Originally posted by: *Simran*
I m facing one of the big problems in life my prob is i don't have any friends in college ...
Hmmm, no friends 'huh? I'm not buying it! 😛 I'm pretty sure, actually positive you have some friends! And you know what babes? A friend doesnt necessarily have to be one in school or anything like that! A friend is more like a companion, someone who you can speak to when worst comes to worst! Someone you know will be there for you! Not someone you just call "friend" for a namesake! You can find a friend in your parent (s), sibling (s), other family members, etc. So can you honestly say you have NOBODY like that in your life? Because, although I may not know you, I can say is surely that you have someone like that in your life.
my other prob is they r to intelligent i m a very very average student so i cant speak eng properly ...
Never think like that! Who says ur not intelligent? "A wise man once said, those who work to beat themselves are the ones that will succeed in life." What this means is, you should only worry about how YOU do. Not how others do. If you think you've tried your best- then HECK be proud of yourself! And as far as English goes, im fluent in English, but when it comes to speaking Bengali (my "mother tongue") I can literally have a choke attack! And it's sad, because I should know my own language.
:( But don't ever degrade yourself, not knowing how to do certain things is nothing to be ashamed of!
i sit in a class in the break alone no one likes talking to me .. .. i m a little reserved ...
You know what? Make the first move. Never depend on others to come talk to you first, I've learnt that the harder way. Maybe those people are shy, so why dont you make the move? It just takes a simple "Hi!"
they all hv friends but i dnt i feel really unconfortable ... and i feel sad
Awee, dont be sad! Thats unhealthy.. literally!
ok my other prob is i m finding this course really hard i wnt to leave it but my parents are not agreeing i m really confused in my life and i cry lod .. .. i just want to get out of ths bombshelll
dnt knw wht to do .. bc i hv never taken a first step ...
See you admit that you've never taken the first step! Take the risk sweets! It's worth it, trust me! And if you find this course hard, give it a few weeks, set your mind to it, and if its just not u- then drop it. Your family just want for your best! Dont be mad at them okie? And let me know if I helped u.. in any way! =)
