shiv such mein pyaar karta hai aur he attracte ? - Page 2

First, at this age (shiv's age) one is very confident as to who they are ... and consequently, it becomes very easy to assess whether someone else will be a good wife or not in a very short span... attraction and friendship are the basis for love.

Second, I highly doubt that even if he felt attraction and he wanted to proceed further with it, in a small conservative society like Jayetsar, he would be very restricted to the extent that he can "love" her ... i mean there are no places where they can get together for a date in the evening, she has a beendhni status of badi haveli ... so dating anandi in this situation is impossible ... I dont think that if dadisa had not proposed ... that it could have gone any further beyond the few instances that we have seen... it would just be more and more interactions on office work... anandi would never go out and meet him in abandoned fields or spend time with him in his room at the circuit house, or go for a movie so that they have more social interaction.

So, even if he is just attracted to her, and not in love yet, there is a limit to which he can go within jayetsar morality systems, and within the framework of anandi's character.

So, he knows that for love to happen, he cant do it unless he is engaged to anandi with social sanction from dadisa and the village , and only after that can he spend more time with her.

i wud havent said it...if i wud havent watched the last episode...

but he doesnt know either how strong his feelings r... may be after refusal...he will realize it...

at an older age... people have control over their emotions ... and he also has to think of his position etc... he cant be seen to be having eyes on the sarpanch ... he has to move carefully and be subtle about his love for her...

I am seeing commitment and more maturity in his love. And also respect towards his family.

Definitely he deserves anandi in his life

But i dont think he is sitting there just checking off points on his list and making this decision because anandi is a perfect match for all the qualities... I think that it is all those qualities plus anandi's soul... and the fact that she lifts his spirit ... anandi the individual is more than the sum total of qualities in the list.

so it is love, but constrained by the social setting in which he lives and anandi's status as a beendhni of the haveli ... in this situation, the only option to move forward is in arranged marriage mode ...

that being said, I dont think "arranged marriage" is the right term for this situation... maybe "suggested marriage" ?? 😆