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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Bacche can’t change janmdene wale mata -pita, bacche can’t reject janm denewale mata - pita 😆
Akshara ki happy family vanish ho gayi but yeh sach wohi ka wohi hai 😆😭

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Bacche can’t change janmdene wale mata -pita, bacche can’t reject janm denewale mata - pita 😆
Akshara ki happy family vanish ho gayi but yeh sach wohi ka wohi hai 😆😭

Just one mystery remains about this family - how did they get the surname “Sharma”?? Did Akshara forge some documents again?
Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

I am not talking about Abhir rejecting Abhimanyu - clearly he chose the family he has known since birth. But I am only speaking about how Akshara has treated Abhimanyu - she called him paraya, baharwala etc but never acknowledged him as the father!

I know what you meant. Point is abhir ke janm se akshara ka racha hua juth ka jaal bhi kabhi yeh sach nahi badal sakta that bacche can’t reject janmdenewale parents or change janmdene wale parents.

At last happy family vanish ho gayi lekin yeh sach wohi ka wohi khada hai.

Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

that's why she's never happy and she will never be as long as abhi is unhappy. After destroying a family how can she be


For 6 years she was planning her revenge that one day I will use my son to teach his bio dad a lesson, read law and used another man to make her sand castle. Then she lost the kid legally and had mental breakdown, then the kid chose her back still she isn't happy cause she's bothered about her ex. Now her husband will die and she will be once again unhappy 🤣🤣🤣 she can now pretend she has good intentions in heart and show synpathy to Manju saying let me help u blah blah but people remember how cruel she was. She can't pretend to be mahan when she put the knife surely over the course of years

Damn true ! Akshara ne Abhimanyu ko abhir ki life se out karne ke liye abhir ke janm se he itni taiyariya kari lekin jiske dum par Akshara ne yeh juth ka jaal bichaya tha usi ne dum tod diya and Jo socha tha woh sab khai mai gir gaya 🤣🤣🤣 Karma 🙏
Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Indira1211

it’s a two way thing..both mother and son have an unhealthy relationship..manjeri is the problem..she had no life of her own..no man to love her, no romance, no career so she became obsessed with her son..and he In turn tried to make up for the neglect manjeri got from,his father ..by making manjeri his priority.. and fulfilling her every wish. To be honest.. abhimanyu is the type of man every woman needs to run away from as far as possible.. I’m not from India.. and we don’t live in these huge extended family households where there’s like a dozen people living together in the same house and everyone in the house knows what’s happening in everyone’s lives.. so to me this birla house seems so claustrophobic and terrible., I wouldn’t be able to breathe if I had to live like that with those toxic people..one beating up his wife, other crazy mother son duo, rude arrogant aunty, psychotic cousin who fell to her death..toxic abusive marriage of inlaws..🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️.. so that’s why aksharas life with abhinav was so refreshing and peaceful,.because that’s how we all live where I’m from.. peacefully with no problems from toxic in laws 😂

I too lived outside India after marriage and and the initial few years of privacy did help strengthen the relationship ( though mine was not arranged marriage). Now my inlaws live with us and I do not have any problem living with her.I believe atleast for the initial2-3 yrs after wedding couples should get to live away from in laws so that they can build up their trust. But I do not suggest that kids ( Indian) should abandon their parents for good after marriage. They should try to stay together. It is different ofcourse for kids that grew up outside India.

But to be honest here it is being shown that Manjari treats AbhiM-AK relationship as her toy. Whenever she wants she wants the couple to stay together and be happy.When she does not want she has no qualms breaking their relationship. Had she been not so toxic we would have seen AbhiM reaching out to AK in those 7 months .These type of Moms I believe is not the norm in real life.And as humanity is progessing in-laws are becoming more liberal and understanding. I am talking here about Indian in-laws only.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

And Akshara could have refused! Her family obviously didn’t agree to the match initially so she could have easily found a way to break up with him if she wanted.


You really think that? He lost his mid the first time she rejected him and went on to marry her sister, only to torture Akshara mentally and physically. Abhimanyu is stubborn. He wouldn't let Akshara live peacefully if she had broken up with him which is very explicit from his behaviour during their love story!

Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Ekahriz


You really think that? He lost his mid the first time she rejected him and went on to marry her sister, only to torture Akshara mentally and physically. Abhimanyu is stubborn. He wouldn't let Akshara live peacefully if she had broken up with him which is very explicit from his behaviour during their love story!


No, it literally is not. When she rejected him, he was trying to move on, until SHE came to plan his bday party. And then SHE decided to defend him with him asking her definitely not to. Look, it's ridiculous to say that she only married him out of some pressure; she fought with everyone in order to marry him. Then she had to go and convince him also that she loves him and wants to marry him and will put him first over Arohi.


Kaha se in all of this you think she didn't have a choice ?

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Sharmas are after Birlas money is a new one 😂

Ye mera opinion hai ki Sharma family ko suddenly Abhi ki itni care Hui wo bhi financial discussion ke baad aur inse kaam to hoga nahi, pade rahte hai Goenkas ke ghar me muft ka roti todne. Jab hardwork karna padta tha koi rasta nahi tha tab kiya ab rasta dikh gaya hai to fayda utha rahe hai .



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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: verve




@red Taking care & following blindly are two diff things. First is what every child (boy or girl) must do for their parents. Second is what one shouldn't do for anyone!

If a mother decides who the son should marry (when AB proposed AR but did dola re dola with AK) ; who the son should engage the second time (get married for Ruhi's sake) ; if custody should be fought.... and the son nods to everything despite his heart being not there.. just bcos mother will faint or bcos she has a huge backlog of pain... is defo unhealthy codependency.



Lastly, AB is a bad husband due to his negative traits. No denying AK has her weaknesses as well and has made fair share of mistakes.

But unlike AB, if AK outwardly stated that their marriage felt like life imprisonment to her, then she actually moved on & chose another man.. Which isn't the case with AB..

If AK is so bad then he should be glad to get rid of her but he keeps running after her despite her being as you mentioned imly pulsive, unthoughtful and uncaring.

Bruh, the justification for him getting engaged to Arohi for the first time, going through all the premarital functions with her, then faking a suicide to get her sister to "confess her feelings" and stranding her at the altar being he— a surgeon— got manipulated, cornered by Arohi— a med student is so laughable.

At no point did he — an adult— feel like telling his younger fiancé :

"hey, pal, you know I sent rishta for your sister and am physically, emotionally attracted to her. This very public engagement, mehendi, haldi are a terrible idea; let's stop it before it goes to the altar, and I fake a suicide to emotionally manipulate your sister to change her 'no' into a 'yes'. Because, you know, these things have social implications for you as a woman who is not only younger to me in age but also junior to me in the professional space."

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