Why did Priya not allow him to speak? - Page 4

Originally posted by: lolita_lahiri

Even when Ram clarified that this was not about Ayesha and Nutz, but it was about the two of them...even then why did Priya not allow him to speak?

Thought about it for long...and what I think is...

Priya is really and truly scared that Ram will turn around and tell her... that he really cares a lot of her...and hence took so much care of her during her BC scare also...and he thinks she's a very wise person...and he really really values her friendship...and also values her ideals, her love for her family, her way of living etc etc etc...

..BUT...BUT he doesn't "LOVE" her...


After he refused to say a single word when she openly asked him to confess his feelings for her (after her long and emotional outburst when she poured out his innermost thoughts for him) she may be thinking that Ram Kapoor does not really "love" her per se...

And that is why ...because she doesn't want Ram to say it and have her worst fears come true, she's refusing to allow him to clarify his take on their relationship. Till the time Ram doesnt actually say, she can still keep on hoping...

And I actually think it makes sense... what do you'll think?

Lalita

I really like your analysis. Seems the most logical reason for why she went on, not allowing him to speak.
Here is a woman who spilled her heart out, and begged him to say something, and he kept quiet, and let her go away.
Then she went through hell watching her sister (almost daughter) go through extreme humiliation, and then watched her family breaking apart as a result, and all she got from him was that his sister was humiliated and it was his family matter.

When they came back home, he could have told her she was wrong with that compromise theory.
Instead of asking her "tum kuch bologi ya chup hi rahogi", he could have used that time to show his concern for the events of the day, or just say I love you.
Later, instead of saying "mujhe bolne dogi?" , he could have just said what he wanted to say.
He could have put a finger on her lips like he so effective did during Lohri, and told her that the marriage was no compromise. He could have told her the compromise ended the day the divorce papers flew out of the window.
After that if he kissed her, it would have been more fulfilling, for both of them, as well as for me...at least 😉
Just my take.

Originally posted by: mem1

I really like your analysis. Seems the most logical reason for why she went on, not allowing him to speak.
Here is a woman who spilled her heart out, and begged him to say something, and he kept quiet, and let her go away.
Then she went through hell watching her sister (almost daughter) go through extreme humiliation, and then watched her family breaking apart as a result, and all she got from him was that his sister was humiliated and it was his family matter.

When they came back home, he could have told her she was wrong with that compromise theory.
Instead of asking her "tum kuch bologi ya chup hi rahogi", he could have used that time to show his concern for the events of the day, or just say I love you.
Later, instead of saying "mujhe bolne dogi?" , he could have just said what he wanted to say.
He could have put a finger on her lips like he so effective did during Lohri, and told her that the marriage was no compromise. He could have told her the compromise ended the day the divorce papers flew out of the window.
After that if he kissed her, it would have been more fulfilling, for both of them, as well as for me...at least 😉
Just my take.

Originally posted by: lolita_lahiri

Even when Ram clarified that this was not about Ayesha and Nutz, but it was about the two of them...even then why did Priya not allow him to speak?

Thought about it for long...and what I think is...

Priya is really and truly scared that Ram will turn around and tell her... that he really cares a lot of her...and hence took so much care of her during her BC scare also...and he thinks she's a very wise person...and he really really values her friendship...and also values her ideals, her love for her family, her way of living etc etc etc...

..BUT...BUT he doesn't "LOVE" her...


After he refused to say a single word when she openly asked him to confess his feelings for her (after her long and emotional outburst when she poured out his innermost thoughts for him) she may be thinking that Ram Kapoor does not really "love" her per se...

And that is why ...because she doesn't want Ram to say it and have her worst fears come true, she's refusing to allow him to clarify his take on their relationship. Till the time Ram doesnt actually say, she can still keep on hoping...

And I actually think it makes sense... what do you'll think?

Lalita

Exactly Lalitaji...If ram and Priya had both acted wisely, then instead of yelling before the party, he would have complimented the room, and taken her with him to the party and then we would have seen the two sweet , bubbly, silly actors say sweet things to each other in front of a band.

Ram would never have found out the full extent of Priya's love for him. the paseena, the kharaate ...the whole package. 😳

And even now, if Ram just simply stopped her, like he has done numerous times in earlier situations, then they would have sorted out the differences, kissed and then followed it up with big C, as there would no longer be any excuse not to do so.

But now, since the differences still remain, they can drag it on for a couple more episodes, and we will hopefully get to hear the full extent of Ram's love too ... her tedhi bindis, her hitler genes ..the whole package...

that is what makes this soap so addictive. God help me!. Now i better get some work done... 😲

I feel Pri is not scared of rejection its that she is little irritated of the behaviour of Ram as he always says compromise. I can't understand onething is that When Pri can understand his dhadkan,aankhon ki chamak, paseena, his left hand usage, his tears then why did she not able to understand the reality of his love i don't know little bit confused myself...anyway after KISS I think its high time and yes her tear said everything lets wait and watch...

Originally posted by: lolita_lahiri

Even when Ram clarified that this was not about Ayesha and Nutz, but it was about the two of them...even then why did Priya not allow him to speak?

Thought about it for long...and what I think is...

Priya is really and truly scared that Ram will turn around and tell her... that he really cares a lot of her...and hence took so much care of her during her BC scare also...and he thinks she's a very wise person...and he really really values her friendship...and also values her ideals, her love for her family, her way of living etc etc etc...

..BUT...BUT he doesn't "LOVE" her...


After he refused to say a single word when she openly asked him to confess his feelings for her (after her long and emotional outburst when she poured out his innermost thoughts for him) she may be thinking that Ram Kapoor does not really "love" her per se...

And that is why ...because she doesn't want Ram to say it and have her worst fears come true, she's refusing to allow him to clarify his take on their relationship. Till the time Ram doesnt actually say, she can still keep on hoping...

And I actually think it makes sense... what do you'll think?

Lalita

Thank you so much Lalita.Your post helped me to think about ,'why Priya didn't give a chance to speak him.' I am in full support of Priya Kapoor again after reading your post . After yesterday's episode I felt like why she was not ready to listen him...I was thinking & annoyed because of it. But it's completely justified the way she reacted. 'The Fear of rejection' & the incidences one after other made her to react like that.It's very natural.Plus might be possible she is more annoyed for 'falling in love again & not getting it back' & unknowingly venting her frustration on 'the man she loves' for putting her in this situation.

I really feel that it is hurt and anticipation more than anything. Ram did not speak when she completed or even through the monologue... Because obviously he became too numb to hear her pour her heart out! So, it is the situation that is at fault and hence the Creatives. But, then they view this as a money making tool and think about the number of posts and number of different topics we re discussing just based on this week's episodes! So, there you go, the creatives have succeeded!!!

Originally posted by: lolita_lahiri

Even when Ram clarified that this was not about Ayesha and Nutz, but it was about the two of them...even then why did Priya not allow him to speak?

Thought about it for long...and what I think is...

Priya is really and truly scared that Ram will turn around and tell her... that he really cares a lot of her...and hence took so much care of her during her BC scare also...and he thinks she's a very wise person...and he really really values her friendship...and also values her ideals, her love for her family, her way of living etc etc etc...

..BUT...BUT he doesn't "LOVE" her...


After he refused to say a single word when she openly asked him to confess his feelings for her (after her long and emotional outburst when she poured out his innermost thoughts for him) she may be thinking that Ram Kapoor does not really "love" her per se...

And that is why ...because she doesn't want Ram to say it and have her worst fears come true, she's refusing to allow him to clarify his take on their relationship. Till the time Ram doesnt actually say, she can still keep on hoping...

And I actually think it makes sense... what do you'll think?

Lalita

Fantastic. Couldnt have said it better myself. you are right.. she wants to keep hoping for a better outcome and is afraid of the truth that Ram might have in store for her..