Originally posted by: tinoo
for all those who say that gauri is not "sensitive" to jagya's feelings at the moment,
I really dont see why gauri has to be "sensitive" or walk on egg shells around him. Yes she has achieved a lot, and yes she wants to share her happiness. Is that so wrong? Why should gauri "play small" and diminish herself and diminish her experiences at SNG hospital just for Jagya's comfort level?
I reiterate -- if she did not talk to him like this, he would be a life long parasite, just aimlessly sitting in front of the tv. She sent him to the dean to sweet talk him into seeing if he would give jagat an early exam so that he could complete his m.s. and what did jagat do? he went and insulted the dean and said that i will do it from some other college and one day you will come to me begging me for a job.
Gauri would not talk to him like this if he were actually studying or doing something legitimately or even handling his own matters with some care. She is irritated and genuinely so.
For all those who say that she is only money-minded -- and focusing on her salary -- yes, she is and there is nothing wrong with it. we all need money to survive. Without her salary - Jagat would be on the street just now with no roof over his head and no food at all. Atleast here at home under the chhaya of gauri's salary he gets toast and ketchup and bananas.
There are some practical issues rooted within her "materialistic" behaviour and we would all do well to recognize it because households need money. Nobody can survive on a diet of love and fresh air alone.