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I wanted to write this on the other thread but .. I did see few posts about Anandi earlier so I wrote this in another thread which is dedicated to the other side of the coin.
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Just cause he turning a good leaf right now does not mean he has the good sense of making right decisions.
He was always weak in that, and that is the truth.
Even now, when Shiv is asking him straight out... you wanna marry my sister or not why is he not speaking up? Why is that failure of sticking to the proper decision or making the right decision , being put on Anandi?
Anandi and Jagya cannot be put in the same plate EVER.
Anandi , also did not want to get married to Shiv .. and while engagement , she even though was not doing it full heartedly, we knew that once she commited she will go through with it. Thick or Thin.
Does not matter. Lucky for her Shiv is a good person. But if Shiv turned out of be bad even then she would stick with the relationship cause thats what Anandi is.
Where as we all know and even hope that Jagya will NOT continue with Sanchi.
Many reasons:
a) Sanchi is not a good partner for jagya
b) Ganga and Jagya are good for each other
but .. the reality is , lets ask this question.. will Jagya like Anandi.. ever be able to stick with Sanchi for life...just cause he committed to the relationship?
NO.
Will he try his best to change Sanchi so she can be a good partner for him?
NO
Will he have the patience to do that
No.
and NO I do not hate Jagya and I am not bashing him. Its simple .. his nature is such that. He needs someone who can understand him and walk with him step by step and when he falters .. he wants someone to hold him. But he does not have it in him to actually make something which is totally wrong... right.
If he had that in him, he would do his best to work out things with Gauri.
So I do not think its FAIR or correct to put all the failures of Jagya on Anandi.
Even now , he needs Anandi's help to see whats right. And its not cause CVs want to make Anandi Mahan... No. Cause thats what Anandi has been doing from DAY ONE.
Correcting Jagya's Mistakes and wrong decisions.
as usual.
Jagya in childhood: Always depended on Anandi to make his wrongs right
Jagya in teenage: Wanted Anandi to help him with his proper decisions and when he made bloopers with his family members , Anandi was the one who corrected him as to what to do and what not to do.
Jagya .after: falling in love with Gauri, even then Anandi supported him through out. His thought process his wants his needs etc. etc.
Jagya realizing his blunder after Anandi's marraige: Again Anandi was the one telling him to go back to the ones who need him the most. His family, rather than running away from the problems.
Jagya with Ganga: HIs help , and his good side coming out and now falling in love.
Once again he will need Anandi's help to make the right decision that, you should do whats right. marry the one who you love rather than leaving them stranded with no support.
Lets not blame CVs cause they are making Anandi mahan.. because , thats the title of Anandi, since she was young and from the day when she pressed DS's feet to let Jagya go and not put him in the kaal kotri .. cause he bunked school to watch movie.
I am again telling , I do not hate jagya .. in fact I dont hate him anymore. I did once... but that does not mean , his real nature has changed. And that is , his lack of ability to make the right decisions at the right time. That will always remain and YES he WILL need Anandi's help Always.
Thats what the story is.
What Anandi means to Jagya and what Jagya means to Anandi. This is the story about Anandi and Jagya not about Shiv or Ganga. The beauty of BV lies in the complex relationship of Anandi and Jagya. Two kids who got married when they were young and their life after.
Now the real test of Shiv's love will come, when he will be put between Anandi and Sanchi.
Because Anandi will never let Jagya out of her life.. as Jagya will never let Anandi out of his.
Moral of the story: Do not get your kids married at young age as it just leads to HUGEEE complications.
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