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Posted: 16 years ago
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I m facing one of the big problems in life my prob is i don't have any friends in college ...
my other prob is they r to intelligent i m a very very average student so i cant speak eng properly ...
i sit in a class in the break alone no one likes talking to me .. .. i m a little reserved ...
they all hv friends but i dnt i feel really unconfortable ... and i feel sad
ok my other prob is i m finding this course really hard i wnt to leave it but my parents are not agreeing i m really confused in my life and i cry lod .. .. i just want to get out of ths bombshelll
dnt knw wht to do .. bc i hv never taken a first step ...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think you should sit and talk to your parents coz if u fail a class your GPA will drop and then u might be below average. They shouldn't force u if u think u can't make it.

To have friends u need to be a friend. If u be nice to ppl maybe they will wat to talk to u.😊
Posted: 16 years ago
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I think you should try to make one freind...Maybe someone who is similar to you? I am sure all the students need help, maybe someone might be in the same position as you?
If i was in ur class i would be ur frnd...But if i were you, i would try to make friends..maybe joining study group?
Its ok tho, many ppl feel this way..I did at times too..
Studying is important to pass classes...
PS: nice name...and if u need more help let us know..will be happy...😳
Edited by AsliiGuy - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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the prob is its a very small class around 7 - 8 students and they are all in pairs ...
my family is really strict and they r not understanding my situation ..
where as making friends is bit hard in this class bc of they are really intelligent with a good speaking power and m the most dumbest in the class which is my negative point ...
anyways will try if i can make any friend ..
Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Simran*

the prob is its a very small class around 7 - 8 students and they are all in pairs ...
my family is really strict and they r not understanding my situation ..
where as making friends is bit hard in this class bc of they are really intelligent with a good speaking power and m the most dumbest in the class which is my negative point ...
anyways will try if i can make any friend ..

I hope your mates will accept you...If they dont shame on them...
For your mates, I think if they are smart/have a gift, they should help others...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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ur not dumm u just have show them that u are just as good as themmm. and never ever think low of urself .............were all the same noone is above u or below soo never look down on urself.......if u dont give ur self respect noone will.......... i hope i helpped... ❤️

Edited by sexymartiini - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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thk u friends for all ur lovely advices and i would really go with them ...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree with sexymartiini. Don't put yourself down. I'm sure you are just as capable as them.

If you're having trouble finding ways in interacting with them, maybe you could ask someone in your class for help with a problem. Or ask them if they want to study/review together. Find opportunities to talk and slowly you'll become friends. This way, you'll have a better chance at understanding the class subject as well. Two brains are better than one ;)


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Posted: 16 years ago
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You are not dumb. And so what if your english isn't good? In fact I think chinese have the cutest accent and I love it when they try to communicate. Its soo cute! And I just read over your writing right now and thats not bad at all. In fact I would say you are pretty good, and its going to take time and effort on your part to go up. So first thing I would suggest to you is study! Nothing is impossible in life !!

If people in your class don't talk to you its their loss. Don't let it affect you !! :)

Take care.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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hi simran hope yr doing good
1st i wanna say dnt worry!! god is there and so are parents...if parents nt understanding have a talk with yr mom they mostly get what u wanna say...it seriously helps...and dnt degrade yrself by saying yr dummb no way! u aint...encourage yrself!!! relax yrself.... read few good books they help!!! and u'll get frienzz dnt feel alone!!! according to me u shud trust yrself then ppl will trust u...dnt discourage yrself...
inshallah all yr probz will be solved very soon..face challlenges they make u stronger!
love
griffy

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