One sided love- whats the difference? - Page 4

Originally posted by: sushups

Mindset girl....mindset😏

Hypocrisy toh yahi se sikho

Anu duniya ke liye bhashan aur gyaan ready rakhti hai but khud ko dena bhul jati hai...🤷‍♀️

Exactly😆

Now few months back, she convinced Vanraj to get married to Kavya because they loooved each other. And love is such a beautiful thing - so she not only forgot what Vanya did to her but also supported both of them a whole heart.

But bichara Anuj🤔 he doesn't even give her daily insults and tanne so he can't be treated the same as Shah. He deserves biased treatment🤓

Originally posted by: Miniwatch

I understand the idea behind this, but I think I disagree to a certain extent :). I think it's possible to respect someone even if it is just lust. I think respect and consent are values that people can be aware of and cultivate in all relationships. It's basically respecting the other person and recognising that they have rights to their opinions/their body/their thoughts

Agree to u. Anuj do respect and even respect Kavya as a lady and even the ladies with whom he did one night stand.

What I was trying to make point here is that it is not wrong for any male or female to have one sided love. It's totally fine there is nothing wrong in it.

Originally posted by: piyu008

Exactly😆

Now few months back, she convinced Vanraj to get married to Kavya because they loooved each other. And love is such a beautiful thing - so she not only forgot what Vanya did to her but also supported both of them a whole heart.

But bichara Anuj🤔 he doesn't even give her daily insults and tanne so he can't be treated the same as Shah. He deserves biased treatment🤓

may be this is a far fetched thought but I think Anu feels like she can treat Anuj like that because she feels a connection with him that she never felt with Vanraj.

She knows he'll understand her, may be not straightaway but she knows he will come around eventually...

I've been musing a bit too much, I need to stop!

Originally posted by: hinz

may be this is a far fetched thought but I think Anu feels like she can treat Anuj like that because she feels a connection with him that she never felt with Vanraj.

She knows he'll understand her, may be not straightaway but she knows he will come around eventually...

I've been musing a bit too much, I need to stop!

She is very free with him and she actually has not pondered on this! She is her own self only with him and maybe thats why she can feel or say anything knowing he will not take her in the wrong way. hahaha

we all need to stop thinking but darn this heart and mind are both not listening!!!!

🤣

Anupama married love blindly her husband is correct

Anuj loving married women now divorcee mas saas is wrong 🤣

Logic mujhe nah pata duniya rules pe chalti ladke kuch bhi kare ladkiyan nahi par yaha to ladka kar raha phir bhi galat

We all do anuj one sided love are wrong or correct 🤣

Originally posted by: hinz

may be this is a far fetched thought but I think Anu feels like she can treat Anuj like that because she feels a connection with him that she never felt with Vanraj.

She knows he'll understand her, may be not straightaway but she knows he will come around eventually...

I've been musing a bit too much, I need to stop!

Yup, that's possible that she may feel confused. All of sudden a relation in which she got really comfortable started changing.

But more or less my problem with Anu's character is she needs lots of pushing when it comes down to doing right thing. She easily overlooks all shah wrongdoing. So frustration toh banata he.

We might easily see another month or so before she gets comfortable with the situation. Samar already tried, now let's see who is next and who is last before she accepts the situation.

It would be great if Anu holds back and think about Anuj, but I really don't want that Baa jaap. I am seriously done with that lady!

We all need to stop actually 🤣