember when two three people used to sympathize with jagya when he was doing wrong to anandi what they used to feel.

Did any one asks his opinion regarding Sanchi's proposal? His family forced him to do it! Is it not conveniently throwing blame on others? If you hurt...you have to moan...groan...wail...crying is alright in its own way while it lasts. But you have to stop sooner or later, and then you still have to decide what to do...THAT is what he is not doing now. He is solely responsible for this hiatus...gulf .!This is not a simple matter...a big decision...in anybody's life... YES!!!!.you can consult your people...seek their advise-- to that extent it's ok.but leaving ones own life...self to somebody's mercy...allowing others to rule your life is not proper . SUCHI;;excellent post --Jaggia is a conflict creator and Anandi is the solution provider.

Whose mercy he has left his life ? His parents ? He is damned if he does not live with the girl of their choice , damned he makes his choice , what he is suppose to do ? Damned if he takes decisions of his life damned if not Great what he is suppose to do ?

Suchi - Nice post.