Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 18 Apr 2022 - Page 18

Originally posted by: shriz

can you imagine there are 1000000000000000 reasons to hate Anupama and still i look for new innovative hate ideas 💡

I'm sure even if there were zero reasons, you'd look for new ones babes 😂

Originally posted by: shriz

can you imagine there are 1000000000000000 reasons to hate Anupama and still i look for new innovative hate ideas 💡

I think this guy honestly needs to be taught how to eat or drink properly ... maybe he should be gifted those toddler straw / spout sippers as a wedding gift 🤣

The day he was having breakfast with Mukku , uss din thoda richie rich dikhana tha shayad, he was wiping his face with napkin n all 😛

Haaan your problems these are more qualms with the story, rather than the character, that i also agree with. Lack of proper conversation, no communication, no plan on what happens after the wedding. Again, all story problems

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

I'm sure even if there were zero reasons, you'd look for new ones babes 😂

Originally posted by: ga1986

I think this guy honestly needs to be taught how to eat or drink properly ... maybe he should be gifted those toddler straw / spout sippers as a wedding gift 🤣

The day he was having breakfast with Mukku , uss din thoda richie rich dikhana tha shayad, he was wiping his face with napkin n all 😛

After an analysis of ITV, i have figured out maryada... It is only maryada to express love and desire when:

* The person is physically unwell/even better if you think they're dying

*They fall and you save them

*You can only touch them to comfort them if they're unwell, choking, max when they're having an emotional breakdown.

All other times, it is maryada to remain shy 🤪

Originally posted by: shriz

lol if people can blindly worship and love anupama then why can't I blindly hate her 🤣

Tu kar na babes blindly hate! You're the only one to declare that your hate is blind.. others look for reasons 🤣

Originally posted by: ga1986

I think this guy honestly needs to be taught how to eat or drink properly ... maybe he should be gifted those toddler straw / spout sippers as a wedding gift 🤣

The day he was having breakfast with Mukku , uss din thoda richie rich dikhana tha shayad, he was wiping his face with napkin n all 😛

Anupama ka haath 5 baar bhi mushkil se pakda hoga but pallu to chhorta hi nhi hai🤡

I guess he could have easily moved on from anupama only if his 'suraj dhalne k baad ki saathis' had pallu attached with their crop tops😇

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

Tu kar na babes blindly hate! You're the only one to declare that your hate is blind.. others look for reasons 🤣

And yeah i'm too dumb/lazy/ignorant to talk about real issues with anupama's character 🤣

I just depend on Smitha to speak my mind while I'm busy discussing irrelevant things here😳

Originally posted by: ga1986

I think this guy honestly needs to be taught how to eat or drink properly ... maybe he should be gifted those toddler straw / spout sippers as a wedding gift 🤣

The day he was having breakfast with Mukku , uss din thoda richie rich dikhana tha shayad, he was wiping his face with napkin n all 😛

A suave business tycoon, but can't sip water without making a mess. Go figure!

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

I hear you, but i don't think those points indicate that she takes him for granted. Loving someone else like baa (however irrational it is) doesn't mean she doesn't value Anuj.

Whenever anuj or mukku try to point out baa's mistake she immediately shuts them up by reprimanding them

This isn't prioritising the Shahs over Anuj though. It's her irrational love for baa. She doesn't let anybody speak ill of her. Not just mukku or Anuj.

But when baa ,toshu , vanraj or even Rd for that matter hurls abuse at the kapadia's she suddenly turns meak and helpless...

Not really, starting with Dusshera, she stood up for him, at shivratri she answered baa back but Anuj himself held her back. He himself doesn't answer back.

We all saw what treatment Rd got from Anu for disrespecting baa babuji and but when Rd insulted him she just stood there watching it happen...

True, but this still doesn't mean she chooses Shah over Anuj, it just means she has an unhealthy relationship with baa. Also when RD insulted him, he spoke up for himself, gave a really nice reply.

Anu jumps in to defend vanraj whenever any of the kids behave rudely with him...but toshu literally pushed anuj in the fight ,shouts at his face, she should have reprimanded him for his behavior but instead she brings haldi milk for toshu...

She has accepted that she shouldn't have ever defended him, and that he deserves his fate, but she still choses to ask her children to be respectful to parents. That's different from defending vanraj. She told Anuj not to come to the house that day precisely because she didn't want him to get insulted. When he insulted Anuj earlier at Diwali, she threw Toshu out of the house.

Anuj has expressed his dislike for her staying at shah house, requested her not once but several times to leave the house...but she never pay heeds to him...

It's completely nuts that she's staying at Shah house. Anuj wants her to leave the house because she's negatively affected by the drama and he doesn't want her stuck in the kitchen, not because he's insecure (the wonderful man that he is). However irrational her opinions are, i think she still gets to decide how much is too much for her, and not Anuj.

Anu constantly talks to anuj about how her family is so important to her...

She's always always talked about her family... The dude still seems to like her 🤣. How does this mean that she takes him for granted though?

Anuj is constantly afraid of loosing Anu because she's yet to give him reason to believe that he comes above in her priority list.....

This is actually mostly the baggage that Anuj comes with. He's never had any luck with love, so he finds it hard to believe. Even when Anu gave him signals he didn't take them.

Baa cursed her to never be happy in her married life...that literally means baa wants harm for anuj and Anu... how could you defend someone who actually wants suffering for the one you love and want to spend the rest of the life with... so she lets her irrational love take precedence?

Vanraj manipulated a emotionally vulnerable mukku...created rift between anuj and mukku... father or no father that man deserves no defence from anupama...even on the grounds of parenting...

She did call vanraj a good father to toshu... how was he a good father to him... toshu's bad behavior is the direct result of vanraj enabling toshu...if she can ask her children to be respectful towards a vile being like him ,why wouldn't she ask toshu to behave well with anuj when he pushed him ...

it was actually after devika reminding about how unfair it was of her to let him get insulted that she took a stand...she constantly needs someone to remind to consider his feelings... sometimes it's devika, sometimes it's Samar and sometimes babuji...

I am not saying anuj is insecure about her staying in that house...Anuj is not that kind of a person...

But her going back to the house that has given her so much pain bring him misery and he has voiced it out constantly but Anu doesn't seem to consider his feelings in this matter...

Anu and anuj both have baggage...anuj tries to not let his fears affect Anu...Anu let's her baggage consume her...

Relationship cannot be one-sided...yes anuj knew what he was getting into but Anu needs to step up ,learn to balance her relationships...draw boundaries...

I have issues with anuj's obsession too...

I don't question if anu Love's anuj or not but I do question her priorities...