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NoOne12

@NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

#101

But tinoo real problem is not with Gauri's viewpoint but in her way of communicating it. She is hurting him and their relationship.

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akvats01

@akvats01

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Posted: 13 years ago

#102

Originally posted by: tinoo
sonalidg: you have a flair for writing. I really think you should pen down your romance story with the ritualistic brahmin 🤣. I would most certainly buy it! even the one paragraph you wrote was highly entertaining. 🤣

That being said would it be possible for you to explain the cooking with wet clothes early in the morning ritual please? I have never heard of such a thing and also googled and did not find any info on this. It sounds positively ghastly😲🤣. A new twist to the existing practices of culinary arts.

I am also a brahmin, and from north india only.. I was so surprised when Sonalidg has written about cooking early morning in wet cloth, This is never a custom . No one , my mother , Grandmaither, Grand grand mother, does any thing like this,

Infact this can never be a ritual, as in olden days Kitchen used to be of mud and same as the Choolha. If a woman will work in kitchen in wet cloth, this complete kitchen will be muddy and this can also go in food.

More over, any kind of wetness is not alowed in kitchen. Woman used to enter in kitchen, after bath and getting ready, as it was considered their work.

I am sure, that stupid guy and probably his mother, has created their self made rules, I think because probably they wanted to show you that their rituals are difficult and you would leave the guy easily... As far as I know this is not any rule...

Good that you left that Blud** guy.

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Monamie

@monamie111

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Posted: 13 years ago

#103

Tinoo...I haven't read all the replies yet...after watching yesterday's episode...i partially agree with you!! in yesterday's episode i didn't find anything wrong in what Gauri is saying...yes why should she will leave her job! and why can't jaggya first finish his MS and then search for good jobs!

but some more points are there that i can't support!

1. A happy family begins with the contribution of all the members..here gauri told jaggya to complete his MS first and she will provide the money as she is doing the job...but gauri seems not taking any responsibility of regular house hold...okay i can understand that as jaggya is free he suppose to go to market, buy the foods and all other necessary items and he can also cook..but gauri's responsibility does not end with doing a job only! when there is no food item left she should buy some food first and then some colorful cloths for herself! and also gauri should help him in cooking...but instead of this she is just ordering him!..just reverse the whole thing for once..how would a gal will feel if her husband after coming back to home just ordering her bring food for me and telling her that you can't even do this small things!?..however, here i supported gauri more...but i couldn't support her buying colorful cloths for herself when there is no food item left at home! that i found pure luxury and very selfish!! can't she check whether there is any food left at home..what kind of a wife she is? 😕

2. by telling jaggya all the time that i am doing the job..hospital canteen's foods are awesome..is another example of MY, MINE...i am not saying that jaggya's jealousy is right...but can u remember that anandi left her studies bcoz of jaggya and his family...but when jaggya became graduate he taunted anandi by calling her "gawar"!! didn't she feel insulted at that time?...i think gauri is doing the same kind of thing here with jaggya!! jaggya couldn't complete his MS..bcoz of his irresponsibility and for gauri too!! so he is not getting any good job...and now as gauri got a good job she is telling him that i am bringing the salary..indirectly isn't she telling that what u supposed to do i am doing it!? indirectly isn't she reminding him that he is living in gauri's fund? any person will feel insulted ins uch words!! and jaggya to chodo..he is already such an egoist!!..in real life also i don like these kind of people who taunts others about their degree, marks, jobs, salary etc!!

3. gauri told jaggya that she loves him more than anything else in her life!! has gauri ever tried to understand that jaggya is so frustrated? why he is behaving so rudely? she is busy in showing what she got!! she is loving everything else of her life, her job, her cloths etc..but jaggya!! she never ever tried to ask jaggya what is bothering him now-a-days! after coming back at home she never ask jaggya why he is not studying for MS and watching TV..but she asked him why he didn't bring the gas!! 😆..this shows that she loves only herself not the family!!

how can i support her? but if i compare jaggya and gauri as per the current situation i think gauri is right! and i am very happy that she is doing all these things to jaggya...jaggya needs to get a lesson!! just waiting what will happen if jaggya will go to bangalore and gauri will be at mumbai..alone with dr arjun khanna 😛 😆 😆 😆

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753037

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Posted: 13 years ago

#104

And i wonder if MR.33 is married or stilll single😉. I think J should find out that first! Cause if he's married...his poor wife should be cautious!😭 G is already well experienced in loving married men😛

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Blukitten

@Blukitten

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Posted: 13 years ago

#105

Originally posted by: -Perseus-
And i wonder if MR.33 is married or stilll single😉. I think J should find out that first! Cause if he's married...his poor wife should be cautious!😭 G is already well experienced in loving married men😛

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Truly said ...she is expert in husband snatching 😆😆

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Pratiksha

@Don_theEvil

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Posted: 13 years ago

#106

There is to so misunderstanding & ego between them, both are stubborn, even if gaury is right of some extent she can give her point of view of with understanding same goes to jagya to but both are really insensible to understand problem in there marriage life. Before that, they use to blame others and now them starting to blame each other. Marriage is matter of understanding, building trust with each other, support and all that but they both are always lack in that. Sometime I wonder is that really true love between them as they both claimed.

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Sania

@SRKLuvr

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Posted: 13 years ago

#107

Originally posted by: surabhi01
well jagat ne gauri ko resign karne ko kaha ki nahi iske liye mujhe phir se episode dekhna hoga pur agar keh bhi diya to kya galat kaha ki use lagaa hoga ki itna paisa milega ki gauri ko naukri karne ki zaroorat hi nahi.

Surabhi ji you are so blinded with hatred for Gauri that when she is actually right about something you are simply refusing to see it. Jogia has no MS and what Gauri has said is completely correct! Without an MS degree Jogia has no security in life. What he is doing is simply trying to run away from his duties and he is such a shifty person that that job may not even be to his liking! And for this one whim one uncertainty should Gauri leave the great career she has made for herself with her sweat and blood? All she is trying to tell Jogia is that he needs to complete MS because it is NECESSARY in life! She is being practical! If I do my LLB it is not going to be appreciated here unless I do LLM Masters or Juris Doctor! It is the same thing there. Jogia is not going to be career wise secure unless he completes his MS. Then what do you expect from her? Jogia needs to understand her view and this is the only way to drum it into him!

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leo4ever

@leo4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

#108

ok seriously it is not abt who is annadi guari or even j supporter, 😲 it is simply abt a fact that does a woman after becoming a wife has no say in her own career, in her life?😡 is this the 18th century that she has to only do what her hubby says and has no say in where she even lives?

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round one:

jaggu was wrong that he came and told her that we are gonig to banglaore- he has agreed, is she a possesion that she will shift in a min just coz he got a job there, if g had gotten a job in banglore would he ahve located??nope! so simply as she is the iwfe she has to? no! glad she stood her ground!! 👏

round 2:

he said you told me to dream big am doing so , wh arent u happy? here g shld have tried explainnig that she wld have been happy if he actually thot of it as a solution erather thna a runaway espcae- i feel could have been said better than how she did- round 2 - nuetral😕

round three:

the final reason, job millegi but not as good as u, so that the main reason , u want a job that is better than ur wife /why? coz ur the hubby??glad hereshe made her piont, she is getting a better job coz she is more quliofed, if they go to banglaore nad hei s the heado f hosp yes but g gets a better job at the hosp and gets mre perks more salary then he will do what? leave banglaore too? here she was right told him the root of all prob that he keeps running away, insteado f plannihg and doing somentihng he sulks nad loos for a shortcut!! point goes to guari 👏

see it does not matter

who funded her, coz even juggu weas funded but he never got great marks as comp to gauri,his record wasn never that great!
jaggu left his family for her- she shd be dre for him, hell no he left it coz of his own ego his own anger that aray accept me love me not that gawar, i got u a sehr ki larki leave the gaon ki chori. he knew that fmaily broke relations- he has never never not evne once felt bad for chhosing gouari or for leaving annadi-
she seperated him form family- no he found his own benfit and he used her idea for batwara, had it been successful would he have ever credited it to her nope never!!
she used him for money- nope both of them actually loved-like infatuated each other, g hates the fact she is funded by him , yes batwara wld be a slap in face of singhs for her( in her own twisited sense) but she has always been theo ne to face trouble to stand ground to rise and ambitous. jaggu isnt he is a lazy small minded sneaky person ewea charactered who gets swayed easily and wants an easy life!🥱

so whats the gurantee that even if she goes ot banglaore , laldesa dsnt like it then? ?😲

i like it that todays owman are not thatstupid or doormat that they mve thier life on the basis of the whims of their hubby!!its a life parternship both are equal!!!

yes i dnt like the way they made g maniplulative and shrewd and insecure in whole mera bhola bhalla jaggu, but this

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#109

yes i have blinded hatred for gauri .any problem ? and i m not interested in ur logic to support gauri thats why i am not intersted reply back to u it wil betotally waste of time and energy because if u can support adultury can consider bs wrong inspite of helping gauri without demanding anything can call dadisa and her family hyprocrite so this time u r supporting gauri this is nothing new to me and i know u will never consisder gauri wrong inspite of her wrong doing .u will again support gauri wrong doing with ur typical logic .so no use arguing with u and one more solid reason why i do not argue with u because u have already said that u like only gauri in serial

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Monamie

@monamie111

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#110

Finally read all the replies...

Tinoo...in one thread u have posted that Shivraj's approach to tell anandi that, "you can not do it alone" was wrong! then how can you support when a wife's attitude towards her husband is like : i am better than you? 😕 and if a wife will not be "sensitive" to his husband, specially when she claims that she loves him more than anything of her life, then who will be? 😕 the neighbors? 😆 😆

i am not supporting jaggya but the way gauri is handling this situation can not be supported too!! i can tell you similar real life incident!

during the recession time my date of joining at the company delayed for 1.5 yrs! after college i was job less for that 1.5 yrs..both my parents were working..so i used to stay at home for the whole day alone...i also couldn't decide whether to go for a higher study or for gvt jobs!! 😕 i can't tell u how much frustrated it was! whenever any frens of mine used to tell me that he\she got the job..i used to feel so bad! 😛 and also i used to do kich kich with my mom 😒 but i am very lucky that my parents never asked me to do all house hold work..also they helped me in my preparation for gvt jobs!! they searched jobs with me!! that was the support...can't gauri do the same with jaggya? i am sure if anandi would be here she would have done the same helping jaggya in finding jobs!!

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