One sided love- whats the difference?

Posted: 3 years ago
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Anu’s love for Vanraj was always one-sided, Vanraj was never in it for love, he looked for it elsewhere.

Anuj loved Anu for 26 years but again it was one-sided and Anu wasnt privy to it.

But still her love was right and his is wrong.

what makes it so different?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Waah who said anuj ka pyaar was wrong seriously

What even in what way ??? 🤨🧐🤔

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Mindset girl....mindset😏


Hypocrisy toh yahi se sikho

Anu duniya ke liye bhashan aur gyaan ready rakhti hai but khud ko dena bhul jati hai...🤷‍♀️

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Par mujhe yeh reaction better laga than confronting him for his intentions.

Devika already said once anu sab ke liye progressive hai aur khud par bohat hi regressive soch rakhti hai.

I jus don't want her to hurt Anuj intentionally or unintentionally. Such a big business tycoon went all the way to make the good for nothing Shah's understand.

Anyways let's see how this goes

Mujhe Anuj ke liye bohat bura laga

He so deserves all the love

I feel so so so bad for him.

Hope makers yeh stretch na kare and they can go back to being frds atleast

Maybe Anuj shd leave to us or so he shd say and then maybe anu will realise his worth

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Posted: 3 years ago
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To love someone to the extent that it becomes a devotion can never be wrong.

It is the perspective with which one is raised.

I was thinking listening to Leela s Paraya Mard taunt what meera must have endured.

At a time when guys like Vanraj exist, the repeated mention of maryada made me wonder if that's the kind of message Ramayan was to drive home. Anuj s self talk that he can love Anu for 26 lifetime s was symbolic of his devotion.

The conversation that Rohan Anuj had on love was deeply symbolic.

Rohan and Vanraj believe in the stalking kind of love that wants to win, take all the time and gloat in it as an achievement.

Anupama and Anujs one sided love is giving it their all. Whole heartedly unmindful of whether it is acknowledged or not.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I hope our mahaan mahila syndrome wali anupamaaaa ji yeh sab samjhe.

Aise na react kare ki Anuj ne dhokha diya hai

At the age of 40+ I expect some maturity.

Let her take her time to absorb understand and then react

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: hinz

Anu’s love for Vanraj was always one-sided, Vanraj was never in it for love, he looked for it elsewhere.

Anuj loved Anu for 26 years but again it was one-sided and Anu wasnt privy to it.

But still her love was right and his is wrong.

what makes it so different?


hahaha, this is an issue with such women Hinz, really cant say much. The tendency is with everyone else I will give bhashan and say this is right or wrong, but when it comes to self, its first wrong if someone feesl for her (in this aspect), bec its so ingrained that a woman shouldnt be loved when she is in this state blah blah..... then someone needs to drive sense, and then they will need time to settle and this is when they need to be away from society and other influences (bad ones anyway), and then maybe things will strike!!!

No clue what all need to be done with Anu bef she goes and tells Anuj, this is wrong and I am disappointed ... lol.. but owing to the fact that she is mahaan and she will also hesitate to face him, she might just keep chup

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonwearer

To love someone to the extent that it becomes a devotion can never be wrong.

It is the perspective with which one is raised.

I was thinking listening to Leela s Paraya Mard taunt what meera must have endured.

At a time when guys like Vanraj exist, the repeated mention of maryada made me wonder if that's the kind of message Ramayan was to drive home. Anuj s self talk that he can love Anu for 26 lifetime s was symbolic of his devotion.

The conversation that Rohan Anuj had on love was deeply symbolic.

Rohan and Vanraj believe in the stalking kind of love that wants to win, take all the time and gloat in it as an achievement.

Anupama and Anujs one sided love is giving it their all. Whole heartedly unmindful of whether it is acknowledged or not.


BOLD - bang on my friend and this is what Anu needs to understand!!!! Then only she will appreciate that man more and draw parallels.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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From Anu's point of view it can be wrong coz from the day one Anuj enters her life he and she had been accused for the relation they dont have and now all of a sudden it came out like this thar to in front of those reckless shahs who left no chance to demean them. Its a sign of worry for her that their pure relation will again questioned by them and now she cant justify it

Plus any normal person will behave hopeless and terrified and that person will definetly do who was in a abused relation for her life

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonwearer

To love someone to the extent that it becomes a devotion can never be wrong.

It is the perspective with which one is raised.

I was thinking listening to Leela s Paraya Mard taunt what meera must have endured.

At a time when guys like Vanraj exist, the repeated mention of maryada made me wonder if that's the kind of message Ramayan was to drive home. Anuj s self talk that he can love Anu for 26 lifetime s was symbolic of his devotion.

The conversation that Rohan Anuj had on love was deeply symbolic.

Rohan and Vanraj believe in the stalking kind of love that wants to win, take all the time and gloat in it as an achievement.

Anupama and Anujs one sided love is giving it their all. Whole heartedly unmindful of whether it is acknowledged or not.


Ohh the love of Meera for kanha is devotion personified and the taunts she faced and never cared!! That's how deep her trust was in herself and her lord/husband. My respect for her is utmost :) :)

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