Originally posted by: Miss-Behave
I heard a saying a few years ago, that nobody knows a man's nature better than his wife, not even his mother. And I can see why when looking at characters like abhimanyu. A lot of men tend to show their best and most obedient sides to their mother's, but their real nature/ temperaments they are more comfortable showing to their partner, because with a mother people tend to feel more morally obligated to be respectful towards their mothers no matter what.
Completely agree. The dynamics a man shares with his mum and wife are different & I don't expect Ab to put Ak on the same pedestal as his mum.
What I tried saying was that if Ab operates from this place of extreme anger, hidden trauma, intrinsic impulsivity as is said in his defense then why does this never come out in front of his mumma. These personality traits are pretty much involuntary.
Like Ak is stupid & selfless so she shows those traits not only for Ar, Ab but also for random girls.
Like Ar is selfish & manipulative so she shows those traits even with her own family.
But not once has Beta Birla let any of his core personality traits hurt his mummy. This means he can exercise control over them, then why doesn't he bother doing so when dealing with other people he claim to love.. Ye kaisi personality huiđ
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