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Posted: 1 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Jefen

Okay. I see what you are trying to say here. Let me not defend what Anupama did after her divorce. Let's talk about the present. What Anupama did with the Shahs in her second wedding doesn't justify what Shruti is doing now. Also, if Anuj didn't tell Shruti, it is Anuj's fault. And yes, Anu should have told her too. I understand. But any of that doesn't justify what Shruti is doing. Even Adhya didn't tell Shruti for that matter. Plus Anupama wasn't hurting Shruti. Shruti shouldn't do this knowing how much Anuj and Anupama love each other.

ALL I am trying to tell is:

1. Yes, Shruti's actions are uncalled for. However, it may come as a consequence of the betrayed trust.

2. Anuj loves Anupama is also not Shruti's fault, right? May be Shruti wants them to realise her hurt, they hurt her by keeping the truth from her not respecting her trust, they will now realise what she feels?


Finally, When we judge one person on a set of parameters the parameter have to be uniform across characters, right?

If "a" person's actions are incorrect for a set if reasons. It is wrong regardless of the character, lead or not.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#22

I don't see how and in what way Anupama caused any harm to Shruti. In fact, she has stopped Anuj's advances for Shruti's sake.


Even if Shruti is angry at Anupama for not telling her the truth, it is still not a valid reason to hurt and humiliate Anupama like that. Also, more than Anupama she must be upset at Adhya and Anuj for hiding the truth from her. But what is she doing with them? Nothing. She is in turn hurting Anupama. What she is doing is wrong. She must not hurt someone like that. She can invite her but why on her birthday? And Shruti already knows Anupama has been through a lot with the theft allegation. And now she gives this news on her birthday when the celebration was gng on. On top of that, she even asks her to say something when she could clearly see how hurt she is. Of course, she asks her to cater her wedding. That's totally cruel.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jefen

I don't see how and in what way Anupama caused any harm to Shruti. In fact, she has stopped Anuj's advances for Shruti's sake.


Even if Shruti is angry at Anupama for not telling her the truth, it is still not a valid reason to hurt and humiliate Anupama like that. Also, more than Anupama she must be upset at Adhya and Anuj for hiding the truth from her. But what is she doing with them? Nothing. She is in turn hurting Anupama. What she is doing is wrong. She must not hurt someone like that. She can invite her but why on her birthday? And Shruti already knows Anupama has been through a lot with the theft allegation. And now she gives this news on her birthday when the celebration was gng on. On top of that, she even asks her to say something when she could clearly see how hurt she is. Of course, she asks her to cater her wedding. That's totally cruel.


Ok. In doing so, is Anupama the only one getting hurt by her actions? Anuj is getting hurt, guilty everything infact may be more than Anupama.


Again, I am not justifying her actions just stating probabilities.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Of course, Anuj is getting hurt. But is Anuj getting humiliated? It is Anupama. See, Shruti must be able to feel for Anupama. To see your own ex husband who u r still in love with getting married to another woman. She must be able to empathize with her. I like Shruti but today's action was unlike her. I felt like she was just trying to show her ownership on Anuj and Adhya today.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jefen

Of course, Anuj is getting hurt. But is Anuj getting humiliated? It is Anupama. See, Shruti must be able to feel for Anupama. To see your own ex husband who u r still in love with getting married to another woman. She must be able to empathize with her. I like Shruti but today's action was unlike her. I felt like she was just trying to show her ownership on Anuj and Adhya today.

Well frankly, I don't even think the makers are thinking as much as we are speculating but here goes.


Did Shruti know that Anupama did not know Anuj was AK?

So far as I recall from clips played, she only discovered the truth when she found Anuj-Anupama together confessing the past while both acted as strangers in front of her, just the day before.

She felt betrayed. She perhaps feels that Anupama hid the fact from her just like Anuj and both played her. She probably doesn't know/realise the well intentioned actions.


Again, the makers, for ALL we know may well turn her into a vamp so will reserve my thoughts here.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#26

I don't have any special liking for Anupama but really Shruti shouldn't have done that. We should know when and how to break a news. But it is all the keep us talking and engaged.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: Jefen

I don't have any special liking for Anupama but really Shruti shouldn't have done that. We should know when and how to break a news. But it is all the keep us talking and engaged.

True, sharing opinions that's ALL.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#28

Anupama knew it was Shruti ji's birthday and still went to meet Anuj. When Shruti discovered the truth.

Favour returned with thanks?

Here both Anuj and Anupama are wrong, Anuj more than Anupama, I agree, but from where Shruti stands, she did not know that Anupama did not know AK being Anuj.

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Posted: 1 years ago
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But did Anupama go where Anuj and Shruti were together? Anuj lied and met Anupama. Whereas in Shruti's case, it was all before her eyes. She intentionally and needlessly gave that invitation, asked her to speak and to cater her wedding.

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Posted: 1 years ago
#30

Didn't AnupaMAA just hide the fact from Shruti about her knowing Anuj ? Didn't AnupaMAA claim to be her friend and just lied right to her face till Shruti found out herself ? How's that NOT hurting Shruti ? smiley3smiley5 Take this as Shruti's revenge. smiley16

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