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Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

Come on don’t bring all things he did for her acceptance…….during wedding ceremonies and at temple with suicide stunt,spiderman confession

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I’m not someone who made fun of Abhinav and Akshara’s pain.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

But Abhimanyu chose to give Abhir himself. No one forced him nor any court orders he had to follow? I’m not saying he shouldn’t cry out his heart, he has emotions, he is a human, he loves his son and did it for his happiness but when Akshara and Abhinav break down because of Abhir, why are they made fun of? Abhir slept on his father’s chest for 7 years but his emotions are a joke. A mother went through so much to give Abhir birth and raised him but her sickness, hiccups, and wanting to see Abhir was melodramatic? I’m just confused why emotions are reserved for a few people and not everyone.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

And Akshara could have refused! Her family obviously didn’t agree to the match initially so she could have easily found a way to break up with him if she wanted.

She was blinded with love….love makes people do stupid things

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

Akshara couldn’t handle not even a couple of minutes, she broke down in the court itself. Did Akshara not break down outside the courthouse on the floor the day the custody decision was made by the judge? Did she not hallucinate and imagine Abhir? All her rights weren’t taken away, she had weekend visitations and she was still his mom.
Also that same day, she believed she was going to win and told Abhi- you can visit once a month and on holidays- this less than the weekends visits the court gave her. Then she was like I will tell Abhir the truth about being you being his dad but in Kasuali she was worried more about Abhinav knowing the truth about Abhir knowing bio dad and even told Abhinav if you don’t want, we will never tell Abhir his biological dad is Abhi. Then she told Abhi in court that whatever decision the court makes is Kanaji’s wish and they should accept it- but that was for Abhi because she expected to win. When she didn’t win, she turned her back on Kanaji and said Kanaji doesn’t want her happiness.

Custody was a doing of all the parents in one way or the other, and am not blaming Abhimanyu for that. In fact, I didn't even criticize him much for going fwd with it. As a bio parent he had a right to fight for kid's custody.

My issue with him started after he won custody. Saying stuff like "I went to court to let Akshnav win" or questioning god "Why are you doing this?"... doesn't sit right with a man who knows exactly why those things are happening.

This is the same thing he did after WD.. He chose his mum which is ok but then he played the wronged party for 6 long yrs even in front of the family of his ex-wife...

This just shows a pattern where one feels their pain is above everyone else's.

Manju and Abhimanyu have suffered there's no denying that & expressing that isn't wrong.. But the way they always emerge as the most wronged party despite being equally or more wrong is unnerving.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

I don’t know if he is manipulating or not but definitely the situation is quite ironic. Manjari did not like Akshara visiting her son post winning the custody and Abhimanyu too said that because Akshara comes back again and again it is increasing Manjari’s insecurity Vs the Sharmas trying to be the ones bringing Abhir to Abhimanyu because they are aware of his pain and understand it. What I didn’t like in today’s episode though is a child getting exposed to alcoholism like that. Also, Manjari continues to be a hypocrite as always.

Now I am also intrigued to see if Abhinav dies by the hands of an alcoholic Abhimanyu? Is that why Akshara is shown blaming him of pushing and still not him shown going to jail? I mean if they think Abhinav died accidentally so it makes sense ki Goenkas kuch na kare against Abhimanyu, but if they are under the impression that he purposely pushed Abhinav they will at least file an FIR or something?🤔

Poor Abhir got so scared of his loving dida when she walked towards his mom. How can she raise a kid like that? Abhir is not used to such behavior because his father didn’t even raise his voice at his mother so poor child will have to get used to this because a fight breaks loose every other day at the Birla mansion.

I’m sure they’ll show Abhi trying to save Abhinav. There’s no way he’ll actually be responsible for his death. His proving himself innocent will pave way for the reunion and intense romance lol.

Well she said Bade Papa saw you push him 😅. While the promo shows Abhinav letting go of Abhi’s hand while Abhi is trying to save him. I also didn’t like the fact they showed Abhir being around an alcoholic Abhi. I expected Akshara to tell Abhinav to take him into the car.
Everyone agrees Manjiri is hypocritical and has crazy behaviors and that she is part of the reason for Abhi’s situation.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

I don’t know if he is manipulating or not but definitely the situation is quite ironic. Manjari did not like Akshara visiting her son post winning the custody and Abhimanyu too said that because Akshara comes back again and again it is increasing Manjari’s insecurity Vs the Sharmas trying to be the ones bringing Abhir to Abhimanyu because they are aware of his pain and understand it. What I didn’t like in today’s episode though is a child getting exposed to alcoholism like that. Also, Manjari continues to be a hypocrite as always.

Now I am also intrigued to see if Abhinav dies by the hands of an alcoholic Abhimanyu? Is that why Akshara is shown blaming him of pushing and still not him shown going to jail? I mean if they think Abhinav died accidentally so it makes sense ki Goenkas kuch na kare against Abhimanyu, but if they are under the impression that he purposely pushed Abhinav they will at least file an FIR or something?🤔

Originally posted by: verve

Custody was a doing of all the parents in one way or the other, and am not blaming Abhimanyu for that. In fact, I didn't even criticize him much for going fwd with it. As a bio parent he had a right to fight for kid's custody.

My issue with him started after he won custody. Saying stuff like "I went to court to let Akshnav win" or questioning god "Why are you doing this?"... doesn't sit right with a man who knows exactly why those things are happening.

This is the same thing he did after WD.. He chose his mum which is ok but then he played the wronged party for 6 long yrs even in front of the family of his ex-wife...

This just shows a pattern where one feels their pain is above everyone else's.

Manju and Abhimanyu have suffered there's no denying that & expressing that isn't wrong.. But the way they always emerge as the most wronged party despite being equally or more wrong is unnerving.

Originally posted by: verve

Custody was a doing of all the parents in one way or the other, and am not blaming Abhimanyu for that. In fact, I didn't even criticize him much for going fwd with it. As a bio parent he had a right to fight for kid's custody.

My issue with him started after he won custody. Saying stuff like "I went to court to let Akshnav win" or questioning god "Why are you doing this?"... doesn't sit right with a man who knows exactly why those things are happening.

This is the same thing he did after WD.. He chose his mum which is ok but then he played the wronged party for 6 long yrs even in front of the family of his ex-wife...

This just shows a pattern where one feels their pain is above everyone else's.

Manju and Abhimanyu have suffered there's no denying that & expressing that isn't wrong.. But the way they always emerge as the most wronged party despite being equally or more wrong is unnerving.

the bold part- how do they end up emerging as the most wronged party- like I need an example.

How did he guilt trip them? He was drunk in his own house, didn’t know they were coming. In his drunk mode thought he was their imagination. Didn’t even say anything hurtful. So you can’t use a world like guilt trip- that would be done intentionally.

Originally posted by: Indira1211