Shruti's behaviour - Page 4

Originally posted by: Jefen

But did Anupama go where Anuj and Shruti were together? Anuj lied and met Anupama. Whereas in Shruti's case, it was all before her eyes. She intentionally and needlessly gave that invitation, asked her to speak and to cater her wedding.

Arrey baba, just the day before her Birthday, she introduced AK to Anupama as her fiance. Both acted as strangers. Meaning both lied to her not Anuj alone, Anuj and Anupama both.

She excitedly spoke about her plans.

Despite this knowledge, Anuj and Anupama met.

Shruti found out the truth of their past on her Birthday.

So, what happened by chance was correct and her replaying the events by design is wrong?

The bottomline is the hiding of facts causing the relationship to strain and thus incurred pain.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Ok. In doing so, is Anupama the only one getting hurt by her actions? Anuj is getting hurt, guilty everything infact may be more than Anupama.

Again, I am not justifying her actions just stating probabilities.

But why don’t Anupama say no with obvious reasons. Why she don’t say that I am uncomfortable doing catering in Anuj marriage. She can say that someone else will do it from S&C. She have to say it na. She have the right to deny.

If Shruti says that she only wants her so it is not Anupama’s problem or I say matka. Anupama’s boss are not like forcing her to do it. They literally destroyed their restaurant for her.

Originally posted by: Jefen

I don't have any special liking for Anupama but really Shruti shouldn't have done that. We should know when and how to break a news. But it is all the keep us talking and engaged.

Does Shruti knows that Anupama loves Anuj now. I thinks she only knows that Anuj is not able to let go of past. Maybe she thinks that Anupama is over it and she don’t care about anuj. Maybe for her also it is anuj one sided longing. After leap they didn’t shown that Anupama wants to do anything with Anuj or adhya.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

How a parent meet once in week to children after divorce

Suppose affer divorce father has custody of child and mother is allow to meet child only once In week so how mother will meet their children

Real life mein mother ya father Jo bhi hai Apne bachon se kaise milti hogi

Kya woh bachon se mine ke liye ex husband ya ex wife ke Ghar nahi jaate honge ya phir bus Bahar sadak park ya restaurant pe milne honge kya yeh har hafte possible hai kya teen Ghanta kisi restaurant mein ya park mein Baitha possible hai atleast father or mother want to spend whole day not just 30 minute with her or his children when she pr he is allow to meet children once a week so it is not practical possible every time to meet children in park or restaurant so they go to ex house

Aise bhi kya hai just because husband and wife divorce to maa ya father apne bachon se milne Ghar ke andar nahi aa sakti kyonki woh uske ex ka Ghar hai bus Bahar sadak pe hi bachon se mil lo ki nahi Ab divorce ho gaye ab aap andar nahi aa sakte kya bache few hrs ke liye maa ko apne Ghar nahi Bula sakte

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Kya anupama ka shah house visit itna limited tha ki sirf baccho se mili aur nikal gayi!!!

Nahi nahi. Woh Baa Bapuji ki bhi seva karti thi. Vanraj Kavya ki bhi seva karti thi.

There are scenes where she is legit making tea/food for entire Shah clan

But bolegi ki sirf 'baccho' (20+ year grown adult people) ke liye jati thi.

BTW there is no explanation why said bacche could not have come to KM instead

Originally posted by: HoneyBee7312

Nahi nahi. Woh Baa Bapuji ki bhi seva karti thi. Vanraj Kavya ki bhi seva karti thi.

There are scenes where she is legit making tea/food for entire Shah clan

But bolegi ki sirf 'baccho' (20+ year grown adult people) ke liye jati thi.

BTW there is no explanation why said bacche could not have come to KM instead

Dhyaan se Dekho serial

Most of time woh bachon ke liye hi aayi hai..chahe woh pakhi se related ho like pakhi ka Ghar se bhaag jaana uska kidnap hona toshu ka affair samar ji wedding samar ki death toshu ka paralysed

Agar aise major issue mein pahunch kar Thoda bahut Bana bhi diya to Kaun si badi baat hai

Aise to nahi hai Anupama particular khaaana banane ke liye shsh house jaati

Daily to kavya kinjal hi khaana banati hai serve karti hai Baa bapuji ko

So this is wrong to say nupama shah house mein cooking karne ke purpose se jaati hai

Haan jub anupama major issue ke wajah se jaana, pad. Gaya Aur ek din stay karna pad gaya tub anupama ne Bana diya hoga to isme nothing big deal in it

I am not Anupama's anad bakht nor do I watch the serial regularly anymore but come here to read Sutas daily summary and peep in somedays to read discussions. Agreed that Shruti didn't know Joshiben was Anupama. Aadhya in this whole thing assumed she can control everything. She his the truth from Shruthi and Anuj. She his her identity from Anupama. She schemed to prevent Any Anuj meeting.

Shruthi by her action yesterday reduced her maturity level to Adyas. Okay she may not have friends or family yet using that as a pretext to emotionally blackmail Anupama by her sweet talk to cater was the most insensitive thing to do. The timing was too much for Anupama to handle that she could not blatantly refuse

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Kya anupama ka shah house visit itna limited tha ki sirf baccho se mili aur nikal gayi!!!

If not for her then who will cook Baa’s khichdi, give Bapuji his medicine, masale wali chai for Mishter Shah, cold kophee for Shweety? Ye sab toh sirf AnupaMaid hi karr sakti hai

I am also not saying that what Shruti did is right but maybe she is under the impression that Anupama has moved on from Anuj long. That’s what they had shown by Anupama’s action. She just talks sometimes that she loves anuj but her actions don’t show that.

I am just saying that Anupama can say that she is not comfortable doing catering to they can look for someone else. One has to say no if they don’t wants to do that. You can’t be people pleasing every time.

When you learn to say no then you saves yourself from unnecessary responsibility or heartbreak. It’s apply to everyone and everywhere. If anyone is unable to say no to everything then the said person are just going to burden themselves. You can’t do everything because sometimes it’s beyond physical capacity and sometimes mental capacity. It will only overburden you.

Anupama is in dire need to learn how to say no but we can’t expect that from her because she had the habit of overburden herself and then play victim.