Anandi .. what? reason behind Failure of Whom??

shalinii173

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Posted: 12 years ago

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When Anandhi sacrificed and when Anandhi bear the pain they blamed Jagya for messing up her life and she become Mahaan and if Jagya bear the pain for the sake of others especially for Ananshi's hapiness he become two timer, can't take right decision, weak ... And noone should be blamed for pushing him to this situation. This is ridiculous.

Noone pointed gun at him and ask him to sacrifice they just used Anandhi's name . But did anyone put gun on Anandhi's head and asked her to suffer for Jagya and sacrifice for him?

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Picasso9

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Posted: 12 years ago

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It is very easy to dismiss someone as a loser just to get a point across. Jagya is a very complex character in a complex situation. It is not black and white. He is trying very hard not to think selfishly that is why he is not speaking up. He did, however give Anandi the Great a hint by saying that even if he suffocates internally he will not let anyone down.

Why didn't the 'perfect' Anandi the great comprehend that correctly to mean suffocation of the relationship with Saanchi. Why is Anandi the Great who is always the solution provider so Slooow on the uptake with all the clues given only to her. From the overheard phone all between Saanchi and her friends, to Jagya outright telling her that Saanchi is NOT his type, to the pandit speaking of the incorrect Mahurat and now to Jagya speaking of suffocation. Why is perfect Ms Anandi unable to provide the solution now. Fom everyone, she is the only one who has a more holistic view of the situation. All the other characters only know selective parts. Heck, even Jagya is not aware of Sumitra's and Saanchi's duplicity.

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Libra123

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Posted: 12 years ago

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No one put gun on anandi's head not to leave when jagya left her. Who put the gun on her to save jagya in childhood. Anandi matajee has done whatever she has done till date for her own motives. Firstly, she didnot want to leave the luxuries of haveli and made jagya as scapegoat for this. Then pataoed shiv and got her wish fulfilled. Now comes and giving lectures to jagya how the family was pareshan. When he was missing. She thinks the entire world is like her thinking selfishly just like her. Yes,anandi is the winner in bullying jagya. She is manaoing her victory by rubbing her success on jagya face againa an again and lecturing him her greatness.

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ButterflyOnRose

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No one put gun on Anandi' s head to suffer she could very well lead her own life after jagaya married Gauri why she was crying and hanging on to him telling Gauri he is my life ? No one put gun on her head to marry Shiv in a haste she could very well wait Mother did not tell her marry him right now Be ready then marry Shiv was asking her but no then when she was crying so on forum blame came on Jagaya he is responsible for it , No one put gun on her head to be a door mat in front of Gauri and take her insults No one put a gun on her head to be glued to Jagaya's memories and throw motay motay ansoo remembering him

but that was analyzed from every angle because she is Anandi her emotional state ( even i did now seeing unfair biased posts here i have to speak like this ) while here if he agreed for his family's sake how he can agree ? He gave his opinion was ruthelessly rejected by his family what why are you behaving like this ?I believe the ones who are criticizing him now why he accepted the rishta at that time they were challenging we want to see how much redeemed he is , if he sacrifices his happiness for his family now a 360 degree turn so reason clear want to beat the pinata as always

I guess Bhairo Dharamveer Singh the great himself accepted all is not Jagaya's fault They are to be blamed the most in how much Anandi and Jagaya suffered The truth is this

and which of the mistakes the young madam has learnt her lesson ? The woman who herself was forced to marry , she is guilty how much her partner suffered because of this and she is going all the way to blackmail another person to marry she has learnt her lesson ? She very well showed which lesson she has learnt

Yes Jagaya accepted his mistakes He is blaming himself for everything Trying hard to become a good person Selfless That post was written way back whose answer is this but one fact remains people may claim they don't hate him but old habits don't go away this fast so beating the pinata as always Damned for everything while same members forgive Anandi for same everything

of course he was wrong , is wrong and always will be wrong Anandi was goddess is goddess and always will be goddess jai ho

Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Anandi is NOT directly responsible for what Jagya went through. But indirectly all is happening due to her. And she did not give any signal or reassurance to Jagya when he looked at her for "answers" when this Sanchi proposal was brought to him.
She, Shiv or anybody else from Shekhar family did NOT give Jagya or Singhs this reassurance that his refusal to this marriage will NOT affect their existing ties.

I will wait before judging Jagya. He has not yet run away from home or directly refused Sanchi.

Yes he has been someone who depended on others. But cause of his being the way he is, is ONLY DADISA!

That woman's involvement in his life ruined it for him. She was a bad role model, wanted things her own way, was too possessive etc.

Anandi is not fully responsible for Jagya's problems.

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shalinii173

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Posted: 12 years ago

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No one put gun on Anandi' s head to suffer she could very well lead her own life after jagaya married Gauri why she was crying and hanging on to him telling Gauri he is my life ? No one put gun on her head to marry Shiv in a haste she could very well wait Mother did not tell her marry him right now Be ready then marry Shiv was asking her but no then when she was crying so on forum blame came on Jagaya he is responsible for it , No one put gun on her head to be a door mat in front of Gauri and take her insults No one put a gun on her head to be glued to Jagaya's memories and throw motay motay ansoo remembering him

but that was analyzed from every angle from she is Anandi her emotional state ( even i did now seeing unfair biasism here i have to speak like this ) while here if he agreed for his family's sake how he can agree ? He gave his opinion was ruthelessly rejected by his family what why are you behaving like this I believe the one who are criticizing him now why he accepted the rishta at that time they were challenging we want to see how much redeemed he is , if he sacrifices his happiness for his family now a 360 degree turn so reason clear want to beat the pinata as always

I guess Bhairo Dharamveer Singh the great himself accepted all is not Jagaya's fault They are to be blamed the most in how much Anandi and Jagaya suffered The truth is this

and which of the mistakes the young madam has learnt her lesson ? The woman who herself was forced to marry , she is guilty how much her partner suffered because of is and she is going all the way to blackmail another person to marry she has learnt her lesson ? She very well showed which lesson she has learnt

Yes Jagaya accepted his mistakes He is blaming himself for everything Trying hard to become a good person That post was written way back whose answer is this but one fact remains people may claim they don't hate him but old habits don't go away this fast to beating the pinata as always Damned for everything while same members forgive Anandi for same everything

of course he was wrong , is wrong and always will be wrong Anandi was goddess is goddess and always will be goddess

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cygnet9

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Posted: 12 years ago

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After long time I liked your post. So apt.

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Posted: 12 years ago

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thanks for this post yar it was really needed ...

n agree with all ur points

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Anandi is NOT directly responsible for what Jagya went through. But indirectly all is happening due to her. And she did not give any signal or reassurance to Jagya when he looked at her for "answers" when this Sanchi proposal was brought to him.
She, Shiv or anybody else from Shekhar family did NOT give Jagya or Singhs this reassurance that his refusal to this marriage will NOT affect their existing ties.

I will wait before judging Jagya. He has not yet run away from home or directly refused Sanchi.

Yes he has been someone who depended on others. But cause of his being the way he is, is ONLY DADISA!

That woman's involvement in his life ruined it for him. She was a bad role model, wanted things her own way, was too possessive etc.

Anandi is not fully responsible for Jagya's problems.[/QUOTE]

@ red. It's unfair to lay all blame on DS. Everyone we encounter in our lives shape who we become. Some more so than others. Bhairon and Sumitra are also to blame for their lack of parenting.

@ green. I agree Anandi is not FULLY responsible for Jagya's problems but she does play a role. She is not above reproach. She also helped shape who Jagya has become and vice versa.

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