Thank you for update Esha and happy Holi to everyone
Lol what to say Anandi disappointed me big time .After her experience with Shiv and telling Jagaya First not to marry under pressure this is what she learnt later to ask him marry for your family's sake and i thought she'll be understanding enough and will ask Singhs to give him needed time and space and don't repeat my history with him but she herself is forcing him marry for family's sake you love them 🥱 Seriously whats wrong with these people? Bhairo told them they have to take their steps patiently and cautiously this what his words are affecting 😡
Dadisaa is Dadisaa she will never learn her lessons but Anandi and Shiv what really happened to them? Having their own experience and knowing very well what Jagaya is going through It was extremely wrong from Shiv to send Anandi there to lecture him if he is really thinking of his welfare Anandi being his ex wife with whom he has a broken relation can she really give him confidence he can be anyone' life partner ?Never and Anandi her non stop lecture narrating her happy life with Shiv in front of Jagaya She lack even common sense she is not helping him like this but increasing his despair in himself and her non stop lecture forcing him into something for which is not ready pinching at weak points marry for family's sake. Is she helping or emotionally torturing him more and look what happened in an implusive reaction a revelation came out of his mouth which so far he was keeping to himself not to hurt anyone and now after this what he will do .More guilt First Ganga went on and on with her lecture and he has to yell at her to stop and now Anandi
Why they cannot understand his emotional state which is not like Anandi because he is under baggage of guilt of his own mistakes which has been constantly rubbed on his face and at same time two failed marriages The despair is natural to come in him Yes his negative feeling is wrong he won't marry ever or he has no right to but understand the despair in him is making him say that so you have to take steps patiently and cautiously A lot of correct steps , right encouragement but first give him some time and space to find some stand in his life which he is slowly finding but no one is willing to give him that but asking him to take plunge? With in one night and day they have destroyed the little bit peace he found in himself with so much emotional torture though i find it wrong from Bhairo as well it was not right time from him to bring this issue in front of Jagaya but still he handled it well and rested the conversation when he come to know he shouldn't proceed more as Jagaya is not ready but why others don't learn from Bhairo ?They are bombarding him marry marry marry😡 .Marriage requires a lot of emotional investment from him when he don't have that in him His despair is too big where he even said he don't have any right to marry he will just live like that so kindly give him needed time and space Is it too much to ask for ?Its common sense
Why they cannot leave Jagaya alone for some time? He has barely come out of his guilt and is trying his level best to make something out of his life. Let him rediscover his lost self before putting the responsibility of another relationship on him. His mind is too occupied right now and bringing another girl into his life will make it just difficult for him to deal with.and will end up ruining his and hers life and where is that understanding girl ? Has anyone found her? How can the Singhs and Anandi take the prospective bride of Jagaya as someone not worth of importance it can be any girl? Are they going to miraculously find such an understanding girl who is not affected by her husband's past and all she cares is his present she doesn't care he is still living in his past and she will magically bring him out his past and wola all is well ?So when you don't have that girl yet in your eyes so stop this unnecessary lecture Why forcing him for something for which you cannot give him surety all will be well here .At least for Anandi they had Shiv in mind, she herself trusted him fully then married him for Jagaya who is here ?
Please give the guy some air to breathe Why you all after him suffocating him with your emotional torture , scratching his wounds Within one night and day you all changed him so much otherwise he was so happy while having dinner with his family now look at him so disturbed .Until you don't find suitable match for him stop your torture on him It is so difficult to convince him even any girl would really love him or want to marry him with the baggage of guilt he is carrying on him and you all have ruined his peace
Bhairo spoke some sense today to Dadisaa but Dadisaa being Dadisaa she has already started making bigger plans. 🤢When will she learn to care about other 's sentiments and take steps according to that instead of forcing other's to follow hers .Her wanting to spend time with Anandi is just a way to that. Its very wrong of her to ask Anandi or Shiv to convince Jagaya to get married.At least if you don't care about anyone else care about your dear child whom you claim to love him more than anyone else but by constantly rubbing Anandi and Shiv over his face its hurting him You are causing him pain Shiv too needs to keep certain boundaries when it comes to matters of Jagaya He should know they are not right persons to do so . and it won't help either in fact create more embarrassing and painful situations for Anandi and Jagaya both who have spend so much time together and need to come out of their past
In the precap looks like Dadisaa came to Shiv to ask him if Anandi could speak to Jagaya or to get Anandi to stay at the haveli for some time . Why are they behaving like the seven heavens fell down Jagaya refused to marry? In his despair he is saying that it can be changed into hope but whats so rush ? Give that guy some breathing space. for God's sake and settle his life the way he wants Why so much torture and forcing for something he is not ready yet Why making marriage for him life and death issue 😡Poor Jagaya where he landed into .Its time for Bhairo to be strict here and take stand for Jagaya and take things in his control Keep his mother out of it and even his wife and Anandi as well even Ganga too ok whole family 😆otherwise they will really destroy his life in wish to help him
Jagaya 's condition is even worst than Anandi here at least she has Shiv by her side still she suffered so much so don't know what master plan Dadisaa has for Jagaya's prospective bride ..Sanchi😲 latest news is she is falling in love with him and Dadisaa will be very happy so Jagaya better save your life and run away from home before Dadisaa decides to make Sanchi as her beendini😳
Edited by mahi12 - 12 years ago
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