What is wrong with gauri's POV?

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

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Posted: 13 years ago

#91

i agree with tinno .

i dont think gauri misbehaved with jagya ,infact she would sweetly tell him to take life seriously but he would bounce on her saying she is giving lectures ,showing him attitute.Everytime you can go with ale baba attitude all the time .It time to show him the mirror where he realises his goal and starts working for attaining them.Now that she has noticed that its his jealousy that is coming between them ,she wants him to do ms ,be on the same position like her.Jagat needs a push and thats what she is doing .

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#92

The other thing to remember is that there is a male-female dynamic that is biological and also social.

No matter how qualified and accomplished a woman is, she always wants her man to be 'higher' than herself, someone whom she can look up to. I personally believe that gender equality is a myth from that sense. Women themselves want someone more qualified than themselves and with lots of qualities that they dont have.

It is not really about earnings capacity, in the long run if she is an MS and he is one rung lower and remains an MBBS, this will lead to serious imbalance in their careers etc. -- not from a financial sense but from a looking down upon him sense. She may not care about the income differential, but it will make a difference to her in a social sense. Every woman wants someone who is more than her equal to introduce.

So if she leaves him to himself decide on the job in bangalore, in the long term this decision will create serious imbalances in their relationship where she wont be able to respect him.

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753037

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Posted: 13 years ago

#93

It was ridiculous of Jagya to ask Gauri to quit her Job w/o even checking how his new job is! I wouldn't quit my job either if i had a husband like J.

He is becoming worse n worse . Just as G started of with blaming Anandi(w/o A's fault) initially ...and then went on abusing her more n more due to her delusions,even trying to prove A's character bad for her own selfish wishes...similarly J is also going in the same pattern. He was first in a lost state(during that blackmail track, losing his family completely), then got depressed(when he knew everyone were busy except J) and then started feeling insecure(when he did not get a proper job)..and now becoming an MCP due to G's taunts!!! And i wouldn't be surprised if he gets even worse!

These two losers are too perfect for each other😛

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#94

accha to problem yeh hai ki jagya shortcut kyon apnaa raha hai long cut kyon nahi .khair jo bhi ho woh ms nahi kar raha hai mere liye itna bada issue nahi hai woh ms nahi job kur chahta hai mere liye yahi bahut hai .mere liye issue tub bada hota jub woh naukri ya ms mein se khucch nahi karna chah raha hota ab aage jagya ke saath kya hoga pur philhaal usne naukri karne ka mun bana liya hai

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#95

and from gauris perspective she is thinking long term.

It is obvious she is ambitious, and even her M.S. wont be her last degree. She knows she will get other opportunities, fellowships, advanced doctoral training, what have you. So then jagat with his small clinic and his mbbs degree wont be feasible in the long term -- there will be a serious imbalance.

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Payal

@payalibm

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Posted: 13 years ago

#96

Originally posted by: nniks
Thts what I am saying Gauri is right but she is not dealing properly with jagya...
koi bhi wife agar apne hubby ko bolegi tht I am more qualified than u so u should also get degree to uska khoon khaulega

Men have huge ego...the trick is apni baat ko twist ker ke present karo.

She could have told him polietly tht MS will increase ur reputation...kal ko uske frn ko jagay qualified doc milega to jagya ko nikal bhi sakta hai

her point was correct but presentation was wrong.

Jab jagya ko uski family ke against instigate karna tha to kaisi meethi meethi baatein ker ker usse samjhati thi jab career ki baat aayi to she is behaving rudely.

exctl niksss...men has huge ego and v.insulting type...if soem one tries to tress pass it and they feel liek some one walking on their grave and they directly start pinching and insulting and all bad...and gauri did the same..1st pighead is pighead and enver in his entire life he has shown intelignce 2nd he was always egoistic ladesur with spoiled and wou bhe roten to death son of singh family 3rd irresponsible and in 1st sign of trouble run as fast as posible kind with ego the zinat size of elephant...and to thsi type of person she tried to deal with attitude...lolzz u r so corect her thinkign was not at all wrong but presenting her POV was entirely wrong..soem time even if matter is wrse and one present it properly sudnly out of blue one finds ke its been solved and done n proper way and if same mater as gauri presented with so much attitude then it tuk more wrong trun and brings out more trouble...and being a huby listing evry day she earns more and he dosent earn and she paying for his leaving and he not working...lolzz wou beh indian males ans wou bhe pighead type lolzz its direct bombardment to this ego and self rspect which they think they have but it dosent exist in them...and morob. begins 😆 all the best gaga couple - we all are expcting more lovly songs around trees and park... 🤣

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ankit111

@ankit111

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Posted: 13 years ago

#97

We r here busy in proving who is rit and who is wrong, but I think this is not question of rit wrong but this is question of the out come of a pair of two selfish person. It was expected. Such clashes is not first and not last. We will witness it again and again. This fight is not becoz any of thm was thinking abt others, but becoz both r thinking only abt thmself. Its not becoz Gouri want to stay in Mumbai for the sake of Jogia or Jogia want to go to Bangalore for the sake of Gouri. Thn how his question is rit or wrong. Both r rit on their places at the the same time both r wrong to force each other. But one things I can say Jogia was always like tht thn why Gouri thinking he hs changed. But in fact its Gouri, who hs changed. Whn her motive is to make him against his family or demand share in property, she use all her manipulative and convincing talent, but whn its come to the welfare of both, she used streight forward approach, knowing very well the nature of her illegal husband. Some people say tht why she sd do any compromise for jogia, but before tht the main question is, why she sd hv choose tht cheater and now why she sd even tolerate him still still not legal relationship and its obvious to common people tht love factor missing their. Thn why this relationship to continue first of all. But if she decided to continue, thn she sd bear it and not show as if some atyachar is happening with her. My point is Jogia hs not changed, he was always like tht and will remain like tht. All this fight, ego clashes, selfish fights r outcome of such pairing. And we will be busy here to prove who is rit and who is wrong. Two wrong people always do wrong. Both r loser in personal life and.naturally making a loser couple. 😆 😆 😆

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Luvchoc

@Luvchoc

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Posted: 13 years ago

#98

Jagya is a jerk...he can never appreciate anyone...he got lucky twice to marry intelligent women...but their intelligence always invoked his jealousy...what an idiot!

What Gauri told was absolutely correct...It's high time he comes out of his dream world and start making things straight in his life...had I been in Gauri's place I would have been equally pissed off...this fellow cannot do anything for himself...sab kuch thali mein padosa hona chahiye...earlier Anandi was sending money and Gauri is earning so no need for him to earn...earlier thought he can buy a hospital with family money now his friend is offering him his hospital so no need for job hunting...Dadisa's laad pyar has made him alsi.

Gauri rightly said...he is an escapist..he always was...right from his childhood when he ran from home to escape bapusa's gussa. He is an eternal looser!

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#99

well tinoo jagat ne kaha tha ki job chodo pur woh apne job ke baare mein keh raha tha ki gauri ke baare pata nahi pur woh humara sapna humara hospital kur raha tha pur gauri ne jaisi hi suna ki woh hospital ka incharge hoga waisi hi gauri ka shuru hoga ya .pur mujhe gauri ke force se jyaada veeneet ki sweet advice acchi lagi usne kaha ki tum hospital ka kaam bhi sambhalo aur ms ki padhai bhi karlo

Edited by surabhi01 - 13 years ago

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Payal

@payalibm

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Posted: 13 years ago

#100

exctly ankit...they were both sefish and they never thught about other wellbeing but it dint came out coz they bth were busy punching and aming life hell for anandi...now she not in picture..family not in picture..now time to coem down to earth and reality and now their true colour is coming out...being this educated they aer both showing emncly im-mature and idiotc behaviour..but nothing less can be expected from either of them for wht they both did...we ploug babool tree we cant axpect now to get mango out of it..payment time..so here is your pament with full drop of peeny...

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