shiv such mein pyaar karta hai aur he attracte ? - Page 4

Originally posted by: tinoo

It would only be telling if he were taking his mothers efforts very very seriously 😆😆😆 ... I dont think he has really thought about marriage in a very serious fashion per se ...(though its hard to tell in the absence of any internal monologue on his part)... but he's single and he knows he wants to get married some day... so at best he is 'open' to his mother's efforts and open to meeting new girls... but is more indulging his mother ...

his love for anandi has not come to a point where he needs to tell his mother anything is what i mean... that doesnt mean that he doesnt love anandi though...

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

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In other words lack of "crystallization"/realization of his feelings as Khushi and Cosmo appear to suggest, na... and not just "status" or mores...we are all agreeing in principle I think

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Shiv is too mature to be "in love"...but, he is way beyond attracted to Anandi. He appreciated her nature and started to realize that admiration was evolving to more when Ashi suggested Anandi had all the qualities he described in his ideal life partner. Further interactions between them since has only strengthened his admiration of Anandi and increased the depth of his feelings for her. She mesmerizes him with her inner and outer beauty. That's why he was so conscious of her demeanor and the streamer in her hair when they met at the roadside.

Still, I don't think he would have verbalized his growing emotions or proposed left to his own devices...especially as he is worried about offending Anandi. Yes. Somewhere even the generally confident Mr. Shivraj Shekar in his heart of hearts fears rejection and verbalizing even to himself that Anandi is his heart's wish. But, now that Daadisa has suggested "marriage", he can finally freely explore those feelings without fear... And now that he's expressed his own desire to be Anandi's husband or make her his wife, he is going to keep to that commitment and proudly admit that with those he's closest too (his parents, ashi). Over time his admiration and attachment will only deepen especially as he gets to know Anandi even better...and he's at a point where the obstacles will only strengthen his resolve since he's so close to the dream he scarcely realized he has...

Love in its purest form between a man and a woman is a combinations of attraction, commitment, care and trust in each other and their rishta. All of these elements are now there on Shiv's part and will only deepen

Fabulous answer👏. agree with you competely

I can just say that LOVE is a feeling which is one of its kind.And its such a different feeling that any human being irrespective of age and gender etc can easily understand when they are in love.Whether they accept it or not is a different issue but obviously they can understand the feeling.The feeling is totally different from crushes,infatuations and attractions.

The problem here is that cvs havent shown us his proper realization.We need that.I hope that before we see the proposal being rejected atleast there is one scene which shows his realization.
The cvs have actually hurried up the track thats why u r feeling that he has not fallen in love but actually its like that Shiv had just started feeling for her.He had just started to realize that any smallest thing which is related to anandi affects him in many ways.And thats why he says to DS that you have said my hidden wish.The wish was still under the wraps. The truth is that he just didnt get enough time to fully accept his feelings but when DS put the proposal,what all he could say was a YES!! If this was even a bit less than love then I am sure that an intelligent and mature person like Shiv would have asked for some time to think.

i think Shiv loves her...he is not a kid...if he really just attracted towards her..then why he would say YES to marry a divorcee!? 🤔...he loves her that is why he agreed to marry anandi...otherwise he would have ask DS for some time to think about it!..it is love..pure love that is why he immediately agreed...

Originally posted by: bluerobin

yaar , If DS hadn't proposed to shiv , I surely feel he would have dropped his secret wish because he doesn't know how to proceed further . If anandi had been an unmarried girl , then no problem we can at least logically say shiv would have proposed directly. Here roadblocks are many- child bride , divorce not yet done, he can't offend DS, bhairon etc and doesn't know what their wish is , jhansi ki rani anandi ready with bashan ( she may say like jab we met kareena kapoor to shahid kapoor ) - mere pati ne mujhe chod diya iska matlab yeh nahi hain ki ab tumhara chance hai .
Shiv likes anandi - mixture of love and respect . Respect for her , reasons are many . But love - a few incidents touched him especially saving from villagers and desi nuskhas in particular head massage . There is no explanation as of now why anandi went ahead with her gestures to shiv , she was not reluctant in touching him . I feel it was anandi's unconscious gestures that made him feel some connection with her. Since anandi thinks too much, i want her to think why she went ahead with her desi nuskhas , shiv dream etc . She could have just remained in that tight wall she built around her mainly city boy , doesn't respect village people etc. Anandi in sixth sense - loves shiv . But when back to sense - she is balika vadhu, beendhini of singh haveli, should never think about love , mission of life jaitsar development. I feel shiv reciprocated the love anandi has for him .

Originally posted by: kabakaba4

yaar that's why I said there is no logical explanation for her friendly gestures for shiv. She has interacted with other males especially lal singh , Dr abhishek , fraud sharavan ... Lal singh is married so we can leave him . But she never had any mental connection with Dr. abhishek or shravan . Dr. abhishek was also from city she never had this shehar wala concept rude behaviour for him. She was not interested in knowing about abhishek also. The moment shiv entered she closely started observing each and every behaviour of his, trying to understand what kind of person he is , finally she became so comfortable with him that she was not even reluctant to touch him . I don't think this is friendship . She needs to imagine herself as a girl of marriageable age and forget her balika vadhu, singh haveli daughter in law tag . She will surely get the answer that she loves him.

Originally posted by: bluerobin

I do not realy grasp Anandi's behaviour. Since Ja left her, she didn't have man in her life, but...

With Shiv, she seems to be at ease!

She, as you mentioned, gave him head massage, grabbed his arm to stop him fighting, tended his wound with a clay, hasn't stopped looking into his eyes😳

last night... How is it she is so comfortable with him?

Is it just friendship on her part, as she doesn't think about real love?

yaar that's why I said there is no logical explanation for her friendly gestures for shiv. She has interacted with other males especially lal singh , Dr abhishek , fraud sharavan ... Lal singh is married so we can leave him . But she never had any mental connection with Dr. abhishek or shravan . Dr. abhishek was also from city she never had this shehar wala concept rude behaviour for him. She was not interested in knowing about abhishek also. The moment shiv entered she closely started observing each and every behaviour of his, trying to understand what kind of person he is , finally she became so comfortable with him that she was not even reluctant to touch him . I don't think this is friendship . She needs to imagine herself as a girl of marriageable age and forget her balika vadhu, singh haveli daughter in law tag . She will surely get the answer that she loves him.

Originally posted by: bluerobin

yaar that's why I said there is no logical explanation for her friendly gestures for shiv. She has interacted with other males especially lal singh , Dr abhishek , fraud sharavan ... Lal singh is married so we can leave him . But she never had any mental connection with Dr. abhishek or shravan . Dr. abhishek was also from city she never had this shehar wala concept rude behaviour for him. She was not interested in knowing about abhishek also. The moment shiv entered she closely started observing each and every behaviour of his, trying to understand what kind of person he is ,