Kairav, Akshara and Abhimanyu - Page 2

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

See, you have to understand that Abhimanyu is a very decent guy at heart. Unfortunately because of his worthless dad, he has so much TRAUMA associated with his childhood that it has caused him to develop severe anger issues.. He doesn't show anger on his mother because that is the one relationship he has learnt to trust, that he knows will never leave him. He was looking for that with Akshu, and Akshu if she truly loved her doc man, should have understood that he will react extremely in anger but give him some time then he will simmer down and be ready to listen to his Akshu and be reasonable. But Akshu just walking away in that moment broke him you know, so that must have increased his TRAUMA even more. That's why he was just a shadow of himself while Akshu being a stronger person was able to move on and make another family for herself. That shows she never truly loved Abhimanyu. Because she doesn't understand his trauma.

So u mean to say ki our trauma give us license to take people for granted. Do u really think AK don't have any trauma? She had just bared a heavy word murderer since her childhood. But it triggered most when love of life claimed the same word for her. Batao jis baat k liye usne Arohi se itni ladayi ki blackmail bhi hua but he did the same thing what Arohi did back then. Logon ka bharosa aur dil dono hi tod raha hai. When he understood her pain? He was ready to listen when AK was ready to show the proof, not phone calls, not now. He just ignored her at every crucial moment then come for another chance. Like really?

Let's forget AK trauma have u ever thought what trauma faced Kairav? He lived his childhood while craving for father, he lost his mom first at the small age, then his father also passed away, he witness his sister bullied by another sister, fiancé dumped & suicide, getting jailed for unwanted reason do u really think these actions are less for trauma?

Let's talk about another person whom majorly people troll him. Yes u r right I am talking about Abhinav. That guy is literally an orphan. No one he has jiske sath wo apna dukh sukh baant sake. All difficulties of life he face alone. Is it less for a trauma? Never get affection, proper education.

Even I have a lot's of trauma to kya main logon k sath ya apne gharwalon k sath badtamizi karti firun aur fir main ye accept karun ki jiska maine dil dukhaya wo mujhe samjhe.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

So u mean to say ki our trauma give us license to take people for granted. Do u really think AK don't have any trauma? She had just bared a heavy word murderer since her childhood. But it triggered most when love of life claimed the same word for her. Batao jis baat k liye usne Arohi se itni ladayi ki blackmail bhi hua but he did the same thing what Arohi did back then. Logon ka bharosa aur dil dono hi tod raha hai. When he understood her pain? He was ready to listen when AK was ready to show the proof, not phone calls, not now. He just ignored her at every crucial moment then come for another chance. Like really?

Let's forget AK trauma have u ever thought what trauma faced Kairav? He lived his childhood while craving for father, he lost his mom first at the small age, then his father also passed away, he witness his sister bullied by another sister, fiancé dumped & suicide, getting jailed for unwanted reason do u really think these actions are less for trauma?

Let's talk about another person whom majorly people troll him. Yes u r right I am talking about Abhinav. That guy is literally an orphan. No one he has jiske sath wo apna dukh sukh baant sake. All difficulties of life he face alone. Is it less for a trauma? Never get affection, proper education.

Even I have a lot's of trauma to kya main logon k sath ya apne gharwalon k sath badtamizi karti firun aur fir main ye accept karun ki jiska maine dil dukhaya wo mujhe samjhe.

She was being sarcastic. 😶

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

She was being sarcastic. 😶

Really? I thought......... Ok Sorry

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

See, you have to understand that Abhimanyu is a very decent guy at heart. Unfortunately because of his worthless dad, he has so much TRAUMA associated with his childhood that it has caused him to develop severe anger issues.. He doesn't show anger on his mother because that is the one relationship he has learnt to trust, that he knows will never leave him. He was looking for that with Akshu, and Akshu if she truly loved her doc man, should have understood that he will react extremely in anger but give him some time then he will simmer down and be ready to listen to his Akshu and be reasonable. But Akshu just walking away in that moment broke him you know, so that must have increased his TRAUMA even more. That's why he was just a shadow of himself while Akshu being a stronger person was able to move on and make another family for herself. That shows she never truly loved Abhimanyu. Because she doesn't understand his trauma.

Abhimanyu k childhood trauma ka theka liya hai kya Akshara ya for that matter kisi bandi ne

Akshara ka khud ka trauma enough hai.

And what is this never truly loved Abhimanyu.

Did Abhimanyu loved Ak? If yes bhagwan mujhe toh aesa pyaar krne wala na de jo aese behave krta ho

Also, please stop glorifying toxicity and trauma bonding in the name of true love

Nice post ❤️

Just few things I feel

Though I understand Manish is very wrong as on other side is Abhimanyu who is shitty character but one thing is he is very annoyed and angry also because Akshara hid the truth even with family. And she did this before for every small things as well. When Abhir was sick or was in hospital. Though I do feel he is wrong I feel Akshara cannot act according to her convenience everytime. Atleast one family member deserved to know the truth.

Honestly she was lucky to get a good man in her life who helped her supported her stuff with her but in reality you will get raped on streets. She can tell goenkas or Kairav I do not want to stay in Udaipur just need some money to start new life outside. Butt that's ok.

And I don't think Kairav manhandled muskaan. He just holded her hand once. Yeah he could have handled that boy nicely that I completely agree.

I don't want to tell anything about Abhimanyu as his character annoys me. They are just doing timepass so they reunite this Abhira. Now Jaaniye song is back. Abhinav is given back seat and Akshara blurting out relationship truth is all nonsense they are showing.

Once Abhinav is given ending I'll quit too as I have zero interest left in Abhira. If she backs to her toxic love that selfish woman don't even need our sympathy.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

Really? I thought......... Ok Sorry

It is totes alright. And I agree with everything you said

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Nice post ❤️

Just few things I feel

Though I understand Manish is very wrong as on other side is Abhimanyu who is shitty character but one thing is he is very annoyed and angry also because Akshara hid the truth even with family. And she did this before for every small things as well. When Abhir was sick or was in hospital. Though I do feel he is wrong I feel Akshara cannot act according to her convenience everytime. Atleast one family member deserved to know the truth.

Honestly she was lucky to get a good man in her life who helped her supported her stuff with her but in reality you will get raped on streets. She can tell goenkas or Kairav I do not want to stay in Udaipur just need some money to start new life outside. Butt that's ok.

And I don't think Kairav manhandled muskaan. He just holded her hand once. Yeah he could have handled that boy nicely that I completely agree.

I don't want to tell anything about Abhimanyu as his character annoys me. They are just doing timepass so they reunite this Abhira. Now Jaaniye song is back. Abhinav is given back seat and Akshara blurting out relationship truth is all nonsense they are showing.

Once Abhinav is given ending I'll quit too as I have zero interest left in Abhira. If she backs to her toxic love that selfish woman don't even need our sympathy.

Yeah, I get it. I am also getting really annoyed with Akshara. I just want her to give same attitude that she gives to Abhimanyu to everyone who taunts her.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

I have read Abhimanyu loves Akshara, it just that he loses his control when gets angry and once he calms down he keeps coming back to her. It's not love. It is a toxic co-dependent relationship which is literally what Abhira's relationship is.

Because he loves his mom and he has never let his anger inflict direct pain on his mom. Never ever blamed her for things she outrightly, explicitly did.

Highlight of the thread 💯

The fact that Beta Birla around his mumma knows how to restrain himself when angry, how to be calm & talk convincingly when having disagreements, how to never raise his voice or accuse publicly, how to always stand in defense even when knowing she's wrong, clearly shows that he knows how a person supposedly behaves with people they love & is v.much capable of being that person.

It's just that this version is reserved for respected mumma, who's the only one he has ever truly & unconditionally loved.

Originally posted by: India_TV

What is Abhi planning to do with Abhir’s life?

He has promised arohi that ruhi and abhir will be his dil and dhadkan. Arohi has clearly mentioned that Ruhi is her priority and she will not make ruhi learn to adjust.

Suppose he wins the case, abhir uske saath rahega.

He will marry Arohi. Arohi will be abhir”s step mom. Usne clear kar diya hai ki she will prioritize ruhi.

So Abhi plans to bring abhir up in this environment? Am I missing anything?

Ahh don't worry 😆

The greatest papa in world has already purchased loads of buckets to cry in when he won't be able to balance his "dil" and "dhadkan" in future.

Originally posted by: verve

Highlight of the thread 💯

The fact that Beta Birla around his mumma knows how to restrain himself when angry, how to be calm & talk convincingly when having disagreements, how to never raise his voice or accuse publicly, how to always stand in defense even when knowing she's wrong, clearly shows that he knows how a person supposedly behaves with people they love & is v.much capable of being that person.

It's just that this version is reserved for respected mumma, who's the only one he has ever truly & unconditionally loved.

I heard a saying a few years ago, that nobody knows a man's nature better than his wife, not even his mother. And I can see why when looking at characters like abhimanyu. A lot of men tend to show their best and most obedient sides to their mother's, but their real nature/ temperaments they are more comfortable showing to their partner, because with a mother people tend to feel more morally obligated to be respectful towards their mothers no matter what.