W/U 26/03/13 (J's lost love for Anandi)

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Uma

@adi2512

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Even with her not at any fault., it took 10 months ( in real time ) for Anandi to be wooed by a Gem of a person like Shiv...for her to Love him.

J here., is responsible himself., for the position he is in and he seems to be in realization of same.

He Def., needs more time than Anandi to be able to love another Girl.

Its better AnSh as well as Singhs u/stand this and deal with the situation accordingly.

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livelytanu

@livelytanu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Thanks 4 da update!😊

Happy holi!!!😃

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vidya0000

@vidya0000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Thanks for the written upate.

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dolly

@tiny15

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

@TM thanx 4 the update.

@anita and i agree wid u that wat J said 2 A was not sum selfishness but he just burst out wen he was being forced 4 sumthing he doesn't want 2 do.😊

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saba113

@saba113

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Thanks for update Esha

Can't believe Anandi is forcing Jagaya to marry by emotionally blackmailing him marry for family's sake and wasn't she the one who was preaching him yesterday you shouldn't marry under pressure so what rubbish she was talking today 🤪What Anandi really thinks her of When everyone was lecturing her to marry she was screaming , crying , throwing stuff here and there she need time and space she didn't like the forcing , emotional torture and to Jagaya she is doing emotional torture on him marry for family's sake .Why is that she always think all world should be understanding towards her why she cannot be understanding towards others

Sorry i supported Anandi black and blue but yesterday and today i really want to yell at her SHUT UP 😡she is really so unfair to Jagaya here , his emotional state and his feelings and i wasted my time to expect from her she'll be understanding enough but this is her understanding .?She is citing her own examples to encourage him or her history must repeat with him🤢 and wow she is explaining her happy life with Shiv to encourage her ex husband not any iota of sense she is increasing his despair and pain with that Never expected that Anandi can be so careless with her words not any iota of sense how much she is causing pain to him with that 🤢

I don't understand after thinking what she came to lecture him ?.Don't she know what he is going through? .The guy is grieving over his failed relations , his answer pretty clear to her why he refused to marry, his father couldn't convince him and she being his ex wife came to lecture him narrating him her love story with Shiv to encourage him🤢 .A person having common sense can understand this if she is really thinking of his welfare she is most wrong person to do so she should have talked to Bhairo even if Dadisaa called her or call Shyam , Sugna but why she herself came when she know she can do nothing but only cause him more hurt but she went on even force him marry for family's sake .🤢What she thinks here marriage was only tough for he not him despite she knows it was Shiv who tried so much for her but for Jagaya who is here? .He should marry air I am so much disappointed with Anandi despite Bhairo saying to all they need to take their steps patiently and cautiously but who will listen to him He is barking nonsense 🥱

Why is everyone shocked Jagaya is not over Anandi yet .who gave him ever that time to be over her after Anandi's marriage .Even little space they couldn't provide to him to be over her and again and again rubbing her over his face piercing him what he lost in his life so now jaw dropped

Dadisaa is calling Jagaya egoistic whats his ego here ? What you want him to do here? He is a human being too There is some capacity in him as well Marriage is something where a person emotionally invests a lot when he is not emotionally ready so give him some time and space to heal up Why are you using short cuts to blackmail him and get him married? First she used Bhairo like a tool Jagaya idolizes him will understand his sentiments and marry when Bhairo couldn't do so she went on to use Anandi whom I thought is understanding enough but she is using tactics to blackmail him pinching at weak spots marry for sake of family🤢

Only Bhairo is the sane person here otherwise others have really lost it 🤢Its time for him to take stand here Strict stand and take this matter in his hands only otherwise others are up to emotional butcher Jagaya even more on name of his welfare so much emotional torture for something he is not ready yet and they very well know so why forcing him? Why not let him have his own life for sometime , heal himself up , live like the way he thinks he find his peace and comfort and the way he finds stand in his life and he has indeed found some stand in his life but its like no one is willing him to be there for even short while They want him to take a plunge thinking its not tough struggle for him but a child's play Don't know what more is heading Jagaya's way He has landed into worst situation than Anandi because he don't have any female version of Shiv with him who is gently pulling him towards her to marry her

I liked one thing in today's episode when he left Anandi standing there and walked away That was best thing I think he should have yelled her a long ago STOP and Go away leave me alone for my life 😡

Edited by saba113 - 12 years ago

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

i do not blame Jagya at all...its Singhs and Anandi who has forced to say those words...who wants 24 hrs lecture?

And if we see Jagya is the only selfless person after Shiv...Jagya clearly said that Anandi's remarriage was her right but his remarriage isn't...he clearly feels that in whatever position he is in he deserves it...no one except for Jagya is thinking about how much the partner would suffer due to his short comings...he is clearly pointing out that since he is not a good husband he cannot keep the girl happy and will never want to destroy one more girl's happiness and dreams for his better life

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

i do not blame Jagya at all...its Singhs and Anandi who has forced to say those words...who wants 24 hrs lecture?

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brick_red

@brick_red

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Thanks for the WU.
It is an interesting episode today. Jagya's performance was superb. Anandi-Shiv scene was also very good. It was a very tricky scene, however Anandi clearly expressed her love for Shiv and the pain for the unpleasant turn of events and her inability to help her family. All the emotions were expressed very well. Finally, Anandi-Shiv started looking like a married couple. Today they did not look like 2 different persons, they have a joint identity, that was evident in the scene. I think it is the first major scene, where I see them as single entity.

Everybody is so convincing in their respective POV. It is easy for us to find fault with Dadisa's wish, Anandi's advice or Jagya's revelation. But they were all like that from the beginning. It is a very peculiar case. Let us look at it from different angles.

Dadisa- DS accepted Anandi as her granddaughter. She supported Anandi in all fronts- financially, socially, morally. In every sense, Anandi became the daughter of the house. Not just the daughter, but the favorite of Dadisa. I think DS showered more love on Anandi than on Sugna. Now DS wants Jagya to settle down. I think part of the reason is DS knows that she played a major role in spoiling Jagya and now she wants to do what she thinks best for him. She thinks, considering her age , she doesn't have much time left. She asked Bhairon to talk to J. When that didn't work, she wants A to do that job. A is still DS's granddaughter. If DS can do everything for A like her biological grandma, why should she not ask for A's help? An old lady's desperate attempt.

Jagya- He had many roller-coaster rides. As Bhairon rightly said, he is in peace now. He has no interest or confidence or motivation to take risk with another marriage.

Anandi- She thinks J-A only had a childhood bond which was blossoming to love, but by then they got separated. She believed J found her not worthy. J loved Gauri. Now for some reason, J-Gauri parted ways. J is saddened because Gauri is not in his life. Anandi believes a good life partner, will bring happiness to J's life. He has to take that step not only for him, but for his family too,

Edited by brick_red - 12 years ago

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brick_red

@brick_red

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Shiv as an understanding husband is awesome. Everything about him is lovable. But he missed a major step. He has the missing piece of the jig-saw puzzle of Anandi-Jagya-DS-Shiv. After sagai, during J's memory loss drama, he understood that J was pretending. Anandi was acting as J's wife and J was trying to take advantage of that situation. A and J were staying in the same house. Shiv could have told Anandi about J's drama. Actually, he should have warned Anandi. That would have changed the balance of J-A-S relationship. I think, when A came to know that J tried to dissuade S from marrying A, she thought J is telling Anandi is still living in her past and she cannot move on. She only thought that much, so she told Shiv that she has moved on. If A knew about J's intentions during memory loss drama, things would have taken a different turn for A-S. A would have got closer to Shiv and would have kept J away from her.

NOTE: May be at that time Shiv was not sure about Anandi's stand. And decided to wait and watch...

Now I want Shiv to act in Anandi's best interest. Shiv is in a position to take a stand.

DS should give Jagya time and space. Too much love becomes unbearable for him and then the guy does things at his family's back. Leave him alone to take charge of his life. Then he will stay with the family. DS did not understand that single thing even after so many incidents. J secretly escaped from home to join medical college. He secretly married Gauri and brought her home. He ran away from home after Anandi's marriage. He secretly left to Mumbai to meet Gauri. WHY? WHY in Secret? Because he knows his Dadisa will smother him with her love and there won't be any space to have a different stand.

Edited by brick_red - 12 years ago

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Uma

@adi2512

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Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: brick_red

Shiv as an understanding husband is awesome. Everything about him is lovable. But he missed a major step. He has the missing piece of the jig-saw puzzle of Anandi-Jagya-DS-Shiv. After sagai, during J's memory loss drama, he understood that J was pretending. Anandi was acting as J's wife and J was trying to take advantage of that situation. A and J were staying in the same house. Shiv could have told Anandi about J's drama. Actually, he should have warned Anandi. That would have changed the balance of J-A-S relationship. I think, when A came to know that J tried to dissuade S from marrying A, she thought J is telling Anandi is still living in her past and she cannot move on. She only thought that much, so she told Shiv that she has moved on. If A knew about J's intentions during memory loss drama, things would have taken a different turn for A-S. A would have got closer to Shiv and would have kept J away from her.

NOTE: May be at that time Shiv was not sure about Anandi's stand. And decided to wait and watch...

Now I want Shiv to act in Anandi's best interest. Shiv is in a position to take a stand.

@brick_red...

I agree with all your points but I have a slightly different interpretation of bold red.

Anandi never really cared for J even thru' that amnesia drama to be wanting to get away from him.

The time that she took in getting closer to Shiv is all b'coz of her own psyche in trying to love some one else after she had already gone thru' that feeling once upon a time as well as bearing the brunt of the wounds it gave her.

Shiv understood her psyche right from that point of time., and had not told about the truth about J's real intentions that time. as., there is really no point in instigating her against him.

He just showed J his place and kept quite.

Now., it is different. Though J still harbors feelings for Anandi., I do not feel., he will do anything to tamper her happiness...as it seems that he is genuinely repenting for his mistakes.

Shiv knows and understands this and Anandi right now is in too much of Love with him.

He absolutely does not have a reason to feel insecure.

On the other hand., he is glad that they will be moved away from Jetsar., which will make things a bit easy for J.

Edited by adi2512 - 12 years ago