i do understand your pov but the way akshara has behaved with abhimanyu from past 8 years which even forced him to commit suicide, manjari being a mother who is growing old will always wish for her son to have some one who will protect him post her demise.Originally posted by: sharadrocks
I don't think you are getting my point.
Firstly, I dont watch the show even now so how does it matter who the next lead is, Roohi, Or X Or Y or this unborn child of Akshara. If the story is intriguing enough, I might consider.. Or else I won't. Rest I don't care who the leads are.. Be it character or actor..
Secondly, my point was with what was being portrayed. Manjari had no business in hell telling Akshara what to do. Funnily enough, the men on the show seem more keen on upholding the right of a woman to choose what she wants to do with her body than the women do.
Secondly, a woman moving on from her past has nothing to do with children. Surely you have read of Dimple who chose to live on in the memories of late Captain Vikram Batra even while she wasn't even married to him. Surely there are many such men and women out there. So moving on is about the individual and not about any kids they may bring along with them from a previous relationship.
Thirdly, this debate on blood connect is something that I find repugnant in the light of my own life experiences. So let us once again agree to disagree if you think otherwise.
Lastly whether this wedding should happen or not is for the couple to decide. The mother imposing conditions is ugly. Her concern for her son is justified but then, her son is the one whom she should be addressing those to and not Akshara. He is a grown ass man and not some child who needs handholding. Abhimanyu appears a well-adjusted sensible man going by today's episode and nothing like his mother who is delusional and regressive, her intentions notwithstanding. I am sorry but I find Manjari toxic and if you find her behaviour acceptable and justified, then let us once again agree to disagree.
Thank you for responding!
Akshara has many instance where she believed anyone over abhi and when they said abhimanyu killed abhinav. If she would have not gotten proof at the right time abhimanyu would have been behind bars and if tomorrow something happens to abhinav kid she will not take a second to blame it on abhi and make his life miserable.
Similarly, she has questioned her upbringing and her son's love tagged them as umar kaid. Her gratitude/love for her ex dead husband is so strong that she will not take a second to show abhi his place by saying you are not her father or you are being rude because you are not her father. Where as with abhinav she has always made sure to say you are abhir's father. That's the difference.
Manjari being a mother seeing her son suffered enough because of akshara will surely want to ensure that akshara married abhimanyu for love. She even asked akshara to accept this relation before pregnancy revealation which she denied. So now with the kid she will never accept abhimanyu.
Either she has to accept abhimanyu and marry him and convince manjari that she will give equal love to abhi which will make manjari to accept her kid or she has to take some other decision which will not impact manjari's son.
Not sure if you have seen the show but after this manjari would want assurity from akshara before marriage.
https://x.com/AdmiringGemHC/status/1711835941353185444?s=20
https://x.com/flower_clover0/status/1693987588988899701?s=20
That's all my points. Yeah we are free to disagree.
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