forget all this and tell me if you agree with my pallu me naak mooh pochne wala criticism coz that's the only thing that really matters🙂Originally posted by: Miniwatch
Okay, I finally got some time to sit and think and lol, this is what I chose to think about this fine monday afternoon! I've been reading several opinions and i thought instead of replying separately, I'll compile my thoughts on the situation. Basically, I'm reacting to criticism of Anu's character, not of the show. I agree with all views against the show's bad writing and bad editing. They need to get their act together.
Criticism I agree with:
* The sharmana is OTT and very cringe - please show more yearning and affection- he's your fiance ffs.
* She should NOT be in shah house - there is no reason to be in shah house, grow some guts and get out of there!
* She should NOT be taking care of ANY kitchen and other house chores all the time -she did this at Anuj's house and I hated it, and she does this at Shah house and I hate it.
*Stop the baa jap: respecting elders is different from harboring affection towards an abuser. It is not good behaviour to love people who are horrible to you, and it sets a very bad standard.
Criticism I disagree with:
*She comes with too much baggage unlike Anuj - She shouldn't be expected to not have baggage - she does and she's always been honest about it. Anuj has always known about it, and nobody forced him to be with her - he's in this with his eyes open. Also, Anuj isn't exactly stepping in with a new empty backpack - the way he responds to her is clearly because of the baggage he carries. He's desperate for a full family.
*Because she does things at Shah house kitchen it's an insult to Anuj: I don't see how Anuj is insulted in this process. He isn't her owner or keeper to have some sort of connected ego. When she stayed at Anuj's house also she acted exactly the same way - taking over the household, making things for not just anuj but also GK and mukku. It seems to be what she does. Nobody asked whether it was insulting to Anuj then.
*She doesn't say I love you, or express emotion enough - so she doesn't really love Anuj:
However stupid it seems to us (which is really really stupid) - they've scripted her to express love through sharmana (i know, it's really yuck), she did this even when she was with V (Oh God was that cringe). So I really don't see a reason to doubt whether she loves him. Nor do I think she takes him for granted. They've shown us enough to believe that she appreciates all that he does (even though they don't script a thank you).
*She cares for the shahs so she doesnt really love Anuj: Anupama has put aside her feelings due to mukku as well, and has stayed back at Anuj's house for her sake, gave up her financial security to save Anuj's relationship with his sister - these are according to me clearly acts of love. I think sometimes we're frustrated due to the general bad writing, it is easy to accuse her of not loving him.
If you got till here, thanks for reading, I promise to keep my reactions short hereafter :)
Do you agree that anupama is an unhygienic person and she is the sole reason for the spread of corona virus and numerous other viruses in Gujarat 🤕
She always talks about samaaj ki gandgi saaf karna par what about her pallu ki gandgi 🥲 such a hypocrite she is when it comes to cleanliness 🤡
There was a lady chef in a 5 star hotel who is now popular with the nickname "typhoid Mary"
She was a typhoid carrier and continued to spread typhoid for many years through the food she made...do you think anupama is competing with her???!!!! Do you think anupama is jelaous of her and won't stop until she spreads more deadly diseases👀👀
And most importantly she always wipes Anuj's face with her unhygienic pallu...i mean do you really thinks that she loves him?? will you do that to your loved ones???!!🙄
She never wipes vannu ya baa ka face with her pallu coz she loves them too much and can't risk their health but Anuj k health ki to padi hi nhi hai 😖
She takes him for granted . period 🥲
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