W/U 26/03/13 (J's lost love for Anandi) - Page 5

Esha - Thanks for the update.

Originally posted by: mahi12

she might have given the explanation but it was like forcing by pinching at weak point because she knows he loves family too much Family thinks of his best interests then they won't even force him to marry just like bapusaa did so her saying marry for family's sake because they think his best interests was indeed forcing him that was stupid of her i must agree with samvi here

Originally posted by: brick_red

DS should give Jagya time and space. Too much love becomes unbearable for him and then the guy does things at his family's back. Leave him alone to take charge of his life. Then he will stay with the family. DS did not understand that single thing even after so many incidents. J secretly escaped from home to join medical college. He secretly married Gauri and brought her home. He ran away from home after Anandi's marriage. He secretly left to Mumbai to meet Gauri. WHY? WHY in Secret? Because he knows his Dadisa will smother him with her love and there won't be any space to have a different stand.

The person I dislike most on tjis serial is Ds.She is the cause of all problrmd.
Her sons are way too obefient to her. In real life no educated
Intelligent son will be this obefient like BS. Bs should be toughwith his
Mother.DS hD no one to tell her thst she is wrong.what is worse than
W I men'soppression is , the uneducated villagr wpmen gettong toomuch
Power. She does not realize thst she is harming the very person she loves.
Shedoes not let J live in peace. She sends Anandi andShiv behind him.
A is do stupod to think she can convince him instead of advising DS
Togive him time. Why us dhe so shoked about J still loving her. It happens.
She is acting so precious after hearing J still loves her. Shiv going lie " oh
Mypoor baby, it is not uour fault.you are a good little girl".
At least iam glad Shov mentioned tjis transfer wil help J to forhet A".which he should
Have reised for ong him to come to Jaitsar.Hr acted like, I knowyou. You are
Just avoiding facing your loss". Now his wife had it coming strsight from
Jagis' s mouth.
Mouth.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

She also got married for the love of her family.She did not lose out anything by giving into her family wishes.That's what she is trying to tell him.

She also told him that elders know better and they are right.Elders proved to be right in her case too.They found a man who was so right for her. That's what she was trying to tell him.

She did not know at that time that he was not ready to move on like she was when she decided to give in to the family wishes.

Once he told her the reason she backed off did n't she?

Originally posted by: samvi.

Anandi was stupid in lecturing J to marry for family's sake because - This will be his 3rd relationship. And he can't afford to take a risk by marrying someone "for his family's sake". At the end of the day, J will have to live with this girl..even though the family is doing it for his sake. He has to marry someone wholeheartedly. Off all people, his Godmother Anandi should know that . She can't push him into it citing herself as an example just because she was asked to.

No J left her and walked away...and she was in some kind of shock. For all we know she might come back fully prepared with a longer speech this time. I will be surprised..and will appreciate her if she won't do this!

high time the entire universe stopped breathing down jagya's neck and let HIM decide whats best for him..and DS shud seriously learn to let go!!! anandi saying tht jagya shud marry for family's sake makes her sound seriously stupid and insensitive..come on girl, u have gone thru millions of hardships for "family's sake", stop giving the same dumb advise to him...

Happy Holi

Thanks so much for the update.

It was good but a little irritating episode.Everyone is after Jagya.Pathetic lectures from each and every person of the family.

Dadisa will never change.She showed the same desperation even more when she thought of anandi's marriage.She used to send anandi to meet shiv every now and then.She didn't even bother to ask anandi whether she wants to marry or not.She directly asked shiv whether he wants to marry anandi.Thank God in jagya's case she is not applying those tricks.It seems the only thing she has learn from anandi's marriage that you should ask the person whether he/she wants to get married or not.If yes,then ok but if the person say no then uske piche paar jao.By hook or by crook convince him.She is doing it with jagya.The most interesting thing in DS character is whenever she takes a mission in her hand she thinks she will die very soon and get desperate to complete the mission.For some weird reason despite of having so much flaws I am not able to hate her.She loves anandi so much,their relationship is so beautiful.For sake of Anandi she ignored Jagya and Gauri.She always remained with anandi.Now when jagya is trying to be a good person then he surely deserves the love and care that DS is showering on him.But she should understand he needs time but looking at DS character I don't think she will ever understand that.

Why everybody is in shock that Jagya loves anandi!!!Anandi had the reason of not bothering about jagya because he gave her immense pain.But in case of Jagya he realized that because of his foolishness he lost a gem like a person.She is now someone else's.He is regretting his decisions.Its good for him.He was so scared that everyone is trying to snatch his beautiful memories.It shows that he has understood the importance of anandi.He always cared for her until the miscarriage happened.He don't want to forget those memories then its fine.

Its not at all wrong for him to think that he is not worth being a husband.It will be his third marriage.Everyone has blamed him for the failure of his first marriage including him and his second marriage was also a mistake.How can he be positive about getting married again!How could he think of moving on with the third wife.Abhi abhi to do rishte tute hai.Inferiority complex is working in this case.Its very natural that he will not be ready to do the third one.

He blurted out that his memory is filled with anandi not to destroy shiv and anandi's marriage but it was due to anandi's constant speech that you should forget your bad past.He got offended because she stated his past as bad so unintentionally he said those words.The person who could be with him for the entire life is not with him because of his own mistake then its natural to regret.Its a human nature.When you are repenting then very small mistake gives you huge pain.Here he is regreting that he has destroyed two lives and gave so much pain to his family.The pain will be intolerable.But he is tolerating.He is admitting each and every mistake he has done.He is blaming himself that he is not a husband material.He is watching shiv and anandi happy together in front of his eyes for months.What more one should do!!!

Why was anandi crying?Because she knows if you love someone then its impossible to move on.She is a good person at heart (though I hate her long speeches) so she is thinking that she is the reason why jagya is not ready for marriage.If Jagya never gets married then she will be the only reason for that.Jagya wants to live alone and will live alone all his life because of her.If it would be some other person then he/she would've never cared.But as its anandi its natural that she was crying.But shiv came and make her understand that its good that they are getting transferred to udaipur.

The members who hate Jagya has the right to hate him but in my opinion he is facing almost the same pain that anandi has faced.The difference is she never deserved the pain and he always deserved it.Anandi had a person to blame,to get angry at but Jagya has no one to blame.He is angry with himself.The regret and repent is the most difficult punishment in my opinion.You can't spent a micro second in peace.Jagya is facing that punishment.

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Originally posted by: shankythebest

.The most interesting thing in DS character is whenever she takes a mission in her hand she thinks she will die very soon and get desperate to complete the mission.

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